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Date: October 11, 2022
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Ya girl aint yo girl, that is a shame.
That works when the respect and support is mutual ? otherwise it's enabling
True! Thank you for the advice. You guys confirmed what I already knew.
According to the people in these comments you should NEVER EVER take anybody's phone, especially your spouses, and you should just ask a question if he's cheating. If he says no – then it's all good, if he doesn't give you a phone – instant divorce. It's not that nude.
I just feel like that’s not fair on him. I said I didn’t want something serious, he took that information and factored it into his decision to move back home which is completely fair – I’m not upset with him about it at all. I don’t know, maybe I just wanted to vent about it and say I was sad more than her advice, I don’t really know.
Acknowledging that it's not the reaction that you want to have or the one that he deserves is half the battle. Sounds like you both understand that relationships are nude work and are patient with one another. Be patient and keep working. You'll see progress that's worth being proud of 🙂
STFU
just break up.
How much more do you weigh and how much taller are you?
It sounds like you literally pinned her to the bed, dude. If she's not physically able to get up on her own or push you off, you're using way too much force and I'd have probably gone for a tap to the crotch if I were in that position.
You've been dating and presumably known each other for all of a month. You are near strangers. It doesn't matter what bond you've formed in that time. When there is someone on top of you physically preventing you from leaving, sometimes you panic and survival instincts kick in. You need to stop being so focused on “disrespect” and consider how you'd feel in her situation, think long and nude.
he's got some kind of exhibitionist kink and he is trying to force that on you without your consent. That is absolutely not okay at all. Most people are not okay with it, it's perfectly fine that you aren't okay with it. And also you're right to be careful in foreign countries (doing anything that would offend locals and possibly get you into legal trouble is always a bad idea in an unfamiliar foreign country!).
Silent treatment was him attempting to manipulate you into doing what he knows damn well you do not want to do. He seems to have no respect for you.
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Don’t judge someone else’s financial situation.
Don’t judge someone else’s financial situation.
Wait, dean? I just don’t see it. Anyway, isn’t the celebrity freebie list still a thing?
Dentists recommend twice a day, so people usually default to morning and evening.
Technically you can get away with just one, but as my dentist put it “most peoples technique isn't good enough for that”
A grown ass adult that goes after A LITERAL CHILD, is always going to be a bad person.
yep. she waited 18 months before revealing it…. way too long
Yeah, this isn’t going to end well for you if you allow it to continue.
Basically, right now he has nothing better to do. As soon as someone he likes more comes along, he’ll just dump you off again.
You have feelings for him. You are going to get hurt. If you can, take back control. Dump him. Free yourself up for some better times with better people. Good luck 🙂
Ask her, “Why do you expect me to start working because you chose to have a child?”
You don’t “get her” to forgive you. Maybe start by seeing your wife as an actual person not some object which behavior can be fixed with a cheat code. ASK her for forgiveness. It’s doubtful this is the first time you’ve “taught her a lesson” in some way.
Yeah, fuck his sushi.
Let's put this together:
He opened your private mail He talked to his mother instead of you when he had concerns about you He is trying to make financial decisions for you, and his mother is trying to call companies on your behalf (?!?!) He is showing he doesn't trust you to have the judgement to resolve this situation on your own He didn't show the same concern / didn't believe you when you told him all of this prior He hasn't given you a proper apology to own up to the above actions when you rightfully told him how upsetting it was.
He needs to do one hell of a lot more than 'I am sorry' and giving you sushi. A proper apology and firm boundaries with his mother would be a start. Although I would 100% get it if you want to break up altogether and give him no more chances at all. You wouldn't be wrong to do so.
Amen to this, I did that to a girl once.. kept her on pedestal. Like they are also human beings that are only as important as you make them out to be. A tough lesson but well worth.
He went through my phone, but I was answering phone calls from my ex. Just 3 phone calls and then I broke it off. My friends kept reassuring me that it wasn’t cheating, but I did feel the guilt and felt like it was borderline cheating and stopped.
That's disgusting. Make a report to the police!!
Sounds responsible to me. What's the problem? You shouldn't really have one with it.
Don't engage with that guy. You're doing everything you can together, as a team, to work this out.
Because that's where you LIVE!. if you think I'm going to be uncomfortable for the rest of my life because I'm scared to “be rude” to my SO, you're insane and I'm willing to bet probably have anxiety coming out your ears. FYI if you're holding in your gas, the minute you fall asleep, your ass sounds like an elephant in heat, I Guarantee.
I’ve prayed for decades. I’m open to fellow human feedback too. I’m likely older than you and at a point I want any useful advice I can get without judgement of the person giving it.
I think it's more you're imagining the person he is. You'll never be inside someone else's head, and they'll never actually be the image you create of them in your own mind.
