As for how to cope with it on your end, hopefully you have hobbies of your own that you can occupy yourself with without needing to do everything with her. Having a degree of independence in a relationship is a good thing even when no other issues are present
Don't get married to him. Go to r/justnomil and get an idea of your future.
As for how to cope with it on your end, hopefully you have hobbies of your own that you can occupy yourself with without needing to do everything with her. Having a degree of independence in a relationship is a good thing even when no other issues are present