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Date: November 23, 2022
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There are somethings tho that we can’t really ask.
Like if a women has done porn or prostitution. I’m going to assume the girl I go out with hasn’t because most women have not. If she hasn’t and I ask her if she has she may take offence. This is a deal breaker for me so I would like to know if she has but I’m not gonna bring it up.
Wanting a baby EVENTUALLY and wanting a baby NOW are totally different and cannot be treated the same. Just because he already has another kid does not invalidate his feelings. His response may be extreme but at the end of the day he's not ready/wanting for a new kid now.
As someone who has battled anorexia over half their life all I can say is I'm so so sorry. If it weren't for my parents I would have died. You very much need a support system, and your parents need serious counseling. Maybe you could recommend group therapy, and not tell them exactly as to why? Just that your mental health would benefit.
When he says he “didn't know” he was staring ask him if something is wrong with him medically because people have control over their bodies so he should see a neurologist if he can't control his head and eyes.
A different relationship, I do believe that they can change, but I don’t know how to get past that first curve of it. I know they want to make me happy, because they know I’m unfulfilled. They know but they ask for time, and I’m willing to give it as long as I see small progress along the way, which I haven’t been. And by the experience I mean the celebration of our love with our friends and family, we took it seriously but just not as seriously as others (we’re not religious or anything).
My opinion-
There’s no such thing as perfect, maybe he is perfect for you, but it’s been 4 months so check yourself on your expectations and don’t put him on a pedestal – that isn’t fair to either of you.
41 and has only been to 1 strip club in his life? Sorry- not buying that. I’ve heard that line before and usually it means « it’s not my scene » but by 41 he has likely been on business trips, to bachelor parties etc
Why do you feel uncomfortable? Because he is going to a sexually charged environment where alcohol is served and you won’t be there to supervise. If you’re that concerned you can talk to him and establish boundaries you are comfortable with (no touching, no private dances, etc) but 4 months in, he has done the courtesy of letting you know about the invite and that it’s not his scene, so I would probably leave it at that.
The absolute gall of him accusing you of “using him for money” when you're the one who gave him money and he's refusing to help you when you're in the same situation. Wow, just amazing. He's showing you very clearly that he'll expect you to bend over backward for him but will never do the same for you.
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Yeah, I'm not buying the him not taking care of his dog is the reason they aren't compromising.
To actually compromise one needs to communicate. And from what it sounds like, they are not communicating.
Don’t be in an exclusive relationship with someone who doesn’t trust or respect you.
I once smiled politely at a guy in a grocery store while I reached past him for something and he launched into a spiel about how we were destined for each other that I didn’t fully hear because I had headphones on.
Took my headphones off, said, “Sorry, I’m actually gay and have a girlfriend.”
He followed me around the grocery store telling me he didn’t believe me and to just give him a chance, so I decided to just pay for what I had in my basket and leave.
Then he followed me to the cash register and asked everyone in the line if they thought I looked gay.
My partner is too lazy to learn my language. It's up to the person who chooses a partner with a different background to accommodate for that. Not the parents, they didn't choose the situation. Thankfully my partner just puts up with it because he knows what my solution will be.
Ngl I wouldn't trust it either. I don't even believe your post tbh.
You say shit like he didn't even consider my safety. butt
YOU GOT IN A VEHICLE WITH A GUY YOU DONT KNOW.
This just seems like the typical males feelings are hurt and they are invalidated but the female will make it all about them even though they did wrong.
Be an adult admit you did some dumb shit and learn from it.
If marriage is on the table, y'all should be openly and straightforwardly discussing your financial situation and goals before the marriage actually takes place. Just because you are certain you've told him how much you make doesn't mean he has a full picture of your situation (or that you actually told him and/or he remembered it).
Is it absurd to consider hiring a PI to investigate? Yeah, a bit. But ultimately he didn't actually hire anyone. You have as much responsibility to have the finances conversation with him as he does with you, and it really seems like he just didn't know how to go about starting it without letting the cat out of the bag on the proposal (even though you already know).
I don’t believe in push presents…buuuuut I have gestational diabetes and am demanding a slice of cake as a push present after labor ?
Okay so, his reaction to the situation at hand is completely not okay – but – if I'm understanding this correctly – you're 21 years old with no children being a stay at home with no personal income.
Could he be resentful of you being at home all day while he works and sometimes comes home to things not done? Reasonably in his mind – if you have no other responsibilities – there shouldn't be a reason why you're behind possibly.
When one becomes resentful to their partner it's naked to be attracted to them. Maybe him telling you the reading for the lack of attention being due to the house being clean is his (bad) way of attempting to communicate that with you.
Maybe the solution here is to get a job and split household chores evenly and work towards building a healthy relationship environment together.
i came to say this, in a more blunt way.
The roommate did nothing wrong she heard something saw a stranger and she had a gun to defend herself.
Yes it was scary for op.
I hope op takes classes and learns how to use a gun for her home safety too.
Many of those doing home invasions are packing and shooting who is home.
Walking to her car at night if attacked..there is no superman to rescue you so you need to be able to defend yourself
Why do you even care at this point, don’t you have a date tonight
It's not a normal thing though
Yes they do, good job. Sexual coercion, however, is defined differently than coercion on its own like you just used it, as we've already discussed. The act of sexual coercion does include physical force according to the resources linked above, while coercion alone is defined as employing violence and/or threats. This is the difference between sexual coercion and rape and why they are two different crimes/forms of sexual assault.
Just read your edits. Please remember that you cannot adequately judge how your condition can burden your husband. Talk to him about how he is feeling and the repercussions of your condition on him
After all the red flags on the first date, why give him a second? And then all the red flags on the second, why the third? He's a trainwreck. Run.
Thank you for this response, it definitely gives me food for thought and somewhere to go from in my thinking. I can be with that sort of person, at least I think, I guess it's a matter of finding out if he is that type of person or if he tends to the more hurtful side.
Yeah you trash lol
Cut your losses girl! Not only is it gross, but it’s putting you at risk for UTIs and vaginal infections. Or, god forbid, an eye infection. Imagine, y’all are are getting naked and heavy, you’ve had your hands all over one another, and you get an eyelash in your eye. You stop for a moment to get it out. And there you go. Pink eye. I’m so grossed out right now. Run, run, run away!
Saw your update OP. Stay strong. Make your exit plan as soon as possible. Stop acknowledging or countering her arguments. It's just her trying to manipulate you into staying again. You got this.