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Date: December 6, 2022
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But he is my crush's friend. Also I think he is not the type of guy who would have feelings for his friend's crush. By the me and my crush both like each other?
There’s little point in engaging on the topic of the gun. Make it clear to your mom that he carries and give her the option of not bring around him if and when he does. Pretty straightforward.
it's best to have an open and honest discussion about it. tell her what you pit together on your own and what you found, and ask her to have a conversation with you about what she wants and what can/can't be done about it. it's important to set boundaries when it comes to kinks, especially ones that one partner is uncomfortable with.
it sets off an alarm bell for me that instead of talking about what she wants from you she kinda…played this werid game with it. you might want to keep that in mind during the conversation. good luck!
You get over this by putting him aside, at least in your mind.
You need to spend a while on you.you might need to be single to do it, you might not, you decide, but you need to focus on you.
First thing – see a therapist. Get to the root of whatever issues it is that have resulted in your ED. Really figure that out. Work out what it is you want from yourself. Do you want to be a particular shape/build? Is it different from what you are/have? Why is that? What can be done to achieve that? Then do it.
You could discover that you are actually happy with yourself as is, or you might discover that you want to be thinner/thicker more/less toned etc, but whatever it is, figure it out. Find out what you want for you, then go do it. This may take a while, it's long haul stuff, but you owe it to you to be the version of yourself that you are most happy with, never mind boyfriend, family, friends, none of their opinions matter. Only yours.
You will find that if you actually put the head work in on this, if you consciously take this issue into your own hands and solve it that you will feel bomb proof. Other peoples opinions will matter less.
You might decide you dont care what he thinks, you might either be able to cast it aside or you might feel you are worth more effort. But you will be putting yourself in a position of power and you will not feel so insecure. Good luck my dear.
I both agree and disagree with you, but not for the reasons you think.
People absolutely will love you for you. It’s an absurd notion to suggest otherwise. Are there people that won’t or don’t? Of course. But making a blanket statement on it is objectively wrong.
But then you say “unless you have something to offer or make them feel a certain way.” I mean, yeah, that’s how it should be. I just think you have your own preconceived notions as to what these mean. Potential partners should have something to offer each other; effort. Potential partners should make each other feel a certain way. Why shouldn’t they? If they don’t, what’s the point?
Not because you’re you? That should literally be you. Even if we’re to suggest they want the security of being safe and not having to worry about financial issues; are you seriously going to fault ANY human being for wanting a that? Another one of your issues is assuming people ONLY want that and that everything else is irrelevant. It’s simply not true. You’ve just decided it is.
If you want to keep your heart to yourself, that’s fair enough; it’s your life. You won’t get hurt anymore? Sure, but you logically will want love so stop playing that game. It’s time to look within. If you step outside and find that one person you encounter is an asshole, well then you’ve met an asshole. If you find that everyone you encounter is an asshole, YOU’RE the asshole and it’s time to reflect.
That’s really weird… I wouldn’t hang out with her until u get tested for shit in ur system… hopefully u stay safe and everything goes well for u but if she’s doing anything shady please don’t stay with her!!!!!!! There’s nothing worth saving at that point!
To me, this is odd. If I were invited, I would expect my BF to pay for it because (A) this is an 18 month relationship and I was invited, (B) the reason why they are going to an AirBnB is not my fault/choice, (C) you have a lot of debt and he has a lot of savings.
Anyway, maybe this is a cultural thing. I find it very odd.
Thank you for this. Right now it sucks to hear but I think it's everything I've needed to hear for a while now. I'm so glad you're doing well now. Your story gives me the confidence and the hope to start doing the right thing for myself here.
BPD is the acronym for borderline personality disorder not bipolar disorder. But BPD fits much better than BD in this case. Nothing about this suggests BD. Ignorant and harmful.
Btw OP you’re a terrible person. I hope your daughter is ok.
Invite all your girlfriends over and encourage them to fart ‘til their heart’s content.
She literally said not to suggest abortion.
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Angry abusive people rarely change.
Don't ever put tampons down a toilet.
i have a baby daddy and i haven’t talked to him in 6 years. we communicate through a 3rd party, it’s what works for me (he was abusive but he’s a good father and i wouldn’t take our kids from him). try to see about having a third party be the messenger. good luck!
WTF is very hot to interpret here?
She is telling you she wants to get with you. Now she might be serious or might be doing it to make you uncomfortable. The only meaningful response is to play along. If she's making fun of you, she'll back off quick. If not, you'll have a good time.
Wtf?! You had no solid plans with bf. You do not need permission to do anything
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Hey they may party too, my wife's dad's side parties
He’s 5 right? Do you seriously say that you can’t handle a tantrum from a 5 year old? I don’t condone violence towards kids, but you’re allowed to protect yourself. Grab him by the arm and put him in his room. You’re not a punching bag- what do you think is gonna happen when he grows older and stronger if he thinks that behavior is acceptable? Also consider a child psychologist and/or getting him tested for if he’s neurodivergent.
