Most people get really stressed at periods in life – life is stressful for everyone. But only real pieces of shit act like this during those times. What an asshole.
Why does any of this actually surprise you? His age difference with her was 12 years and with you it’s 9 years. It’s clear he prefers younger women. At some point I feel you will be too old for him and he might start looking to replace you just for that. Regardless when there’s such an imbalance in income and/or assets it’s always a good idea to have a prenup in place. Also he proposed to her and he proposed to you. You say you didn’t win but if you’re still in contact with your pageant circle he could “trade you in” for the winner or first runner-up. If you have any doubts at all, either don’t marry him or insist on a prenup.
Boundaries are always “I” statements. “I won't stay if you do xyz”
Most people get really stressed at periods in life – life is stressful for everyone. But only real pieces of shit act like this during those times. What an asshole.
Why does any of this actually surprise you? His age difference with her was 12 years and with you it’s 9 years. It’s clear he prefers younger women. At some point I feel you will be too old for him and he might start looking to replace you just for that. Regardless when there’s such an imbalance in income and/or assets it’s always a good idea to have a prenup in place. Also he proposed to her and he proposed to you. You say you didn’t win but if you’re still in contact with your pageant circle he could “trade you in” for the winner or first runner-up. If you have any doubts at all, either don’t marry him or insist on a prenup.
There's nothing wrong with this. It's not like they are related.
I understand why you may think it is weird, but what bothers you about it? In some ways, it could be good and with time it won't feel so weird.
and yet Jake wants to join that fraternity…