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Even on a slow night that’s cheap and most clubs have a minimum that you have to charge or a set price so it wouldn’t matter if it’s slow. Even the clubs that cater to cheap people that I’ve worked at the minimum for an hour is $600.
if you like him when you’re around him and dislike him when you’re away… it probably means you don’t like him as a person but you like the way his presence makes you feel.
You deserve someone you like as a person AND like to be around. He deserves someone who likes him and is his own age.
You are not responsible for her mental health. She is. You’re both your own individuals. Her threatening to harm herself is in now way your responsibility. This is what I had to understand after leaving a relationship where my ex-partner treated me like her therapist and not a partner.
You don’t even have to explain yourself for leaving her. She chooses not to be understanding of your situation. It’s not nude to understand that you want to spend your time with your grandmother who’s basically your second mom. It’s her being selfish and immature and you don’t need that in your life. No one does.
Too many people in my town are irresponsible dog owners. I'm a little jaded on that, I guess.
You should approach the situation with facts. Tell your fiance that after meeting her cousin, you realized you had engaged in a sexual encounter with her prior to meeting. You have no reason to believe this is your child. The cousin never told you she was pregnant. She's married to someone else who is raising the child. If it ever comes up in the future that you could possibly be this child's father, you would have already been honest about the situation.
Don’t get married until y’all have a serious talk about values, how you expect any children to be raised, your bodily autonomy if a pregnancy is not viable or endangers you, etc. This cannot wait until after the wedding. Pause the engagement until you’re sure y’all are still compatible.
First of, for some reason this is read inside my mind with a British accent of some sort. Secondly I guess yeah, sorry mate, I'd consider it cheating. But you going missing and all that aren't a good thing either, but it doesn't justify her having sex with some dude. Would she be fine, if you have had sex with some girl?
Then no, it's not cheating.
To make sure you understand, Nobody and I mean NOBODY in the entire social work and foster care universe want to see a child, especially a little one who may have been traumatized by what just happened with mom, get into the hands of CPS aka “the system”. Getting kids OUT of the system is a reason many people become foster parents or respite care providers in the first place.
This is good advice. I'd only add feeling different feelings and not know what to think of them are pretty normal. I remember with my first kiss thinking up to it, how nude it would be but then the actual process of spit and things grossed me out for awhile. Now I just don't think about it, but that came with practice and things will likely change. There's also no pressure to like it too
Also medication. Duloxetine didn’t work for me. Venlafaxine has. But this has to be from her and her experience, not yours. Depression is very nude. I love this quote from Stephen Fry
If you know someone who’s depressed, please resolve never to ask them why. Depression isn’t a straightforward response to a bad situation; depression just is, like the weather.
Try to understand the blackness, lethargy, hopelessness, and loneliness they’re going through. Be there for them when they come through the other side. It’s very hot to be a friend to someone who’s depressed, but it is one of the kindest, noblest, and best things you will ever do.
Sex is an incredibly important part of a relationship but if it is the only thing you have in common, it might not make you happy in the long run.
I made sure about this. He isn't in an open relationship, he isn't about to divorce either. I honestly don't care about him. I want here to built a happy life and i don't think this is the way.
add the “s” in there and it will be perfect. He's Gayslighting
It’s your body if you don’t wanna have an abortion do not have one. I’m not against having one if you want one or you feel like it’s necessary, but don’t let somebody talk you into it. You were old enough to take care of a child on your own and make your way in the world people people are doing it much younger ages so if you want baby, keep it.
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Is this really an issue men face? Maybe it’s a country issue but I’ve never turned down a man because he’s uncircumcised. That’s fucking strange if women do that.
Your wife entered a relationship with you knowing full well that you have children from a previous relationship and that you will always be family with your ex. Your wifes toxic attitude and trying to control you is the real issue here. She has been counting the days till she can demand you cut of the mother of your children and held that crazy red flag in for all those years.
Don’t ever loan anything of value to those friends who said you shouldn’t have it repaired.
you are 22 and your relationship isn't likely to last no matter what happens. You will not recognize this man if you trip over him in public in 20 years. Why not just go your own way. Empathy isn't something you switch on and off. I didn't even know the word for it when I was younger. I used to feel people's emotions in the grocery store. I could tell who was fighting, who had been crying, who was having a good or bad day. It was actually scary and exhausting. I didn't know not everyone feels it. I remember going to nightclubs in my 20s and it wasn't fun unless I got drunk cause I could sense everything. Shrooms helped that. I rolled a monster truck in my 40s and I think it changed things. I don't sense everything anymore. I have spots on my brain, 2 doctors have said MS but I think it was the truck accident. I mean I'm sure you don't want him to actually feel your anxiety just as you don't want to feel his ADHD. ugh, I remember being around people on meth, the idea of feeling hyperactive people still gives me a creepy crawly feeling but none of this really matters. This man isn't the ONLY man. You'll be fine without him. You'll make room for someone better for you both. Concentrate on yourself. You've got time but you're also wasting time. We online by rote, we become habits to each other. Break this habit. Do some things for yourself you never forget. Enjoy your youth. People come, people go, only a precious few you should hold on to.. from Baz Luhrman the Sunscreen Song.
