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Janne, 19 y.o.
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Date: October 17, 2022
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My current plan is to cut contact; she makes a habit of ensuring close friendships with almost all of her exes and I am not interested in that kind of relationship. I'm friendly with some of my exes, but that never extends to anything that can be misconstrued as disloyal or unfaithful.
Fantasizing about a variety of people while masturbating and having sex is normal sexual behavior. And it's impossible for you to police or control his thoughts. So, what's happening in his brain ain't the problem. The problem is what happened in the real world.
Some couples are okay talking about these types of things openly, and some prefer it's kept private. His decision to talk to you about it – despite knowing you belong to the latter group – is worrying.
I'm really struggling to understand his incentive for telling you about these fantasies. Is he oblivious, and just doesn't know or care about what hurts your feelings? Is he malicious, and purposefully wants to hurt you? Is he misguided, and thinks it's a form of dirty talk that will turn you on? Is he testing the waters to see if you'd be interested in allowing other sexual partners into your bedroom?
Anything you decide to do is okay. If this has extinguished the spark, then move on. If you can put this in the compartment of “dumb stuff that happens in mammalian brains”, then tell him to keep his visions of infidelity to himself moving forward.
But be forewarned: weird sex stuff is probably going to be happening in the minds of all your future partners, too. (Hopefully, they'll have better sense, and not talk about the bits they know you don't want to hear.)
Thx for the advice
Thx for the advice
Nope. It's a pumpkin forever now.
He’s cheating and using this as some kind of emotional justification for himself, or manipulation for you