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Give him a call…I'm sure he'll appreciate the support.
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Good job. Good luck!
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No no no no no no no
You do not date someone anticipating that they’ll change for the better. You will always be wrong.
You date a guy who is the greatest guy you’ve ever met. When you’ve dated him awhile and realize he’s not the best – in fact, he’s a total ass, you walk away. You don’t stick around hoping for a personality transplant.
The point of dating is figuring out who the other person is and if you want to tolerate their flaws. Tolerable flaws: won’t replace toilet paper roll; snorts when he laughs; leaves dishes in the sink. Intolerable flaws: calls you a bitch; screams in your face; blames you for his bad behavior.
You deserve better. Figure that out.
Based on your post you're not ready for a serious relationship. You should focus on what kind of life you want in the distant future. If you want a family go for the quiet one.
We technically didn’t have the we’re exclusive talk until after these months, but he has told me previously that he had not been with anyone else since we’ve been together.
I can tell you that in his mind, this alone means he thinks he has never cheated. He lied about if he slept with anyone else because he thought this was a white lie that would prevent unnecessary suffering.
You are right to be upset, of course. But don't leave him stranded. Have a talk with him, and let him plan a journey home.
Set a boundary , you can choose whether or not you want porn in your life/relationship and then communicate that to your boyfriend. He can then choose if that is something he can on-line with.
I wish I could call her out, today we all sat and talked with the suggestion we’d each say one thing that we needed to share, she wanted more than that, all of her remarks were aimed at me. That I’m grumpy before work and grumpy after work and it’s affecting her so she has to stay in bed in the morning!
Yeah… I used to get jealous when my boyfriend went to lunch with his female colleagues. Until i got some goddamn confidence and realized: they are his colleagues. Doesn’t matter if they have boobs or not, he’s not gonna f them on a work lunch. He still goes to lunch with them, my attitude towards it changed. Now I’m happy that he treats his colleagues equally. Sometimes it’s not what your partner does, it’s your own insecurities. Of course you can have a conversation about it with your partner for them to support you getting more confident but you can’t forbid your partner from normal behavior until you get the confidence.
There is not one single instance here where you think about your wife's life or experience being married to you and how lonely she must feel
Wow. This hit home. I dated a girl that treated a lot of guys she was with with more importance than she treated me. It was blatantly obvious. We broke up and she treated me like shit. It never would’ve worked no matter how much I wanted it to, leave.
In other words I have a spending addiction.
These are all good points. I will bring these up when I actually do have a discussion with him…
Poor Sage. This is not at all healthy for Sage. Sage needs stability, a family, a home. Instead, he was thrown into a family where he was never accepted and became an object of infatuation.
That needed to be nipped in the bud by the dad as soon as he knew, for Sage's sake. Sage needs a family forever.
I’m sorry to hear what happened. My advice for you if you ever get back with your wife is to just abstain from porn. If you love her it shouldn’t be naked.
I get it, you are 30 and your biological clock is ticking and you want a baby and you are keeping this one. But you are doing your child a huge disservice by getting pregnant with a casual hookup you don’t really even like. There was no excuse for not using birth control. How are you going to explain to your child that they weren’t conceived in love, just sex for fun? And you don’t even know if the guy wants to be part of the child’s life. He can either be forced to pay child support and never see them, he can get shared custody and co-parent with a woman he doesn’t really know or he can sue for full custody to pay less child support and you will spend the next several years in court. You have a lot more to deal with than just telling him you are pregnant. And yes, you have to give up your dream of marriage and children with someone you haven’t met yet because you now have baggage. So good luck being a single mother. It sounds like you have family support so you’ll need it.
I apologize, but again I don’t want you to waste your time or life. You’re 34 years old. Time keeps slipping by while the love of your life could be where you are… but then you could be blinded by this girls beauty, so blind that you miss an opportunity with someone who will love you and make you feel secure in a relationship, and make you stronger by showing you a love that you’ve never known. But this girl? She’s not it, fam. She ain’t, you deserve better. Drop this bitch, thank me later
Long distance, in college and wants an open relationship? he's going to cheat on you. I was a Freshman dorm RA, I promise you 95 percent of people cheat in college
You sound like a piece of shit husband.
Has a doctor stated they believe he is done growing? I know male friends who are well over 6’, but didn’t get there until college. Maybe he hasn’t truly his hit growth.