Makes you think if there are any unexplainable incidents with other people/things happened around OP, that can be explained by the wife going behind her back and doing something vile.
OP says she gardens “a lot,” so, she's outside “a lot.” Is he supposed to rearrange his schedule so his wife doesn't get jealous? Now you say he should hire someone? A lot of guys enjoy doing yard work. Plus, hiring it is unnecessary and expensive on top of giving up something you like to do.
You are certified crazy.
Thought you weren't gonna keep talking to me? Just can't resist beinf a dick?
OP should definitely consult a lawyer, it’s never a bad idea to do that. I read that if you sign an agreement stating that income and debt will be treated separately BEFORE taking on loans then they won’t be liable in communal property states. But I’m not a lawyer and if someone is in doubt, contacting a lawyer will never hurt. Anything can happen so people should always protect themselves.
Perhaps he’s treating you like this because he knows he can treat you like this. This is ridiculous. This is the kind of shit I would d tolerated in my 20s that I never would now at 45. Two weeks is a long time and cruises are romantic settings and she’s already flirting – which he acknowledges. This is a hill worth dying on. You’re not the one ruining a 2 year relationship, he is.
It only sounds rude because the truth hurts
You're not bad for wanting to end a relationship you don't want to be in. There doesn't have to be anything “wrong” to end a relationship. If it doesn't feel right for you, or it's simply not what you want, that's totally ok.
Unfortunately break ups are always difficult and you can never control how someone is going to feel it react to a break up.
Just be as honest and respectful as you can. Part of that is making sure you break up face to face. I'd suggest depending on your situation, do it at her home, or suggest going for a walk, that's not too far from her home.
Just say mostly what you said here, there is nothing wrong with the relationship, with her, but you simply don't feel this is what you want right now…
Neither of you are going to feel good about it.
Another thing I would recommend, which people don't often add when talking about break ups. I'd highly recommend cutting all contact, as nude as it is, it ultimately makes it easier for both of you to move on. Staying in each other's lives can often give false hope.
Agreed. Maybe I am looking for someone to help me understand what he might be thinking. How can he be that tired. Why so irritable?
Man, some of you are on here acting like narcissistic sociopaths/psychopaths don’t exist. “Get a ring camera, a chain lock, pepper spray”. It’s easy as fuck to say when you don’t have to deal with it.
My ex-wife literally broke into my hotel room when I left her….I wasn’t there, she was armed, and had an active restraining order on her from me. All because I found out that she was screwing some dude and I wanted out. Yes, getting cheated on sucks. But if you don’t need to be apart of the blow up, then stay out of it.
From now on he makes his own food, washes his own clothes, everything. Stop doing things for him. When h asks why, tell him. I don’t think I’ve ever had to ask my husband to help. We are partners. We see something that needs done and we do it. This sounds miserable and I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with child.
I’m sorry for your loss. I’m struggling to get through to him more I think.. he’s really closing himself off of me.
That bit you said that is really good I think. I’ll have to say something along those lines. But it’s nude to get through to him when he’s closed off like that. Like today he’s been super quiet and awkward and I don’t know how to deal with it I don’t wanna bring tough stuff up cause we’re going away in a bit for the day
Yeah, the good relationships part is key here. This isn't a good relationship.
Sounds like she’s making things up because she intends to use them against you when she divorces you. If she can claim you are “abusive” in some way at she will get more. And with so many types of abuse (financial, emotional) being a thing these days and no real evidence being needed she might be trying that.
Or else she’s spending too much time on bitter womens forums and imagines herself a victim because she’s resentful of being a SAHM and no longer loves you
bruh
The cost of the ring has zip to do w/ how much you value the relationship or her.
If the cost of the ring for her symbolizes this, time to reevaluate.
No one making 48k a year has any business spending 5-10k on a ring. It is ridiculous. It is a depreciating asset. There are lots of lovely 2k rings out there, there are lots of lovely 1k rings out there. There are even – gasp – plain gold bands that people wear to show their marriage (they don't even have stones in them!!!)
Resentment and being on very different financial pages need to be resolved before you get engaged.
