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Date: October 17, 2022
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Did you miss the part where she says everything is packed and ready to go so her husband doesn’t have to do it? She is helping with the responsibilities in the morning. She also made a suggestion that cost zero dollars of her sister or mother helping out. Most normal people don’t hire babysitters behind their spouses back.
If you can, contact his parents. Hopefully it’ll embarrass him enough that he stops this attention seeking
Thanks so much for you concern! Your opinion is really valid, and I promise to be very careful moving forward. The reason we have moved ahead so fast is because I have actually known him for years and years, so we sort of skipped the getting to know each other phase. He's well known to my sibling, who lives nearby, and is mutual friends with all my friends. (Which certainly wasn't true of the ex, and his open dislike of my friends was another ignored red flag.) We bought a property together after discussing at length our life goals and boundaries beforehand. It was also my idea, and his family and mine were very involved in the whole process. I'm never really alone, and have a huge supportive community that seems to be giving this relationship and property glowing reviews. I see a therapist every week for the previous trauma I've suffered, and I'm very communicative with her about what happens in this relationship. So far she seems really cool with how this is progressing. He is very aware of my need to be in healing, seeing a therapist, taking depression medications, etc. He actually has been a true godsend through all this. He is extremely gentle with me, and has given me no reason (for real this time!) not to trust him. However, I understand (now more than ever) that trust is earned, not inherent. Your advice is still solid, as well as the other poster who mentioned it. Honestly I'm just touched that anybody cares about what I went through. Thank you! I promise I am being well looked after, and am very safe. If that ever changes I know I've learned my lesson about walking away in a timely manner. I really have no desire to ignore r/reltionship_advice again when you all gave me such solid advice last time. Everyone here is still so supportive and honest. Thanks to you, and to everyone!
You can walk away from it. She sounds very entitled and exhausting.
Expressing interest and actually saying k let's do it now are two totally different things. One has consent and one does not.
There was no consent here, no preparations, no communication.
This type of kink isn't my cup of tea however I've done other kinms and it boils down to communication and clear open present conversation and mutual respect. There was none of that in this situation and you got hurt mentally and physically.
If my hubs did that to me, there would be hell to pay and the relationship would be over. A drunk unconscious person is not someone to screw, a decent human would know that.
I don't think there's coming back after this. Please do seek out medical care if you need it, you probably have several tears and abrasions, take a pregnancy test as well if you aren't on BC. Sorry this has happened and I hope you never ever experience anything horrible like this again.
Please just put yourself first right now.