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Date: October 30, 2022
I would say she's fucking around but after a year you're just trying to get your need met.
Sounds like meth
he showed no affection and passion and desire … I need someone emotionally available and that’s just not him
This is EXACTLY why I left my first husband. I loved him and he was a good, decent, caring, man. But I know me, and I need a man who feels things to the hilt – who’s warm, who’s PASSIONATE. You know – actually shares his fears and worries and griefs with me, not just the surface “polite” stuff; who smiles with his whole face when he sees me, not just wrinkles up his eyes in a polite “colleague smile”; someone with a raging appetite for the mess and the fun and the filth and the glory.
After eight years, I finally realized I’d never be truly happy with him, and I left him. He was heartbroken. Only time I ever saw him cry.
And yeah, it was really REALLY very hot to hurt him, because I truly loved him and wanted him to be happy. But that’s also why I left – because yeah, I want to be happy, sure, but also because he deserves to be with someone who fucking MADLY LOOOOOVES him, who wakes up ecstatic to be with him, who actually ADORES all the things about him that I just wasn’t truly compatible with.
And that’s the key to how you move on. Because if you know – if you KNOW – that he’s not right for you, then every day you spend with him is a disservice to him and you both. If you care for him where it counts, you have to set him free so he can find someone who’ll love him madly for all the reasons you can’t.
Good luck OP. It’s hard. Really fucking very hot. I’m sorry. But it’s the kind thing to do, I promise.
PS FWIW, I’m now married to a man who is everything I never dared to even dream of during those long, lonely, unfulfilled days in my first marriage. He and I laugh like hyenas together every single day, he’s loud and communicative and hilarious and unapologetically weird and I love him more than I ever thought I could love ANYONE and I hope you get to find your version of that – and that your current person does too.
That isn’t the only red flag. There are too many to count. Run from this guy. Run fast and run far.
Your father deserves respect. Your mother tried alienating him from you. Not his fault. Give him a break
You can’t invite this guy and not invite his wife. It’s both or neither.
Not exactly advice, but I’ve narrowed down your options for you.
We've moved from red flag to pirate flag. Yar matie! Man the cannons!
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You were not together.
His storming off was his problem in not being able to accept that your relationship ended, and getting jealous.
As you were not in a relationship, why did you even care if he was talking to you or not?
How is it giving you the silent treatment when you are not in a relationship anymore?
The moment you broke up, the requirement for you both to talk and interact with each other stoped. If you were both stupid enough to keep spending time together after breaking up then that’s on you (and him) but neither of you get to complain about the other’s behaviour. (Unless it’s threatening or concerning for your safety)
Nothing you describe sounds controlling or manipulative on your part, but if you want to know if you are or not, then evaluate the decisions you made, the comments and actions you made over the last few months, especially over this issue, and see if any of them were deliberately designed to try to change his response to favour you. Then see if those decisions, comments, actions were necessary how they were made.
Him on the other hand, quite a lot of what you describe is controlling and manipulative (possibly not consciously especially if he had just started therapy, but that’s a very slim possibility)