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Your bf sound like a dick. He basically told you that if you guys can't have sex, he's not interested in you, since he can just chill alone. He sound very immature and toxic and sadly doesn't seem to care about the stuff you're going through. Anti depressants and stress can definitely affect your libido. You can definitely do better than him.
Thank you for your response, it’s really difficult for me as we met barely after getting over my depression of moving to a new country and he’s really been main support system.
Agree
I wouldn‘t like it if my man told me he had a sex dream of his ex tbh. It‘s not funny at all and if it wasn‘t funny to him, that‘s completely valid. I wouldn‘t have told him in the first place but I guess we have different opinions. All you can do is trying to communicate with him. Ask him about his feelings etc. and give space when needed.
Say you would rather focus on your school work rn then
Yeah, being so overwhelmed you cry regularly because men look at you is NOT normal. Not even a little. She has some serious mental health issues going on and it has nothing to do with normal interaction in society. Which is what men looking at women is…normal.
not cheating but you can always invite your wife with you to the gym to put her at ease.
If your boyfriend wanted this to stop, he'd tell Eve to stop.
Well, if you want to keep that emotional space b/w you, you could send him something like “hey, hope you're ok. Im cool with not talking about what happened and going as usual if thats what you want”. Or you can just say “hope you're ok” and let him take the lead.
My partner is aware of the conversation that took place between David and myself a few months back.
I think you're right that its toxic. Just an outsiders perspective but I think your feelings of inferiority are more about you than about your partner. Feeling like the person you're with is “better” than you is a symptom of you not valuing yourself. Sure, other people might have more experience in some areas than others, be more professionally successful or wealthier. That doesn't define their worth as a complete person. Your partner is with you because she obviously wants to spend her time with you; she things your worth it. I can't speak for her but when I've dated people who say things like “I don't know why you're with me” or “I'm not good enough” I find it really impacts the relationship because I feel like they're either fishing for reassurance, undervaluing themselves and/or telling me how i should feel about them.
I had similar situations to what you're describing with an ex; she was very conventionally attractive and would constantly get hit on by dudes when we were out often while i was standing right next to her and making it pretty obvious we were together. But mostly I just found the whole thing funny because she was choosing to be with me and she wasn't responsible for what other people were doing i.e. trying to hit on her. It was something we laughed about and bonded over rather than something that came between us because of my insecurity.
In terms of how to get over it: go to therapy if you can. Developing strategies to deal with negative intrusive thoughts and recognising your own value are super important skills to develop in life and itll almost certainly improve your life to realise there probably a lot of great things about you that you should take pride in
I think you should go immediately, don’t wait until tomorrow.
I feel like I literally just died. I’ve invested so much into this woman I can’t believe she did this to me.
Considering you mentioned that YOU YOURSELF cheated on her last year and never admitted it to her, I don’t have sympathy. You need to tell her if you haven’t already. And honestly, I think it’s for the best if you split. You both have done enough to each other.
Yeah i understand for airmen they want to get the free housing off and extra money but for officer… he’s already living off base
If he’s in jail, he definitely heard the undercover say or pretend they were underage. He’s lying to you. Lol
If someone is taking my car and refuses to tell me when they’re bringing it back, that person no longer gets to use my car.
Source: I’m a mom with two teen drivers.
He started cheating in the first place because he's a weak, selfish coward. He needs to address things himself, nothing she can do.
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Tell him now
Ghost her for awhile. If she gets ahold of you and says anything, tell her what you didn't and don't like.
But still, I think you should just totally ghost her. All I see and you also see that her friends are a problem to which she seems to be into. And not you.
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It doesn't matter if you get a dog now or later.
You have to follow her life goals/ambitions and can't have your own… She's basically gaslighting you.
Try to say NO to her and see if she'll understand it. Just for the fun. NO, I don't want a dog!
See if she'll guilt trip you, accuse you of not having ambitions, make you feel bad, play a victim in order to get what she wants.
I feel if she got her old job back she could definitely afford daycare, She just uses the excuse that strangers watching someone else’s kid is wrong
When my parents were alive, the thing they always appreciated most were heartfelt letters. Write your step dad a letter (hand written, not email or text), and tell him exactly what he means to you. List the things you love about him.
I would hope you never ever hear that your partner has feelings for someone else, feelings not crush. Its not a good feeling.
