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Date: March 25, 2023
Your going to start resenting your if you dont already. Its okay to have diffrent hobbies, but you should respect your partner enough to not shit on what they like. Doing so repeatedly shows a lack of respect for you and your relationship.
Ive been the one getting shitted on for enjoying things my ex hated. Now I have a new bf who buys me cute little paints or molds because he says it makes him happy to see me relax and create. He turns the radio up for me so I can sing along and even takes videos to show his friends how “cute my girl is being “.
Seriously, tell her ship up or ship out cuz there is someone out there who will love and accept all of you.
I don’t know, maybe it’s just an inherent biological instinct.
General rule is not until you’re pretty serious and and ready to head down the road towards cohabitation and marriage. Usually not before 6 mos.
It’s not fair to have kids see a merry go round of partners and further, the other parent often gets pretty ridiculous when a new partner comes on the scene.
I think 2 mos is WAY too early. I’m a stepmom and I think I met the kids at about 6/7 mos when we started talking seriously about moving in together and marriage—we were also both in our 30’s at that time.
THANK YOU! The chuds in here shrieking about HeR deLuSioN miss the logical point that no, she probably wouldn’t rip his cock off or gauge his eyes into meat chunks like she would a stranger. To say that this was some accurate test of feeeeeemale strength is moron nonsense.
Only read the intro. Didn't need the rest. Why the ☆☆☆☆ are you moving in with suck a poop face?! That first paragraph told me all I needed to know. Controlling. Vindictive, and manipulative. Get. The. F. Out. Now.
Mmm
Honestly, if this feels appropriate right now is between you too.
There’s nothing wrong with messaging her and saying “hey, hope you’re doing well, I just had s question. I bought gifts for your birthday before we broke up and some of them are custom for you. I could throw them out but I still felt it would be a waste. Would you be comfortable accepting them?”
Hey, open and clear communication is one of the most adult thing you can have with someone else. If she says “ nah I think that doesn’t feel right for now” then no big deal, you asked and I’m sure she will appreciate your phrasing and consideration for her feelings and you guys will be none the worst
You're married to a rapist. It's hot, but you can't go back.
What consequences?
And i am not proposed to her till now because i am waiting for her to get her divorce first
Hope it works out for you!
You know that he’s bullshitting you. Time to kick his ass out. YOU DESERVE BETTER.
Let's call it what it is: rape
Best friends close cause we clicked right away when we first started talking and after talking for so long feelings grew and eventually we confessed how much we liked eachother so pretty much everything just felt right and it was one of those things where you just know it’s official without saying it’s official if that makes sense
It sounds like you’re letting yourself be pushed around emotionally by a few people there. It’s okay to say to her “look, I’m not over our breakup, I need some distance. Let’s exchange cards for the holidays but not talk the rest of this year while we do some moving on.” And then see if you feel like getting back in touch at the end of the year after spending time on yourself.
Similarly, whoever is telling you to get ‘revenge’ is just stirring you up to create drama and misery for yourself for their entertainment. They’re betraying that they’re petty people and that their attitudes to relationships can’t be trusted.
Surround yourself with people who will encourage you to move forward constructively. You don’t need any of these folks who keep dragging you back into the past.
Never in my life have I had a man slap me in the face, joking or not.
Never has a single dude ever pulled my hair so hot that it left a bump.
Zero men I have dated have left marks on my arms.
This isn’t challenging. Unless you have some sort of bruising disorder where you mark VERY easily, this should not be happening.
Dump this abusive asshat.
Multiple abuse this is. Confront him you must.
I am a hoarder especially with photos. I keep everything including people i am not friends with and exes.
He’s single. So he’s just expressing his reality. Which he is entitled to.
As to why? It could be any number of reasons:
wants to make it public so that he can accept the reality of it sooner and not be in denial wants to announce it so that his friends will come to his support instead of him seeking it out is excited to be single loves oversharing or literally who knows what else
Thank you I will take this into my consideration ?
Yeah..
I want to see him again ??
The fact that being in the wildness is a legitimate reason to maintain contact is irrelevant, if you tried turning your phone off in the safest place imaginable he’d just come up with different reason to force you to turn it back on.
It’s not about the glamping/wilderness/phone/daughter… it’s about control. He wants to control you, and you’re giving him pushback instead of falling in line like wants. Control control control… that’s the only part of this story that matters.
It's not up to OP to give up what she loves because he doesn't like it. What they're trying to say is they're incompatible. They're still early in their stages of dating. If OP progressed the relationship, took a larger role in his daughter's life, priorities changed, it's still up to OP to make that choice, not OPs bf manipulating OP into it. Which is clear from his lack of interest in a trip separate from when she goes away. OP isn't managing a life and household together with her partner like a married couple, it's different.