My husband is 6’3” (tallest in his family), I’m 5’4”. My mom is 4’10” and men in her family all well under 5’9”. However, both my girls are taller than me. One is 5’7”, one is 5’9”. So, you never know until they are done.
If this is such a big issue for him, maybe consider counseling.
(Hit the ground)
Here the law in Florida:
“People living with HIV (PLHIV) may face felony charges for failing to disclose their status to sexual partners.
In Florida, a PLHIV may be prosecuted for not disclosing their HIV status to sexual partners. It is a third-degree felony, punishable by up to five years in prison and/or a $5,000 fine, if a PLHIV (1) knows their HIV status, (2) has been informed that HIV may be transmitted through sexual intercourse,¹ and (3) has sexual intercourse with any other person without disclosing their HIV status.3 It is a first-degree felony punishable by up to 30 years' imprisonment if there is a failure to disclose one's HIV status on multiple occasions.4
It is an affirmative defense if a person is aware of their sexual partner's HIV status and consents to engage in sexual conduct with that knowledge. It is not a defense to prosecution if protection, such as a condom, was used during sex. Neither the intent to transmit HIV nor actual transmission is required for prosecution.”
I'm in the process of legally taking full custody of our son and leaving
I would just dump him personally, y'all have been together for a month and he's talking about oral from his ex and disrespecting you by calling other females hot/sexy etc. It's a new relationship so it's not a big issue if you leave. Also your feelings are valid, he shouldn't be talking about that kind of shit, especially if you two haven't seen each other in a while. You can do better imo .
From now on, only go to your dad for financial help and advice. Ask him to either purchase things for you and the baby or move the money into your account. Your mom was a SAHM. The court will divide the assets as they see fit. I think that’s why she is on a spending spree.
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I have a few friends worried, yes.
Well she currently thinks they're unfunny and will continue to do so in about a week
oh you believe that story? lol ok
Ok soooooo you knew there were a ton of red flags here, you need me to read them back to you? Starting with the “hacking incident” which is a total lie…. As the wise Beyoncé once sang, “What’s worse, looking jealous or crazy?” There’s no way to do this without a mess but it’s not like you have a choice. Just do it, confront him and maybe google co-dependency because yes he can definitely on-line without you
Do the women work for him?
Sorry, brother but she tried someone else on. That means that she had a relationship with them prior to her leaving; moved out to try out the new relationship. It didn't work out and now she wants to come back. The problem is none of the issues that caused her to do this have come to light yet. Read Chump Lady before you even let her back through the doors. Also read not just friends. I'd add no more Mr nice guy because I sense you're about to let her back in and walk all over you again. If you don't get the truth and deal with it she'll just do this all over again. Google walk away wife and exit affairs.
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Seems like this is just who she is, the reasons behind it are irrelevant because you can't ask someone to change for you, it won't last. Why don't you ask her why she is this way, she probably knows herself better than any of us commenters can guess about her
I completely understand her POV as someone who was deeply terrified of therapy due to bad experiences in the past and feeling so out-of-control that I never felt ready to go.
I think it's important to acknowledge that even if she isn't ready, she will never see the improvement the both of you need to have a healthier relationship if she doesn't just go and try. It can feel really scary having to face those emotions and trauma, but I would still have a heart-to-heart with her about at least trying a simple form of talk therapy, maybe even with a telehealth provider so she can be in the comfort of her own home. That way she can talk about what she wants to when she's ready to, but it's important to find a therapist who isn't going to be pushy about addressing certain topics and she feels comfortable with.
With my current therapist, I was open and honest about my reasons for approaching therapy (trauma and Bipolar Disorder), but she also understood that I'm not going to be emotionally available to discuss those heavy topics every single week and she lets me ramble about what I feel comfortable with and we just go over the past week of emotions at a time.
I hope the best for you two, I was like her at one point in my life but I've had to force myself to make a lot of changes and put in so much effort to better myself and my mental wellbeing.
She's 21 years old. She probably doesn't understand how people can sabotage your for their own twisted reasons – but that still doesn't mean that screwing your relationship should be how she finds it out. She could also have some codependency issues. Therapy would be great in the long run but, meanwhile, express how you want nothing to do with this friend, how she shouldn't be welcome in your home after she made a serious attempt of sabotaging your relationship and,since she now is a mother, her priority should be keeping her family healthly together (as long as you're doing your part too).
