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Date: October 19, 2022
Jake, 22 y.o.
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It’s not that it wasn’t good enough. It was just limited. So it’s left you confused, and it’s okay to ask for more information so you can better understand. What would you want from a partner, have them secretly doubt you but not say anything, or have them ask for clarification?
When it comes to inflicting harm to someone else whether it’s emotional or physical, never try to “oh I didn’t hit you that hard” kinda response. Just suck it up take responsibility and accountability and apologize.
My question is what motivated you to decide to “pat” her face?
No, absolutely not. If you can go 7 years without getting drunk and kissing someone else then so can your SO.
Not prosthetic tubes. Prosthetic testicles. Takes 20 seconds of googling to see it's a real thing. Reading is fundamental.
You're cheating on your wife AGAIN. You're not confused. You're just terrible. There's a reason she doesn't trust you. This is it.
Honestly your current relationship doesn’t sound good. Your boyfriend is absolutely not supportive of you. if he was always like that, you should leave him. If this is recent, he may be burned out from supporting you. The people closest to you are not therapists, they don’t have the education, experience, objectivity to support you like a therapist. They also don’t have the emotional strength to continuously support you and deal with their own life issues. It burns them out.
You should see a therapist and possibly a psychiatrist for medication. Get professional help because no one else, not your bf nor your ex, can really help you
It doesn’t sound like you intended to cheat but it became romantic at least for you and you did the right thing by cutting it off. Before talking to your bf about this start the process. You coming clean with him may result in a breakup, it may lead to a rocky future. But if he ever finds out on his own or suspects it, the relationship will end very messy
I mean, to be blunt you need to leave her. And to do that with as much stability and protection as the law can provide. For that you will require a lawyer. A lawyer cannot fix a marriage, but they can negotiate custody and finances on your behalf.
Abuse is about power, and it doesn’t at all surprise that your abusive wife would be derogatory about any move you make to protect yourself from her. And obviously she’s lying about being amicable. Even amicable divorce usually involves a lawyer. I had a friend who did all the paperwork herself for an uncontested divorce with no kids or assets, and it took her a year.
The problem is that you don’t know what is making her act this way, or if there is any solution for it. And even if you find out the reason, and there is theoretically a solution, the solution won’t help if she’s not interested in solving it. Nobody is going to be able to give you advice for how to change her because that’s simply not an option that you have. Nobody can tell you if this will run its course or not, and there’s no way for you to know either. So your choices really only whether to stick it out or leave. And there’s no garuntee that this will ever stop, so that choice might come down to leaving now or leaving later.
The best choice is to leave. Abuse is corrosive over time, the longer you stay in it the more you’ll be effected by it and the longer it will take to heal. Abusers usually escalate rather than spontaneously recover. And it’s abusive for a child to be in a home where abuse is occurring, even if they aren’t the target of it (yet.) Having two homes where one is stable and loving is better than having one home that isn’t.
Before I engage in any sort of argument with anyone like that ask myself “would you rather be right or happy?” Bc usually you don’t end up with both.
Guess I just really enjoy her stuff hah.
What does living in an island have to do with it? You’re communicating with us, we arent on that island. The island is not a barrier.
Just reading caption made me feel icky… that old man is gross
Yea she might have hormonal changes that plummet her sex drive. She might also have trauma from birth and physically feel different, or emotionally feel disconnected from her vagina sexually. It could be a lot of things.
You can safely assume he doesn't even remotely think about this at all.
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He literally said they have other ways of having sexual intimacy. Suggesting only PIV sex is sex is heteronormative and harmful.
He never gave me a clear answer. Just broke up with me. He was dealing with a lot of shame and addiction, I don't think it helped at all. I was very opposed to alot of “thuggish paths” he wanted to take(talked about robbing ppl etc). He just texted me while.i went to work and said I love you there's no compromise. Then blocked me back in November. Start of this month I got unblocked on Snapchat, I got a strange pic from his grandmas Instagram of him, looked to be a selfie, then I sent ??. Got backtracking of it's an accident didn't mean to add you to the group text. And called my.phone thru one of their phone numbers around the same time that morning.
The answer to your question is NO! A persons 'fundamental values' aren't going to change overnight. Tell your ex-boyfriend “Thanks for the flowers and the chocolates. See you never.” and block him everywhere. He's already shown you who he is. He wants you as a possession, not as an equal partner.
No, Gf12 has only come out in the last 12 months and his change was def 5/6 years ago.
I did notice a marked change when M18 came out as Bi but even that was after the major change iykwim I saw that change as a normal teen/parent change in many ways. Suddenly M18 was taller, bigger and more independent and then we went into Covid Lockdown so all the lines were blurry.
I think it was more when the kids became more vocal and had more opinions lol
I am finding myself examining things in much finer details … hindsight is 20/20 and all that. I think he might have been telling the truth…he wanted a family and there I was with an 18 month old child and opennabout hoping for another child one day. And…after 10 years of that life something clicked and he realised it wasn't what he wanted after all so he just shut down and waited for me to end it. A bit sad but I guess it happens.
I have always made it very clear that I will back and love my kids and am all about equality for LGBTQI+ so if he wanted an easy out he could have said something awful and instantly ended our marriage lol It is a non negotiable to me.
Sure there’s college kids that would like a job. But you won’t be able to find just one that could watch the kid if OP is working full time. They have set schedules per semester so there’s a risk of having to find new ones three times a year. Not to mention they probably wouldn’t want to watch a sick kid and risk missing class because they got sick. Plus hoping that they don’t call in sick..er hungover. I would venture a guess college kids would be more likely to leave a peer hanging than a “full grown” adult.
Only Op’s husband would strongly deflect cause of the “sneaky” behavior!
I didn’t miss that. I’m not following though. How does that relate to what I said?
I think others are missing that this was the first time OP talked to C about it. Right?
It takes more than one conversation to reach someone who is being pulled into a bad ideology and being socially isolated by a manipulative partner.
I saw the part where C spouted Nazi nonsense at OP when she finally had a 1:1 chance to address it, away from N. OP answered with facts and counterpoints to the Nazi nonsense. I saw OP believes she has an opportunity to counter the Nazi BS that C has been absorbing from N, because C often spouts whatever a partner believes and doesn’t really think it through for herself.
I didn’t see how C responded. OP said she went to find her bf and left right after that anti-Nazi conversation.
OP didn’t say anything that was at all a warning – which is not a mark against OP; OP is completely separate from the situation between this woman and her abusive ex. If we imagine that the group didn’t change the direction of the project, that has no bearing on the relationship between these other people.
She may have. We don’t know because Mr. ‘oh no, I have to penetrate her the way she likes’ is the narrator.
I hope you get your answer