I absolutely agree that you should take time for yourself. no ifs, ands or buts about it. this is what you want, don't let anyone – especially someone who will basically benefit if he is able to change your mind.
taking it slow DOES NOT MEAN texting all day long! that needs to stop. you need to be living your life, not spending it texting him all day.
you say this new guy is great, but he is not respecting your wishes. i would be very wary of a guy who has sat by waiting for you – and can't wait.
hold him back firmly. i would definitely encourage you not to get physical with him. he seems like the type that would run with it.
Your bf doesn't deserve you.
Sounds like he's had 3 opportunities to be with you over the course of 10 years… he just doesn't want to be with you.
He doesn't have romantic feelings for you. It sucks, but I'm not sure what you're holding out hope for. His mind isn't going to change—it would have, already.
At some point you're going to have to stop going back to this guy and learn this lesson. Until then, you're just going to keep hurting yourself.
Poor fiance…
I more meant that she should know, as a baseline that the dude is shady af, and that she's not just monitoring him as some quirk… her reluctance is to not want to kneecap her own way of keeping him under a microscope. But I just had to re-read my own comment twice, and this reply twice to kinda be sure I'm making any sense translating thoughts to text because it's after 3am and I'm deliriously insomniatic (not even sure this is a word, but fuck it) right now.
I know this might be an unpopular opinion but I trust my husband more than anyone else on this planet, including my family members. If someone came to me and told me he cheated, sexually assaulted someone, etc unless there's actual proof, I'm not going to believe it and stand by my husband. If there's no photos, no videos, no text messages, or any other way to validate that my husband cheated/sexually assaulted someone, they can fuck off until proven correct. I'm not blowing up my marriage and trusting some random woman. I get “believe all women” but I believe my husband more. He has shown me for almost a decade what an amazing person he is so I'm going to brush off and ignore anyone who says anything like that with no validation behind it. You should do the same with your wife
“What Makes Love Last: How to build trust and avoid betrayal” by Gottman.
You need to talk to a lawyer because divorce laws are different in every jurisdiction. Could be you can just file for divorce and ask him to leave the home. Could be you'll have to pay him to leave (and in some places he could even claim half the house). Don't go into this blind. Get an attorney and figure out what your options are.
But I do get your point. Just didn't think she'd get too serious about it.
My first husband was 13 years older than me, and this was our exact dynamic. I was in my 20’s. He was 40. He took my ‘boundaries’ about as seriously as a five-year-old trying to give boundaries to her father. Everything I ever had an issue with, he would play off as my immaturity, and that if I were his age, I’d see how ridiculous I was being. He bullied me, steamrolled me, and literally laughed while I cried. The wives of his friends even bullied me. It was awful. Then when I left, he went crazy and stalked me, and did 5 years in jail. These older guys take you for granted, but absolutely crap themselves when you leave. Nothing but sympathy to you, honey. ❤️?
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So basically I’ve been with my husband for 4 years and got married almost a year ago. Today I found out that he activated his tinder account this past weekend while out of town for a job interview to “seek validation that girls still found him attractive.” I asked for his phone and noticed he received verification codes in Aug (while on work trip to Boston), Oct, March, and this past weekend. He originally told me that he didn’t message any women but I had him login and he had message over 5 women this past weekend. The messages were flirty and it was obvious to me he was trying to get something out of it at least validation. What should I do? I’m currently set on separating and possibly divorce but I still love him.
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So basically I’ve been with my husband for 4 years and got married almost a year ago. Today I found out that he activated his tinder account this past weekend while out of town for a job interview to “seek validation that girls still found him attractive.” I asked for his phone and noticed he received verification codes in Aug (while on work trip to Boston), Oct, March, and this past weekend. He originally told me that he didn’t message any women but I had him login and he had message over 5 women this past weekend. The messages were flirty and it was obvious to me he was trying to get something out of it at least validation. What should I do? I’m currently set on separating and possibly divorce but I still love him.
At first I said I’ll just pretend that he died lol it did kind of help. Seeing him and looking him in the eyes is another story. 3 months can come anytime now.
Thanks, that's kind. I want to help but I know my limits. I meet them multiple times a day.
It always is in this sub, it’s getting worse.
He doesn’t ‘struggle with aftercare.’ There is no struggle or attempt to change on his part. He uses your body to get off. He then cares more about his phone than your feelings. You feel used because you are being used.
He is forcing you to believe as he does. He doesn’t respect you with regards to your religious views – that’s extreme. What is the next thing he won’t respect about you? You dress, your job, your friends…. It starts with one thing and then it escalates until you only have him and his beliefs. This is a huge red flag in a relationship to me. I would get while the getting is good.
I still don't understand why he would be angry once he realized that you really were not with him for his looks. I'm really confused.