He's not who you thought he was.
You can keep trying, but there's not really anything else you can do here.
You're talking about loving him, but he's not really showing love or anything similar back. Nor has ever wanted to give you the benefit of the doubt or talk to you about it. And when you deny it, he literally tells you you're lying.
None of that is who you though he was. Your idea of who he is isn't real and you're refusing to accept it, and assuming you can change him to actually be this image in your head, if you're just persistent enough.
Very astute comment. Either that, or they somehow avoid being seen by this particular person.
Honestly men can be pretty bad about this at times. My partner gives me compliments but sometimes he will think a compliment but totally forget to voice it. Like if I dress up he will think fuck she looks sexy but forgets to say it out loud. I’m pretty sure it’s a dude thing but I don’t want to speak for an entire gender.
Just take some time to talk it through using the “when you do X it makes me feel like Y”. Also, it’s okay to admit that you have self confidence issues and his lack of verbal support exasperates it. Your feelings are totally valid and I would be pretty disappointed myself if I went through that much effort and get zero validation.
You do realize that her frontal lob is not fully developed yet, right? She's technically legal and that's the only thing that matters to you, right?
The idea that you can get with her because some other older guy did or that you are some kind of heroic “nice guy” because you didn't inappropriately grope her the very first chance you got tells me all I need to know about you.
Interesting. Actually, when I feel bad about my body I never buy clothes.
Is there any chance it is your child? I would consider getting a paternity test first, and then reassessing your decision with a clearer conscience.
If you are the father – you might feel differently about things like even if you want to leave still you might think twice about moving out right away vs. Staying and helping care for your child for the first few difficult months and then getting a custody arrangement.
If you are for sure not the father then I think of course you can leave. It’s still going to be brutal and hurtful for her. But you’re not an asshole. Make sure she knows as soon as possible so she can figure out the father and put him on the birth certificate and get all the child support she is entitled to.
You need therapy, I know that you have your boundaries and that’s completely okay, but any person that gets jealous of someone watching porn has some extreme insecurity they need to work on. Your absolutely right it’s your choice not to allow it but I’m just telling you that it’s not a problem with your boyfriend that’s a problem with you. It’s not normal it’s not healthy.
He is not a great man. Leave.
It doesn't matter that you love him dearly. Leave.
You owe yourself and your children a better life than this. Leave.
Thank you I appreciate this I am starting to feel that he is controlling. I told him I need space from him, I need to truly think about everything.
Sounds like you didn't fit the criteria for what she wanted from her bridesmaid. Now she will made you her lap dog to help her plan everything but not actually make you apart of the wedding. She may have been more of your friend then you were her friend
Tell her how you honestly feel and that you'd rather just keep your distance moving forward
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Never own a house with your SO before you get married. But do let her contribute a reasonable rent considering her income, that you’re sharing the place and that she’s not getting any equity.
I know I lied to her, she had a sneaking suspicion before she actually went through my phone. One day she asked me if I was cheating and I said no. I didn't want to hurt her I couldn't tell her the truth. I should've stopped before hand and maybe things would be different but I have tried to stop and I can't.
Her life was better without me, while mine was miserable without her. I know it may seem as if I only care about what she does for me but I also care about how she makes me feel. I was always considered the failure son in my family and she made me feel like a winner even though I'm not. It was also nice having her to talk to, play games with her, and also just hearing her talk about her dreams or random things that happened at her job. I'm not sure how I managed to make her happy up until this point other than take her on dates, and just conversing with her, or going to the movies, or other cheeky things couples do. I tried to makeup for the parts I was lacking in, I do care about her, I want her to still flourish, I just want to be apart of it.
I never thought I’d agree with someone named blumpkin
Based on this I think that you should really consider therapy so that you can unpack why you ever would have gone on a second date with this man to begin with.
I been married for 8 years, i still dont always tell me wife whats going on in my mind if im in a bad mood or had a rough day. Sometimes you just dont want to share. Some stuff you just want to process alone, get it over and done with and move on. I also dont ask her if i can tell she doesnt want too share or when she needs some space. If people want to vent or share they usually do, and then you just have to listen.
If you spent this much time giving your girlfriend attention instead of me or your ex I don’t think you would have as many relationship problems
A question—in what type of workplace does a colleague single out “special friends” to give them “goodies bags” with hand sanitizer, candy, and bracelets? Because to me, that behavior sounds very unprofessional.
Someone who loves you wouldn't do this. He doesn't really love you. He won't change. He doesn't even feel bad. He's off fucking his ex again. Please wake up and leave. He's the one destroying your self confidence. If you leave, it'll get better
What’s it like, being illiterate to the nature of reality and the history of the world?
Seeing all your comments makes me sad for you. Don’t legally tie yourself to her selfishness.