Ya, he gets the fun parts for what, half an hr tops? He doesn't have to deal with the temper tantrums, sleepless nights because they had a nightmare or are sick and having to care for them and go to work in a state of perpetual exhaustion. He doesn't have to listen to them scream and fight, listen to the sound of their toys all day and night (which gets very annoying when the “fun” part wears off) he doesn't have any of the financial worries, taking them to appointments and activities… if he were getting lost in this fantasy, he needs to open his eyes.
You have nothing to be jealous of, if he were to cross those lines then you'd just get to on-line your life and find somebody else to enjoy it with
Not to discount your feelings, I'm also infertile and my ex had 4 kids of his own and I will admit I had the “why wouldn't he just go back to his family, I can't provide that, blah blah blah” type of feelings as well but I'm on the other side now and hope you can embrace your life as is and find more positives to your future than negatives ❤️
I think your GF is disabled. Disabled by society.
Oh, that's so sad. I'm really sorry. Only advice I have is to let yourself feel sad, but also get out there and engage with life as much as possible. It's a good time to work on a personal goal like getting fit, learning a language, etc.
I don’t know man I never heard someone say they will get revenge and it be all innocent. Especially relationships wise because if you think about it what will the revenge be taking a picture thats useless unless you the type of guy who is crazy jealous and this is all over another women. I just don’t see to many options when she says she will get revenge only real options that she will have is break up or cheat. If I were you I would kinda poke around to see if she will clarify what she meant by revenge.
Not to mention getting blackout drunk and doing coke at 18
As long as you/he are willing to pay all the additional expenses of having him along it's fair to ask. In most cases the 'no +1' is related to venue capacity or cost cutting. So offering to pay for him might enough. If it's related to venue capacity you could still pay for him to take the trip, he'd just have to skip the actual wedding. There's probably a way to have him on the trip even if he can't be at the wedding.
He lied from the beginning. Why did he lie if he thought what he was doing is fine?
I would be devastated if my partner said no 9/10 times.
You obviously get to choose when and why you have sex, however, you're not meeting his needs in this area. If you're sore, how about doing other things to make him happy? It seems like you don't want to put the effort in to meet his needs much at all.
This would be a deal-breaker for me. Not only because of the lack of sex, but because you seem to think it's okay to neglect his needs, and or you have a huge sexual incompatibility.
Ok so here’s exactly what I’m gonna send him do correct me if I’m wrong or irrelevant anywhere:
“On the basis of your behavior last night which made me rethink my decisions the way you just pushed all my efforts and affections away and the kind of bond we have and like nothing mattered yo you, it put my whole future In front of my that this is you’re going to respond and react in the future as well I’d like to take a step back as we already aren’t on the same pages cuz you want all this marriage thing within this year and you’re not even cooperating in this and want me to put my 100% as a wife regarding you your family and household while I’m just 18, don’t get me wrong but it was kinda selfish of you too. You’ll find someone who’s compatible for you and on the same page ,tell your mother she’ll start her searching soon and find someone as pretty. I don’t know maybe I wasn’t worth waiting for or something. There are plethora of other things to which lead me to this decision. Consider yourself single Now. GOODLUCK!”
I added that “someone pretty” part because he always have told me that how his mother wants a pretty daughter in law and so does he but he loves me
I can't speak from personal experience with Tinder, but it is absolutely possible if not likely that they send out advertising emails. Especially if he jsut deleted the app and didn't suspend/deactivate his account.
Since it's specifically Tinder gold that's being advertised, I would guess that it's an ad meant to pull dormant users back in.
“We haven't seen you on Tinder in a while. Here's a free 2 weeks of gold to get you back in dating pool!” Etc…
I wouldn't worry about it at all if he's given you no other reason to worry.
Both of you need to get your shit together before continuing in a relationship.
Love is not the only requirement of a healthy relationship. Love and abuse are not mutually exclusive.
If you have an ounce of care for her and yourself, you need to separate now and work on your respective problems. Get clean and get into therapy.
At the very least, you need to be physically separated from each other so you won't be able to hurt each other. DV is serious and you might end up permanently injuring her or getting into jail.
I believe I love him and I said yes to him when he proposed to me so I’m hoping a lifetime. But I’m just naturally scared
You have to ask yourself what would have made you snap out of it at 20, 22 etc. probably nothing. People change when they want to – often once they’ve hit rock bottom, whatever form that takes.