Can you link to the comment from OP saying that? As far as I’ve seen, he said “she confessed her feelings, and he told her he felt the same”.
What are you basing this on?
And honestly, I don’t give a shit about your semantics. There is absolutely no reason why she would need to confess her feelings to him if she was dedicated to her husband. Just walk away
What are you on about? She got invited to an EVENT and transport and lodging was also paid for.
She didn’t like the lodging part of the entire arrangement.
He offered to pay for all of it. She declined.
What’s so hard to understand?
You take his key away. He has lost privileges. He said he's let you know. He never did. He can't use the key.
Yes there will be. Look. Touch matters.
Give him a Leave date. Sign and date. Cease all money going to him/ helping him.
Tell him he has two hands and a mouth. If he can't keep the latter shut long enough to get laid, he can take matters into the former.
Why do you not think it would be healthy to ask your wife not to get a tattoo of another lover?
I hope you do get to speak to your SIL. Your brother is up to some shady shit.
Your brother is fucking her.
We do but they all kind of chose his side and isolating from me also
That’s fair, I’ve never been in this long of a relationship before, but I just have no desire whatsoever. I haven’t been intimate with her in almost 4 months, and I don’t think that’ll change anytime soon. I think she’s pretty, but in the same way I think my friends are pretty. I’ve only ever been with men before her, and find myself missing those interactions, but I also don’t know if that’s because I’m not as into women as I thought or if it’s just because I have no other encounters with women to compare jt to
You need to get your own foundation in order forst. Are you in therapy? On anti-depressants? Spending time online to self cure depression is not the answer. Get some real and professional help.
Once you get your own life together, you can think about marriage and all that comes with it. But you are NOT ready right now.
And yes, talk to your fiance about this. If she's in it for the long haul, she will be supportive of you getting the help you need first.
Well, the question is: do you trust her? You can tell her how uncomfortable this situation makes you feel. The fact that she thinks you're overreacting might be a bit of a red flag, she doesn't seem to take your feelings into consideration.
It almost sounds like she wants to be single.
That is often different because they are typically given a daily sub allowance so they decide to share.
If you stay with him, you’re jeopardizing your financial future and your ability to enjoy retirement/vacations/perks of actually having money.
And he will likely steal from you again.
You know you gotta cut him off.
Honestly, the fact she's even considering this is ok shows she has no respect for you and your relationship. Just imagine how she'd feel if you shared a room with a female colleague. It has nothing to do with whether or not you trust her and everything to do with the fact she's willing to put herself in a compromising situation. She doesn't seem like relationship material to me.
Back in the day?
Like, Monday?
Try more foreplay for your gf, don’t be a selfish lover. Best sexual partners are the ones who take their time and make me finish first
Read that comment again, and all the other comments saying the same thing, stop being selfish
All of the women in my department got flowers today in US, Poland, Denmark, South Africa, Germany, Canada from the director. And one of my guy friends sent flowers today too though I’ve not received them yet as it’s early morning yet. But he told me to keep an eye out for the delivery guy.
I dunno. I don’t see an issue with it. ?♀️
What sucks is I keep making excuses in my head for him.. I mean he's the father of my little girl. I so bad wanted a family ? He's never given me any reason to think this is what he's in to…
Also I can’t go to the gym, post pictures of myself, talk to certain female friends.
Time for him to find a job.
What answers are you expecting? There is a very clear answer to this, but you’ve already shot it down.
Is she an Olive Garden, because I can see her marinara flags from here … ?
I'll break up with her today, I've been feeling guilty for 2 weeks (that's when it started), y'all are giving me a reality check – thank you though
Well, for example tonight I asked him to pay for my dinner because I’m very short on money till the end of the month. I’d eventually pay him back by getting him something – he knows it. Instead of agreeing to that he took our 20$ bill out of my cash savings that I made off online business. It was an awkward interaction and I was too embarrassed to bring it up, something was really setting me off. I will try to bring it up once it’s appropriate.
And no, my parents don’t know that he’s living with me. I understand that they’d be very upset if they knew. I do feel bad that I allowed this situation but I honestly thought he’d offer to help eventually.
I'm wondering why a 26 year old woman is being sexual with a 20 year old.
Have you asked him? We can’t read his mind
Run. You are not compatible.
