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Date: October 24, 2022
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Yea I was just stuck it happened a lil while ago I I’m pretty sure I got somebody new tho she being flirty ?
Are these the same information you give out on dates?
You picked the worst time to have that conservation with her you idiot
My opinion your dad is problem. If you haven't had any issues since you moved out and they had put the past issues aside he shouldn't be bringing it up. It sounds like he's on a power trip. You are married your husband comes before your dad. Your kids needs to be with there parents more then there grandparents it's not fair to your husband to miss out on those memories with his kids.
You gave him your Christmas gifts while he gave you emotional, mental and potentially physical damage! I wish you the best on the results when you get checked. Get rid of this man and start your new year clean.
A good friend would be honest BEFORE walking away and give the person an opportunity to remedy.
If you’re already past that point then there’s no point in wasting your breath. But there’s no need to “break up” formally either. Just stop calling her or taking her calls. Stop meeting up. If she asks why, I suppose you could tell her but it’s unlikely to make a difference.
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The age gap alarms me. Especially as a queer bottom. If my son was in your position, I’d be worried about my son dating a man who is old enough to be his father making jokes, objectifying and humiliating my child in front of his family. It isn’t just stupid. It’s disrespectful to you and your “bottom” role in the connection. Please date people who respect you.
Do not marry this man you will always be #2
Had it been the other way around he would have left you way before the one year mark. You guys have had several conversations about this and nothing has changed. I would break up
I'm not sure how you've read the post three times and failed to catch the part where this is my wife's idea. I don't have any desire to crush my son, I'm trying to help him learn. My wife is insisting that we play at full strength and do not let him win. She is continually, currently insisting this, now, even in the face of me suggesting that we could try a different way. She is adamant that she will not play below her strength, and is insistent that I don't play below my strength either. She says that playing poorly will not help him learn. Then she is turning around, playing below her strength, objectively and inarguably, and then denying that she's doing it to my face. That's the issue.
Aw I’m sorry. Maybe good exercise and meditation/yoga.
She has been cheating on you for a long time and you had to find out one of the worse ways possible. Yes, throwing 6 years away in order to not be with a cheater sounds like a good idea. Don’t get caught up in sunk cost fallacy, cheaters tend to change their spots as much as leopards do, and they ALL promise up and down that they will never do that again. In their book of rules, never means til the next person they develop an interest to comes around.
Leave anyone who cheats on you.
If people cheat on you, then they either don't respect your intelligence and think you're too stupid to find out, or they don't respect your personhood by betraying your trust openly.
Holy fucking victim blaming. Imagine it was her that was blackout drunk, doesnt remember shit, and the dude was someone who was sober. You WOULD NOT be saying this shit. At all.
“I find her perfect” Then you go on to complain about major charater flaws. Grow a damn spine and get some self worth. In fact it might be illeagle to date someone with the emotional and mental capicity of a moldy sponge.
Oh so this is why I see for example 10 comments under the post, but I can only read 2 or 3
The fact that you have to ask this question about your partner should tell all that you need to know about this relationship
I'm not trying to justify it either. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in what seems impossible we take the easy way out. Its a temperary escape. Not able to face the harsh realities of life. Well, thats not the clear answer that solves problems and it hurts more people then just you and your husband. With all my heart and compassion it's time to put your big girl panties on and face reality. Weather you tell him about the affair is up to you, as far as Im concerned it wont do him any favors if you cant own up to 100% it in your own heart. If you cant, he needs ro be able to decide for himself what he wants for his future. Deception is an aweful way to on-line. If your straighten up and get your act together, you have less demons to face on a day to day basis.
You know what needs to be done.
Sometimes something can be wrong, then you add even more factors that make it even more egregious.
Doesn't always have to mean it's only wrong for these extra given reasons.
So long story short I'm with him because the good is great and mostly outweighs the bad in my eyes (at least I try to keep a positive outlook) the bad is deeply disturbing and devastating in really big ways tho
His only concern is losing his gravy train. You need to respect yourself
Many of these games do not pause and will impact your performance negatively if you walk away.
What he needs to do is manage his time and priorities better. I have played a bunch of different games and really, if you know you’re going to have to do something IRL in 30 minutes, you shouldn’t start playing. If you know it takes 20 minutes to get to a place to save, logout, or finish a round… you have to be aware of the time and start disengaging 20 minutes before it’s time to do the thing.
The best way to both play and manage responsibilities is having a designated time block where others are aware you don’t want to be disturbed, instead of letting it bleed into chores or appointments or whatever.
See if you can talk to him about it and set up some schedule that allows him a few unbroken hours for hobby time regularly. If he’s angry or doesn’t even want to talk about reigning it in, you may be dealing with an actual gaming addiction. If that’s the case, you may as well leave. That won’t fix until he acknowledges the problem himself.