As we grow up we sometimes move on, we outgrow or grow apart from our friends. This happens a lot from 18-25 and then 25-30. Different ages means different stages of life and not everyone transitions. It’s not your fault.
Having someone do diddly squat and try to coach you would be annoying af.
Congratulations on moving on with your life – it’s not easy. Especially not when you feel you are a bit “behind”. In 5 years time you will be in an unrecognisable place and things will only get better for you. But you can’t help people who don’t want to be helped.
I don’t have time to wait. I need him and can’t risk losing him
Where were your boy toy's parents in all of this? I can't imagine that they were especially thrilled when their son was ensnared (and baby trapped) by a pathethic, middle-aged child sex predator.
You should be ashamed of yourself.
If anything people at the wedding will ask where you are and feel sad that you are graduating as a DOCTOR on your own. They are mad because it makes them look bad IMO. Get a professional photo done if you in your robes and don’t let them have it x
Nah, I'm a man. This is Reddit, after all. Although, I don't see how being a man makes me have “disgusting” beliefs as you put it? Anyhow,
I never mentioned myself personally being unattractive to women although indeed what was once the case, so I'll let that comment slide.
What I said is that in general, both men and women, prefer someone who is healthy and fit as apposed to someone who is unearthly and unfit. That opinion is unbiased no matter if it comes from a man or a women because it deals with both.
Honestly, I used to believe that flabs were perfectly equivalent to muscle in the eyes of most people. Certainly, flabs was not the only reason I was alone romantically, but it was a reason – every young fellow is bound to have one or two problems with them that they've got to fix. I my case, I was a recluse as well. I struggled a lot with loneliness, but one benefit of being antisocial that to this day I still have is that I'm hyper-aware of other people.
When I saw my peers take their physique and health seriously, I also noticed just how much more female attention they got. When I did the same and experienced it for myself, I truly realized I was wrong.
Yes, muscles/fitness is not the be-all, end-all, but attractiveness is also important in a relationship, and most people consider being fit to be more attractive than being fat.
I try to but she doesn't speak openly about anything and when she tries to, she begins to cry. This is not restricted to me. To doctors, her co workers. You are correct that İ can't read between the lines but İ try to. That's why I am talking to everyone who has a suggestion. I want to be more able in discussions to get her side without hurting her.
Little boy has a lot of growing up to do. I’m 48 and get hit on by men of all ages. Sure my boobs aren’t as perky anymore and I have some lines around my eyes but I’m still a good looking lady.
Why would he have access to her home… the first thing you do when buying/renting a new house is to change the locks
Say “ bye” and walk out the door.
are you that brain dead? he is part of the problem and not a friend according to his behavior, so you're cool with your best pal throwing a pre-wedding bash and not inviting your future wife? You're cool with your “best” pal's with trashing your wife and making her fear the wedding will be trashed? listen straight up, you're a bigger issue than sarah as you just let them do whatever, you are a crap future husband and shit person
You deserve better, you know what you have to do. If your “bf” cant back you up and defend you is he even a man?
You're not a pedophile for dating a couple of years younger even as a teen. When I was 16 I dated 18 year olds and they were definitely not pedophiles (age of consent is 16 here so no legal issues either). It seems like you have a lot of guilt about the situation but honestly it's nothing to worry about.
Your partner is being weird, idk what else to say. There's nothing wrong with enjoying media with children in it unless they're sexualised, which I'm assuming they're not in whatever you're watching. Sounds very much like a her problem.
We were casually dating then the pregnancy happened which i kept, and everything i mentioned started after the baby.
Can you get a babysitter for her birthday so she can have a day to herself?!
From experience, you can't hint or sugar coat – they won't get it. When you're ready to, you'll have to be blunt. “Babe, I know you've been down lately but I really need you to shower daily with soap, and make sure to wash our hands before Seggsy time. “
I'm curious – if you're able to share – what were the “circumstances” that brought him to move in? Are you both working and paying rent? Sharing household chores?
Lmao reading your comments lets me know that you are not ready for a real long term relationship. If you aren't willing to defend your SO, especially on a first meet, from rude behavior from your family why would anyone entertain dating you? I mean think about it from his perspective for a second how would you react if you were in his shoes?
I don’t know how to talk to anyone about it. It makes me look a fool and feel so ashamed that he’s controlling the situation like this.
I meamt no one can answer those questions but him. So go do it and tell us the juicy gossip later.