Stop convincing yourself that bigger meant better, it just isn’t. Focus more on learning and making it interesting and exciting instead of the past. It serves neither of you.
Yea, while I understand hesitancy to open up to people given the history of deceit – what kind of world are we going to have if we don’t teach others how to be more considerate, sustainable and kind? :/
My partner and I online together now but for years only saw each other at the weekend. He worked crazy shifts and I really enjoyed my independence.
why are you still dating him ? Neither told you ? how did you find out ?
I read the original post. I don’t get it. Did you share the same bed with your brother that’s why your husband was angry? or you just offered your bed to him and you sleep on the couch? I don’t understand why your husband was angry.
I’m getting the impression that you should plan on carrying the load if you remain with him. You’re a go getter and he’s willing to online off what his dad provides him with. You’ll likely end up resenting him for this and that’s understandable.
I might be rethinking this relationship before having a serious “state of the relationship talk” which would include an actual plan for him to get a move on it, with a time deadline included.
Good luck ?
The way he keeps pushing and pushing and pushing, despite your repeated requests for him to stop is abusive.
There is something deeply ugly about what he is doing to you.
Think long and nude about this relationship, OP.
careful, keep doing that and you’ll make me horny
That's you demanding that he continue doing what he was doing.
No, you consented, very clearly consented and even participated in everything by pulling off his shirt.
What could you possibly gain? Cheaters aren't worth the time and effort it takes to dump them. Just disappear like a fart in the wind.
She wants to highlight that she isn't worthless or freeloading on you.
Sit her down. And ask her, who made her feel like she had to defend herself on that subject so nude.
And maybe watch what you may have thrown at her head during a quarrel.
She seems to feel like she doesn't hold much value in your couple. Which may be her own inner problem.
Or… you should sound her out, what causes her to feel that way related to both of yours couples behaviour.
Why can’t I see the rest of the comments?
No, she does not want any form of counseling. I am trying to find a good balance of giving her space to process and letting her know that nothing has changed for me. I have told her a million times that I love her and do not want anything to change. I wish I had magic words to make her understand.
Look, I’m not calling your girlfriend a duck… but she waddles everywhere, she honks at strangers, and she only communicates via loud “QUACK QUACK QUACK” noises…
(OP, ever heard the idiom “if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck…” yeah. She be a racist.)
You know what you are doing, hopefully your wise up and make the right choice going forward
people on Reddit are just quick to be high and mighty when it comes to gaslighting.
At least you call yourself out, I guess? There is literally no gaslighting in the original post, nor is there in the thread you are in. You are assuming there’s some gaslighting going on as the “more to that story.” The reality is that people are quick to misuse the term gaslighting, which undermines those who actually experience gaslighting. Hence why people on reddit try to call out misuse.
OP hasn’t even asked his wife about the lingerie, so no gaslighting there. In this thread the person doesn’t state that waxing partner gaslights the other partner, just that they found out through waxing. Someone else shared that some women wax for reasons other than sex and you introduce gaslighting for no reason.
We’re going to have to agree to disagree. Probably the best outcome because I assume you’re going to stick to your claim that you appropriately used the term gaslighting when you absolutely did not.
You’re turned off of him gaining 10pounds? I hope you never get pregnant ?
Seriously though, this is one of the vainest posts I’ve ever read on this sub. You sound incredibly self-absorbed, it’s 10 pounds across MONTHS.
Eating violently is gross, being repulsed by 10pounds is grosser.
Well, I didn't just come out and say “I'm feeling unloved” and left it there. I usually start with asking if he is in a headspace to talk about something, discuss what is going on and why I am feeling that way, and convey it thoroughly. I am often too communicative for him – I want to talk things out to work them out, and he would rather sit on them and never bring them up.
You both are bad at this. He needs to stop putting his foot in his mouth and you need to stop asking questions that you don’t want the answer to. Him not regarding your feelings is exhausting, and you asking constantly if he thinks you’re pretty is exhausting. Performing various tests isn’t cute. If the question “can I do anything” is asking if you can tell him he can’t talk to his friends…I mean, you can do what you like, but that will never end well. Do you have a reason not to trust him?
much of this is the bare minimum to expect from someone – is respectful to your friends and wants you to have your own life.
Right? I lived alone at 20 and I was a baby still. I worked on top of of college and paid my own rent and everything else. I did things professional adults do, but I was young because I was alone and was extrapolating based on my own life experiences, which were limited since I was just out of my teens.
Your bf sounds like he’s 18 because of his immaturity, plus he has a lot of issues to unpack. I don’t see a future in your relationship, and I think you know that too. He isn’t a certified AH, he’s a certified abuser. You should think long and nude on what you’re getting yourself into with him.