Amanda is going to threaten you into doing what she wants at every turn unless you put up some boundaries. It's not going to end. You cannot please everyone. When Amanda has kids are you going to prioritize them over Kelly because she said she would never speak to you again? She is a grown woman, not a child. Threatening you into doing what she wants so you aren't being a husband and a father to Tiffany and Kelly isn't a relationship. She tried to break you up before. Now Tiffany knows even in an emergency you cannot be trusted if Amanda objects. You will lose all three I'd you don't put up some boundaries.
he’s trying to isolate you from your mum. this is a huge warning sign of abuse and narcissistic tendencies. yep, your mum is right. good luck and be safe
We’ve tried this but its the same “i dont want to care for someone else i just want to online alone” type of response. She’s definitely not cheating or interested in another guy, im just really really confused. Thank you for your input
You’re right thank you
You're the one who went off on OP. You seem very young so it's not worth arguing with you. I hope you gain more life experience in the future. I truly do.
It's not about you at all. His reaction is entirely about him and how growing up religious has scarred his worldview towards sex and women. I genuinely hope he's able to heal and grow past this, but right now, it means he's not relationship material.
It's not about you at all. His reaction is entirely about him and how growing up religious has scarred his worldview towards sex and women. I genuinely hope he's able to heal and grow past this, but right now, it means he's not relationship material.
I have no idea what it would look like in 10 years. I just know I don't want to end up like my parents, and she's in the same boat.
idk why you think traveling the world is some third life crisis. many people do it, and the few traveling I've done have been some of my best memories.
Why do you say that? I’m not really good at reading between the lines to some things online so plz elaborate if you could. I just feel sad if he replaces me because I’m in love with him and he means everything to me (I know that probably doesn’t sound healthy to say) and he is the only one who makes me feel I can open up to and be myself around and no one in my life makes me feel the way he does. All in all I love him.
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That was before you, but would she do it again if she had the chance?
These posts always blow my mind. Don’t have unprotected sex with new people. If someone os doing this with you they’ve done it with others. Do you not care about STDs?
Are you aware that women experience a surge of hormones in their 40s which makes them more likely to fall pregnant?
This is the kind of BS I expect from men, so coming from a woman it’s an even bigger ?. No one who gives a fuck about her sexual health and avoiding pregnancy wants to have unprotected sex with some new dude.
I met my husband at 33 and had my first kid at 38. OP has plenty of time!
And I thank the lord (or whatever) every day that I wasn’t dumb enough to marry the boyfriend I had when I was in my early 20’s, OR the guy I was with at 32…
Great writing skills. It was almost believable, till you mentioned the wife. But in the highland doubtful chance this is real, you screwed up.
I honestly just …. There was sooo many things wrong in this post that I can’t wrap my head around the fact that you’re 30. Wow buddy you’re a messed up, I hope every diaper you change is explosive diarrhea and you online with constant pink eye. You suck
That's not good. He is going to be in a very difficult spot if the wife and bf split up and the father sues for access to his child.
It seems like a messy situation to get into.
So what? He’s a grown man and men watch porn. Deal with it.
It sounds like you were a willing affair partner who intentionally lied to the innocent person being cheated on, and this is your evidence of other people being morally corrupt? This isn't painting the picture you think it is. You are projecting your own dodgy morals onto others.
Just because you have a couple anecdotes of cheaters doesn't mean everyone cheats when given the opportunity. I have been propositioned many times while in relationships and never cheated because that isn't in my character. Chris Evans could be standing nude in my hotel room and I'd turn him away because I'm loyal to my partner. I don't think I have exceedingly rare character, I'm just not a selfish or deceitful person. None of my close friends have ever cheated either and I'd certainly never cover for them or vice versa. If you're surrounded by cheaters, take a look at your own character and who you involve in your life.
The mistake was trying to be friends immediately after breaking up. He clearly still has feelings for you. You guys need an actual solid no-contact break so he can fully get over you, then you can try friendship. Friendship with an ex only works when no one has any romantic feelings left.
I guess you combat the urges by… not talking to and fucking other women? Other women are going to continue to exist so there's not much about your environment that you can control except removing yourself from conversations when you feel the urge to be flirty. If you follow a lot of women you've never met IRL on social media you could also unfollow all those accounts.
Mindset is important too. You say you enjoyed “the hunt” during your years of single time, but only had sex with one person. Try to compare very sporadic sex with online chatting etc. with regular IRL sex with someone you love. You're not actually missing out on much and I think you would soon realise that if you and your gf broke up.