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You were just her FWB, it doesn’t seem like she truly betrayed you because you were never truly in an exclusive relationship. Right now you might want to scorched earth and blow up her whole life but I would prob let it marinate for a few days. Either way you should block her and be gone from her life but I’m not sure reaching out to her husband and escalating will make you feel any better.
Accept its over. It takes two people to work on a relationship and one does not want anymore.
Focus on you and your life now.
Google “roommate contract” it will give you some ideas of topics you need to bring up.
“Hey boyfriend, now that we have been living together for a week and are starting to settle in there are some things we need to discuss…” like chores around the house, what time you each like to go to bed/wake up, how are we dividing up the cost of household essentials, etc. His responses will tell you things you need to know upfront to decide if this is going to work out or not. Stick to your guns on things that are important to you, be willing to compromise on things that you are not as concerned with. Don’t let him walk all over you or blow it off.
But also, sit down and discuss the renovations. He is your boyfriend, not your handy man. Unless the agreement was he lives there rent free and fixes stuff for you in exchange for rent. I’d also be annoyed if as soon as I moved in I was expected to take on a lot of manual labor that only really benefitted my boyfriend in the long run, if my name isn’t also on the house.
Change is difficult for a lot of people and divorce, the separating of the family home, is one of the worst. It seems that while you’ve come to terms with it, your STBX has become comfortable in your shared limbo and doesn’t want it to change. Unfortunately I think it’ll slip back into this limbo pretty soon.
Move on for both of your sakes.