Sorry but it seems pretty unfair to force a child on someone who clearly told you ahead of time that they had no interest in parenting. Since you are both adults and know where babies come from but did not actually finish the important part of that convo that discussed what you would do if you got pregnant, this is basically on both of you. It's genuinely not the sort of thing you get to have miscommunication about. If you continue the pregnancy, you should do so knowing he has no interest and told you this upfront. You can't really be angry about it in retrospect although I understand the situation sucks.
Also, no offense but it is absolutely not a miracle. You are two people in their 30's who had sex using zero birth control. That was…not smart. That isn't a miracle; it's literally just how biology works.
Do not trap this longtime friend that you otherwise care about into making a person with you. That's not very cool.
Wow, how incredibly immature you are. Bunch of terrible ideas, don’t. Seriously, it would be a mistake on your part, don’t.
Sorry but it seems pretty unfair to force a child on someone who clearly told you ahead of time that they had no interest in parenting. Since you are both adults and know where babies come from but did not actually finish the important part of that convo that discussed what you would do if you got pregnant, this is basically on both of you. It's genuinely not the sort of thing you get to have miscommunication about. If you continue the pregnancy, you should do so knowing he has no interest and told you this upfront. You can't really be angry about it in retrospect although I understand the situation sucks.
Also, no offense but it is absolutely not a miracle. You are two people in their 30's who had sex using zero birth control. That was…not smart. That isn't a miracle; it's literally just how biology works.
Do not trap this longtime friend that you otherwise care about into making a person with you. That's not very cool.
Even your average 8 y/o has better personal hygiene. For your own sake, please break up with him.