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INFO: if he was not consuming porn but still masturbating daily via a head full of fantasies — some involving you, some involving a host of other people from his personal past and the pop culture present — would this still be a problem?
I also had a relationship like that. We broke up for different reasons, but I understand where you are coming from.
What you need to understand is, after doing it for so many years, watching that kind of stuff is sort of a habit or more like an addiction for some people. It is not abnormal, it doesn't count as cheating, but if you are unconfortable with it you two should talk it out and he should still respect your wishes.
He deserves better than you. You cheated MULTIPLE times, and you still think you’re worthy of his love? Dear lord, get a grip and grow up, tell him he cheated so he can move on with his life.
At 29 weeks you cannot get an abortion in my state. Also, I would not want to after being the one to grow and love this baby every day. I get to feel him kicking in there and we have already named him, I can see your POV maybe if I had just found out I was pregnant, but the baby is almost here and I love him dearly.
Oh yeah, he's gay or at least bi. Honestly, it's probably over, if he's not willing to open the relationship, he'll end up cheating on you. Let him go, he'll come back to you if he's meant to.
I would not want to go through life with that kind of partner. He won't be able to support you through the bad stuff. I was healthy and had no issues. Met my husband at 39, married at 42. Life was bliss. We were having so much fun. Then at 43 I was diagnosed with a brain tumor. Had to have a year long medical adventure that was far from upbeat. Cleared that, then got a touch of the breast cancer a year later. Life is not always upbeat and positive. When looking for your life partner, you want to find someone who isn't so easily shook. He may have trauma and need therapy, but no, it is not normal and it shouldn't be a thing. Life needs to be lived truthfully and with awareness. How can you fully appreciate the ups and positive moments that if you don't allow yourself to see the shit once in awhile? I have a brother in law who gets like this and shuts “uncomfortable” conversations down. He is boring and a control freak. When he chose to not come to a family member's funeral, because it was too uncomfortable for him, the whole family was done with him. It won't get better and you don't want to lose your depth and awareness to please him.
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He just wants you to make you uncomfortable. Why is the babysitter good enough to watch the kids any other day except the wedding? Don’t allow him or his family to make you attend something you are not comfortable doing.
hmm i do pay a decent amount of her rent and the lease was close to ending but she’s not from this town she moved down here for me but doesn’t want to go back. she did flirt with him while we were still dating but everything after was done after we broke up. the disney trip we’ve talked about doing for years i just kinda never did it because i’m lazy and even now she’s been talking about doing another one and she’s kinda planning it. i have told her that i’m okay with her living in the apartment still because we have separate rooms and she can be with him but that i just won’t talk to her but she refuses that idea and insist that she wants me in her life no matter what and can’t afford to lose me even though i’ve made it an option she won’t lose anything in life besides me
What did he have for dinner and did you have it too? If you like him, text to see if hes feeling better and if hes embarrassed you can have amnesia about what happened. If you dont like him that much, just let him drift away in embarrassment.
INFO: if he was not consuming porn but still masturbating daily via a head full of fantasies — some involving you, some involving a host of other people from his personal past and the pop culture present — would this still be a problem?
I also had a relationship like that. We broke up for different reasons, but I understand where you are coming from.
What you need to understand is, after doing it for so many years, watching that kind of stuff is sort of a habit or more like an addiction for some people. It is not abnormal, it doesn't count as cheating, but if you are unconfortable with it you two should talk it out and he should still respect your wishes.
She wanted to smash others then and still wants to smash others now
Pretty sure you never had a monogamous relationship
Just end it
He deserves better than you. You cheated MULTIPLE times, and you still think you’re worthy of his love? Dear lord, get a grip and grow up, tell him he cheated so he can move on with his life.
At 29 weeks you cannot get an abortion in my state. Also, I would not want to after being the one to grow and love this baby every day. I get to feel him kicking in there and we have already named him, I can see your POV maybe if I had just found out I was pregnant, but the baby is almost here and I love him dearly.
you don’t have to tell her if you don’t want to 🙂
The same way not every person is for everybody I guess. Have fun being alone if that’s the kind of company you keep.
You could have written something that sounded slightly believable, but this really gives it away even to the most gullible reader.
Boring troll, maybe a 2/10 at best.
Oh yeah, he's gay or at least bi. Honestly, it's probably over, if he's not willing to open the relationship, he'll end up cheating on you. Let him go, he'll come back to you if he's meant to.
I would not want to go through life with that kind of partner. He won't be able to support you through the bad stuff. I was healthy and had no issues. Met my husband at 39, married at 42. Life was bliss. We were having so much fun. Then at 43 I was diagnosed with a brain tumor. Had to have a year long medical adventure that was far from upbeat. Cleared that, then got a touch of the breast cancer a year later. Life is not always upbeat and positive. When looking for your life partner, you want to find someone who isn't so easily shook. He may have trauma and need therapy, but no, it is not normal and it shouldn't be a thing. Life needs to be lived truthfully and with awareness. How can you fully appreciate the ups and positive moments that if you don't allow yourself to see the shit once in awhile? I have a brother in law who gets like this and shuts “uncomfortable” conversations down. He is boring and a control freak. When he chose to not come to a family member's funeral, because it was too uncomfortable for him, the whole family was done with him. It won't get better and you don't want to lose your depth and awareness to please him.
Couples counseling is not recommended in abuse situations. OP can seek solo counseling and so can her husband but not together.
I mean you are the villain in this story. It sounds like he's a great guy and you don't deserve him.
Yeah, I guess that makes sense
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He just wants you to make you uncomfortable. Why is the babysitter good enough to watch the kids any other day except the wedding? Don’t allow him or his family to make you attend something you are not comfortable doing.
hmm i do pay a decent amount of her rent and the lease was close to ending but she’s not from this town she moved down here for me but doesn’t want to go back. she did flirt with him while we were still dating but everything after was done after we broke up. the disney trip we’ve talked about doing for years i just kinda never did it because i’m lazy and even now she’s been talking about doing another one and she’s kinda planning it. i have told her that i’m okay with her living in the apartment still because we have separate rooms and she can be with him but that i just won’t talk to her but she refuses that idea and insist that she wants me in her life no matter what and can’t afford to lose me even though i’ve made it an option she won’t lose anything in life besides me
What did he have for dinner and did you have it too? If you like him, text to see if hes feeling better and if hes embarrassed you can have amnesia about what happened. If you dont like him that much, just let him drift away in embarrassment.
A best friend for whom OP could eventually build an art room, no doubt?
Just tell her you want a divorce so she needs to get her shit together.
Just because your mom took those moments from you doesn't give you the right to take them from another new mom.
I couldn't have said it better
she gonna unblock me anyways, they always do ??
Or try to go the open marriage route, so many great examples of that working on this sub. /s