This is just miscommunication. I would be annoyed if I brought food home for myself and someone else helped themselves to it without asking. I also get that you mistakenly thought that he intended to give you one of the meals.
Some people get territorial about their food. If you eat something of theirs they will be angry and resent you. I consider it a boundary with this type of person. It also doesn't matter if it was free. If someone is looking forward to eating something the cost is irrelevant. I would consider that this may be a boundary for him and be more careful in future.
Rapid weight gain isn't something that just comes with a “simple fix.” There are TONS, and I do mean tons of factors that go into weight gain, how people hold weight, and losing weight- age, sex, height, genetics, metabolism, thyroid function, insulin resistance, mental health, & a slew of other factors. She could eat nothing but a salad every day and workout excessively and still fail to lose weight or even gain more weight. Neither partner should be “improving their looks to the others liking.” Either you love them the way they are, or you don't. You may have love for them, but attraction for most people is intrinsically entwined with romantic love, and if something as simple as weight gain suddenly sparks unattraction, then you likely aren't as in love with your partner as you think you are. If you partner is happy with their body as is- then you have two options, accept that and learn to be happy and attracted to the body they have now, or break up.
Surviving skills !! LMAO.
This is just miscommunication. I would be annoyed if I brought food home for myself and someone else helped themselves to it without asking. I also get that you mistakenly thought that he intended to give you one of the meals.
Some people get territorial about their food. If you eat something of theirs they will be angry and resent you. I consider it a boundary with this type of person. It also doesn't matter if it was free. If someone is looking forward to eating something the cost is irrelevant. I would consider that this may be a boundary for him and be more careful in future.
That doesn't sound logical. It sounds sneaky, and I would feel a certain kind of way about their secret meetings.
You have to stop lying too. You can't undo the lie, but it's good that you are coming clean. He may use that against you though.
Rapid weight gain isn't something that just comes with a “simple fix.” There are TONS, and I do mean tons of factors that go into weight gain, how people hold weight, and losing weight- age, sex, height, genetics, metabolism, thyroid function, insulin resistance, mental health, & a slew of other factors. She could eat nothing but a salad every day and workout excessively and still fail to lose weight or even gain more weight. Neither partner should be “improving their looks to the others liking.” Either you love them the way they are, or you don't. You may have love for them, but attraction for most people is intrinsically entwined with romantic love, and if something as simple as weight gain suddenly sparks unattraction, then you likely aren't as in love with your partner as you think you are. If you partner is happy with their body as is- then you have two options, accept that and learn to be happy and attracted to the body they have now, or break up.