Hahaha your missus definitely cheated on you. Your dick touched his jizz too, which is gross. (Sorry, so sorry)
He’s obviously bullshitting you and he wants the new girl/ex gf. Move on, he’s a douche bag to be honest. Your person would never do this to you. Block delete and move on. He’s cheating on you.
A few people have suggested therapy and I plan to book sessions as soon as businesses open again.
You’re right, I did pop off on her in an insanely abusive way, and I am going to make sure she never has to deal with that rubbish ever again. I’ve learnt a huge lesson and want to do everything I can to make it up to her. She hasn’t left me yet, and I don’t know if she will, but she won’t ever see that behaviour from me ever again.
Thank you for replying to my post.
I had a step mother who considered me as much of her own as the children she gave birth to. When she spoke of my she said “my daughter” She was put on hospice sadly with end stage COPD back in 2017.When we stayed with her she told me I was her rock and strength. When she passed, so many of her friends came up to me telling me how much she bragged about me to them. Most did not even realize I was a step daughter and her sister who still considers herself my aunt, said that there was times when some one else would call me “step”, and my stepmother would correct them and say I am her daughter.
The moral of this story? It takes very special women to truly be step mothers. Most I know love their step children just as much as their own and do not allow anyone to treat them like lesser children. They would view your words in horror and disgust. Then you have a certain other type who really have no business being a step mother, much less seeking out men with children. This type includes you.
Fortunately, for the actual children in the OP, the post is not about her looking down or thinking less of them; for all we know she may be cut out to be a step mother at least in respect of loving the children. Love how people show their ass by bringing up situations that actually have nothing to do with the OP.
I'm so happy you and your girlfriend could work things out. Your best friend sucks though. You deserve to tell people, even your gf, about your trauma on your own accord, and him doing it for you instead of offering actual help on is a big no. Talking to him about relationship issues is kind of unfair, since he's friends with both of you, which is why he might have reacted like this. You guys should talk about this.
Being bi in a monogamous relationship has its challenges, and missing the opposite set of parts from your partners gender is one of them for sure. Some couples are able to reach compromises, like a female fwb for her, but things like that just aren't for everybody.
You should have a talk about what need a 3some will fulfill exactly and see if that need can be reached in a more agreeable way or not at all.
He didn’t have a choice to be this kids dad bud.
You did it before you met him. There’s nothing for him to “forgive” because you didn’t do anything to him. Yo should find someone else who has a little more empathy.
You stated you’re close with her coworkers and boss and so that might have given you the feeling that this whole situation was ok. You thought you were doing something nice and shouldn’t be penalized for that but women have to work much harder in any work setting to establish ourselves. Having our boyfriend getting involved with our work and making “special” requests takes a lot away from the respect that was already earned. You don’t need to feel her pain but just understand your life experiences are different than hers and standards aren’t the same for men and women…yet. Even if everyone was close and hung out outside of work I would still feel like this was a setback for me if this happened. You two just need to have a conversation about boundaries and both agree to listen to the other without interjecting on your interpretation of how the other is acting.
Why are you still even entertaining the idea of having this man anywhere near you?
Go low contact, that’s shitty of them to exclude you and basically hijack your plans and not ask you to join. The fact they didn’t come to apologize shows how they feel. You should just stop reaching out.
Your ‘friend’ is scum stop talking to that bitch.
I am curious, how does your dog respond to your boyfriend?
Okay so general rule of thumb, if you can’t afford to go out. Don’t. She needs to grow up and either get a new job or work more hours. Things cost money, money costs you time. If she isn’t happy with the finances she needs to help out. I get money is right, my finances are tight and I just got into a okay lying job. Rent, utilities and groceries cost a arm and a leg. Don’t ever dip into savings unless you absolutely have to, it’s very hot to catch up when it goes back down.
Gf needs to grow up and give herself something to look forward to. Sometimes my husband and I are tight on money, we don’t go out or spend extra money on things we don’t need. She sounds completely out of touch with the idea that money doesn’t just grow on trees. Being a responsible adult is sh!tty and it means that you don’t always get what you want.
I would suggest a more budget friendly date, instead of a weekend away where you don’t have to worry about hotel rooms and extra expenses. If she isn’t happy with that then please re read paragraph 1 again and have her pick up the slack.
Good luck OP.
I can recall women friends of mine, I have known of around 30yrs who had a similar sense of urgency about “time running out” and worried about still being single.
They are all now happily in a relationship with children.
There's a good chance it will happen for you too.
You are the only issue here. Well, you and your friends girlfriend. Sounds like you’re both exhausting and ridiculous.
The one on one time with your female friend was inappropriate and disrespectful to your fiancé. She was right to feel uncomfortable about that situation.
You have no obligation to confide in your female friend about your future wife's thoughts or feelings towards her. You describe her as a “good” friend, implying you're close with her. Yet at the same time, you're worried that she might accidentally find out you're getting married. You can't be that close with her if she doesn't even know you're engaged.
