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Date: October 29, 2022
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Oh damn-
Why wait for him to approve of you moving? Just move?
Haha no I keep uncovering more things
She has no such responsibility and your interest in this is peculiar.
Your friend is dating. She also has a casual sexual relationship with someone. There is absolutely no reason for her to tell her date that she plans to see someone else afterward.
She did a responsible, safe thing ?♂️
Thats what paternity tests are for!
There’s nothing open minded and supportive about allowing someone to unilaterally decide that a relationship established as a monogamous partnership should be suddenly open to them because they’ve had a realization about their sexuality.
So your husband also finds men attractive. Cool.
So now he gets to figure out with himself what that means for his relationship, and the two of you decide what to do about that decision. His choice ranges from wanting to jerk off to man-on-man porn, date or sleep wrong other men, not change his sexual activity, have threesomes with you involved … and the list goes on in infinity. He takes some time to think over what he wants, and then both of you talk about IF and how that would work in your relationship.
Most important for you is that you would NOT be close minded or unsupportive to say that you’re not ok with your spouse sleeping with other people.
I initially didn’t plan on telling her at the time. My coworker and I had run some work related errands and my wife found out. She and I had agreed to not be alone with members of the opposite sex when we got married so needless to say this was very upsetting for her. I agreed that it wasn’t necessary and I wanted to go… since then I have kept all of my thoughts and feelings to myself. It makes me question parts of my faith as well. How can I simultaneously feel that I’m doing something wrong but also that there’s a reason she came into my life? My family and friends are all from church so everyone has taken her stance and told me to put all of my focus into her. I would like to be able to have her in my life in some capacity.
I guess he's just forgetful, I don't think there's any malice in it or anything like that. I was forgetful in my relationships too (not to this extent obviously) but yeah I did sometimes forget stuff and girl would be annoyed.
I agree with lampsofa.
Another point to consider: Has your wife legally adopted her? it sounds like she hasn't even though she's mothering your daughter.
At any rate, if your wife is raising your daughter with you, and there's a lovely bond between them, I think you do need at least to consult her. Because if your daughter gets close to her bio mother, it could harm the relationship with your wife, which would not be fair on her.
Move to a different state where that isn't an issue? Abortion isn't banned everywhere, it's just a State's choice since there isn't a Federal say yet. Not all states are against abortion.
I will say if you don't want kids you should indeed pursue a vesectomy because birth control isn't 100% guaranteed.
He's clearly lying. There is absolutely no reason he would need to make an accurate profile for himself, including his picture, if he just wanted to spy on other family members. In fact using his own photo for the account that he's supposedly just using for stalking is directly counterproductive to the thing he's pretending he's doing. Why would he add his photo to an account that's keeping tabs on people who know what he looks like? If he really wanted to do this there was no reason he needed to use ANY real or accurate information for himself; the only reason to do so is if he's looking for dates.
He's keeping his eye open for options on the side, and when he got caught he told you the most insultingly stupid lie I think I've ever heard. Honestly if I were you I'd be more offended that he expected me to believe that cover story than I would be about the attempted cheating.
Yeah I do feel bad sometimes but it wasn’t immediate and I do wait until they broke up first
It’s a lie by omission. Honestly if we were in a long term relationship (2+ years) and it later came out that you lied – the lie itself would bother me more than the prostitute bit.
Which leads to a bit of conundrum. I don’t think it’s necessarily something you need to tell a new relationship right off the bat. So keeping it vague in the beginning I think it’s fine. But if for whatever reason we talk about our pasts here and there during the development of our relationship and you keep up with the lie… it will be a problem for me down the line.
Sadly I had a child with a person that was against medications for anything. When my child was with him while sick, he never got any medication, even though I had dr notes and it was life threatening serious. Luckily the visit ended much sooner than expected due to the child requesting it due to being left alone every day (father had told me he had taken the while visit on vacation) so the issue wasn't too far along.
Depends on where you live!.
Right? Not good because the comparison is pretty illustrative to a point you don’t agree with.
But it is a good analogy.
Where do sleepovers come in?
Kindly, please leave her alone. If I’m honest, you were selfish throughout the relationship. You even said that you felt like she was your mother. She deserves a lot more than you can give her. You need time to heal and get help. In the kindest way possible, I’d highly recommend getting a therapist, instead of using a woman as one.
You’re an adult, so it’s your responsibility to heal yourself. She did the adult thing by communicating with you that you weren’t meeting her needs, and you simply didn’t. Actions speak louder than words, you know? This is the reason she fell out of love. Relationships require respect, healthy communication and boundaries, which you didn’t meet.
It would be throughly selfish to try and get her back into your life again. As I said before, you need to get help first, instead of seeking a love life.
You clearly have some self awareness, otherwise you wouldn’t have admitted to treating her badly. That’s a good sign, and you need to hone in on that.
Getting help and focusing on your mental health should be your top priority now.
It sounds like she’s making extremely arbitrary decisions. She is actually not respecting you, and not thinking about how you feel, and it would be best to confront her about this. If she’s willing (some people are not) it would probably help a lot to see a relationship councilor
That assumes her mother is controlling for anything resembling a valid reason, though, and might listen to reason. She may not be. She may instead just be the abusive type, in which case, only escape is effective.
time to rehome your boyfriend
Yeah I did
Ma'am, your personal conceptualization of relationship boundaries isn't the be all end all for everyone. You are not the high overlord who gets to decide for everyone what is or isn't “wrong.” Definitions of appropriate behavior for friendships vs romantic partners vary wildly by culture, region, family, social circle, and individual preference, and yours are not any more valid than anyone else's. Telling someone that they need “a lot of therapy” and shouldn't be in a relationship just because they disagree with you is arrogant as hell.
If you want to talk about how these two people seem to have incompatible ideas of what appropriate behavior looks like, that's probably valid. But then you also need to realize that when TWO people BOTH decide that they want to be in a relationship in spite of incompatibilities, then it is BOTH their jobs to compromise and find middle ground with the other person's point of view. It is not one person's job to roll over while the other continues to do exactly as they please, which is what you're suggesting OP do, while also telling her that there's something fundamentally wrong with her just because she has a different perspective than you.
Also for those that aren’t aware…..you think you have a good partner. Well, when things are good it’s easy to be good. Wait and see how they act when things take a bad turn. Adversity doesn’t build character it reveals it. Cheers all
This is…just gross. Not everyone is the creepy asshole you're making them out to be. The first part of your post, pointing to only a percentage of men that treat women that way is dead correct. But this follow up is very revealing of your views in general, and it's quite disappointing.