After you send him one last message to never contact you again, that you’re broken up. Block him. Then call for a welfare check on him on the non emergency line as he’s expressed the intention to harm himself.
If he continues to contact you and present dangerous behavior, see if you can get a restraining order.
The answer is just you leave and don’t respond.
He threatens harm on himself? Welfare check. He tries to come see you in person? Call the police for trespassing and file a report on him for stalking if it persists, get a restraining order.
Stone wall him
You do not have to stay in any relationship you don’t want to. Ever. You can leave even without any reason. You are never obligated to stay in a relationship you do not want, ever.
He told her he was uncomfortable, he said he was embarrassed, he said he was hurt. He told OP this more than once, in fact he told OP this right after the fact, when he stopped and told her to get off him.
Swap OP and the BF around and everyone would be saying that she clearly expressed her feelings and he should leave her alone until she is ready.
I know I think the same, I’m not wanting to increase my debt for any reason unless it’s a medical emergency. Nvm increasing my debt for my boyfriend.
Ok so let's break this down…
You husband is…
LAZY ABUSIVE MANIPULATIVE IMMATURE A BAD INFLUENCE ON YOUR CHILD WONT GO TO THERAPY AND PLAYS VIDEO GAMES ALL DAY
Yep, I can see why you would want to stay?
After you send him one last message to never contact you again, that you’re broken up. Block him. Then call for a welfare check on him on the non emergency line as he’s expressed the intention to harm himself.
If he continues to contact you and present dangerous behavior, see if you can get a restraining order.
The answer is just you leave and don’t respond.
He threatens harm on himself? Welfare check. He tries to come see you in person? Call the police for trespassing and file a report on him for stalking if it persists, get a restraining order.
Stone wall him
You do not have to stay in any relationship you don’t want to. Ever. You can leave even without any reason. You are never obligated to stay in a relationship you do not want, ever.
But he did.
He told her he was uncomfortable, he said he was embarrassed, he said he was hurt. He told OP this more than once, in fact he told OP this right after the fact, when he stopped and told her to get off him.
Swap OP and the BF around and everyone would be saying that she clearly expressed her feelings and he should leave her alone until she is ready.