The issue is that the lack of conflict is very thoroughly informed by the fact you've been stay at home for years. You didn't realise it at the time but that elephant was always in the room, and now that you want to go out more it is becoming a more consistent issue. That borrowed time is over.
Just make sure you have that conversation. Only he benefits from it being swept under the rug and worse, he will likely increasingly feel emboldened to take swipes at you over time.
Have you talked to him yet? I'm so interested to hear his reasoning.
Good luck!
The issue is that the lack of conflict is very thoroughly informed by the fact you've been stay at home for years. You didn't realise it at the time but that elephant was always in the room, and now that you want to go out more it is becoming a more consistent issue. That borrowed time is over.
Just make sure you have that conversation. Only he benefits from it being swept under the rug and worse, he will likely increasingly feel emboldened to take swipes at you over time.