I think it's time to move on. Stay in touch, but stop considering her your close friend. She's obviously not, and you're just messing with your fiancé by continuing the charade and blaming her uncomfortableness on her being jealous.
Don't worry about telling her she's not invited. If you do talk to her and it comes up, express gratitude for her friendship, it was a difficult decision, but you have budget and space constraints, and offer to stay in touch after the wedding.
She should be able to express those feelings of not being beautiful she’s your wife and idk why she doesn’t just express these issues of hers to you open communication is key to a happy marriage
Mom needs to suck it up and get over it. Dad has every right to be angry if his current wife isn’t being invited.
Your mom needs to grow up. Your dad’s wife and the mother of your brother should be invited to the wedding. Stop burning bridges. Unless your dad’s wife is a shitty person who has wronged any of you then all of your treatment and exclusion of her is BS. Your mom is the one choosing to be an asshole here and you are letting her instead of expecting her to act like the adult she is. Stop enabling your mom in her behavior. Keep this BS and you will lose your dad.
Get an advocate it lawyer and try to get government help. Your wife would be eligible for a lot in many countries
Says you're too much, but then goes out clubbing. No. Fuck this guy. He's a hypocritical douche. Go have a good time.
why would you want this abusive asshole around your child? you had a baby with a massive loser and need to do your best to not ruin this kid’s life just because you were too careless. he is a horrible person and will screw your kid up so very hot if you don’t get away from him. i feel so bad for this child
It doesn’t read as though you’re mature enough for an adult sexual relationship.
Have your parents done this to your exes before?
I’m also worried about when we engage in consensual things now. Even if she consents, in her head she may not want to and by consenting but not wanting to do anything, would make her feel like I’m forcing her into something she doesn’t want to do. I don’t want to blur the lines between myself and abusive past/partner.
At this point I feel like abstaining from anything until she gets some help. Any thoughts on that?
Grasping it is not a requirement. You may never fully understand the reasoning of each other’s needs. The important thing is to try your best to meet those needs with each other
I don't mean to be rude but I'll correct your title:
My child(23M) says his lack of affection for me(21F) is due to an immature personality at home.
Thank you for your advice and thoughts. You are right, it is not a comfortable place to live at. I definitely feel like I would grow if I moved out and it would be a good thing to do, but I'm scared of the consequences.
We are struggling because of this questions as well, though the farm is meant to be his because his brother is more of a city boy, he doesn't care about farming, tractors etc. That's why we also feel like we are stuck in a position where we can do no right. In our country, the son that is supposed to inherit a farm usually stays at home and builds a “flat” in a separate story to have a separate households with his family. And his siblings move out. In this case, his older brother, golden child as you rightfully put it, took that floor (“because he was first” as mother put it) and made himself his own flat. Now it's on my BF to navigate how he/we will make our living situation to take care of a farm. It's a mess.
If you have panic attacks while driving, why tf are you keeping the car and dropping him off/picking him up? Why is a lunch drive different from those other drives?
Take a damn Uber to your doctor's appointment and just have him keep his car.
What if he's stepped out on his marriage with other women besides you?
I think the wife deserves to know.
You said you confronted him and you support him but you were angry about the clothes being stolen? If that was your number one issue then why didn't you ask him where your clothes are? Maybe that's where you should start…
Dating apps are for meeting ! I wouldn’t wait that long if there was a good start in the convos. You may not be ready and honor that – don’t rush but just know that people on the apps are looking for real world connections so they aren’t rushing – it’s just the next step to measuring compatibility. People can come off so differently live that it’s really the next step to see if the time chatting and getting to know one another is worth it sooner than later if the in person vibes aren’t right
I feel awful for both women. Real women are not porn. We are not here for some random guy’s entertainment. What a sick thing to think.
Yeet and delete. No reason to stick around with a cheater.
She’s probably keeping track of the $200 bill she paid for you, hoping that you’ll pay her back.
This will not get better. If you commit to this relationship and take more steps for it to become entrenched? This problem will worsen. I'm not young. I'm here with a bunch of painful and ecstatic experience under my belt and trust me: if sex matters to you? And physical contact? You need to find someone else you are more compatible with. These are huge issues. The fact that you have begun taking her personal style personally? Is a bad sign. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. But of course you need something from her she does not have! This is the fertile ground for shame. Please break up with her. You guys are young and you have time to meet someone else if you want to do the kid thing and all of that. Just kiss her goodbye. With genuine fondness while you can. Wish her well. Her person is out there. And so is yours. It takes guts. But do it.
This guy is 11 years older than you but is acting as immature, clingy, and manipulative as a romantically inexperienced teenager.
You lost track of time and apologized, if he was a little annoyed that'd be a reasonable reaction. Instead, he insulted you and threw a fit, and it sounds like he's trying to get you to alienate yourself from your family and friends to devote all of your time to him. Shit's fucked.
He's no good, you can find better.