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“Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria?” Is that a thing. First time I've heard about it. The only people who take rejection well are those with experience to do so… like sales people. Nobody naturally likes rejection so I'm not sure why it would be a “dysphoria.”
I'm open to any explanations here.
I understand you got feeling bro but are any of those feelings self respect ? Doesn’t seem like it
I guess my question is do i break up with him over this or do I toughen it out and hope itll get better?
Maybe don’t date a person who completely Ives you out over a silly and honest mistake you’ve given her several solutions to rectify.
She’s being incredibly immature and petty and bending over backwards to appease her unreasonable behavior is going to set a horrible tone in your relationship.
Like for god sake, cum is water soluble.
Yeah sounds like a tone deaf creeper
She’s going to hook up with that guy with or without your permission. I’d seriously consider ending things at this point. This is something that should have been discussed before marriage.
These replies are sooo scary, I always thought Ambien was meant to calm you down, or maybe if thinking of something else. It sounds like a sleep-walking drug
If drinking was the issue, I think it’s too soon. She’s only been sober for 4 months. While I don’t think it’s an incompatibility that you like to go out while she can’t, I think she needs more support than you can give her right now.
There are Christian people who fully support LGBT+ rights and there are happily queer christians as well. Your friend is a HOMOPHOBE. Call him by what he is.
Personally I think you’re too involved in their relationship, however I understand you did it from the kindness of your heart and to be a good friend, sometimes you can only advise so much to help your friends, I have no doubt this b guy sounds very sus and A sounds foolishly in love with him. But unfortunately you’re guys started on a wrong term you and B, B sounds really manipulative and he probably would want to isolate A from you, I would suggest don’t get your feelings involved in their relationship and make you ground clear if A can’t see things straight is also her fault and her being amateur in love sometimes they need to go through it to learn and just be prepared to be there for her when she learns it as a good friend
Gather your courage and do it , you might get a girlfriend , you might get rejected or you might get laughed at , either way you'll get your answer and no matter what happens , keep moving forward, with or without her , you'll live and thrive, remember that.
It’s kinda your fault. Not cause of your dating history, but cause you pushed for answers that he probably knew would hurt you then you insulted him for doing so. Just accept he doesn’t want you and now not even talk to you cause of this and move on.
Any woman that openly tells her man about a man she interested in, isn’t one that respects you. And from the looks of this post you may not respect yourself.
Prepare to move on.
OP PLEASE forward this to him.
Also dont date people who think youre lesser because of factors you cant control.
she may have blocked these horrible memories to cope.
That's what she has told me before, she told me I just cannot runaway from everything.
This is what we call “co-dependent” OP.
Which is why I said 30 and 21, being how old they were when she preyed on him.
Not sure if pepper spray or something like that is legal there in Australia.
If not, I’m sure wasp spay is! This woks just as well as pepper spray and is legal in the US, check to see what the regulations are where you live.
Good Luck.
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Thank you for that perspective. That really actually helps me a lot. You’re right I can’t change overnight but I know I’m heading in that direction. I can feel the change. She is coming around and it is slowly, I just wish I could speed up time. I appreciate your words and thank you.
I meant leave her not job, but you can wait and hope it will magically go away by itself. Psychiatric issues rarely do, but you know miracles supposedly happen from time to time.
We've been together for 3 1/2 years, which would be a reasonable time for many people to get engaged.
I understand we're having a child and that would be a big reason to want to get married. Don't get me wrong, the fact that she's carrying our child makes her even more special to me, but I just don't have that desire to get married.
It’s at a point that I’m often uncomfortable, starting to feel unattractive to him,
Did you mean “unnattracted” to him? Just clarifying.
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OP, he initiates always attempts but does he try to force or coerce you?
It is healthier to “initiate” sex than to always ask “hey, can I stick it in you now?”… but there are boundaries of course. He's expressing his desire for you now, him doing it when your almost on a call is annoying, but has he done anything else to cross a line?
No means no, and if you tell him no and he listens than that is respectful to both of you.
However if you're just annoyed that he advances everyday, then this seems less of a respect issue and just that you don't want him as much sexually.
Have you initiated when you wanted sex? From what it sounds like, you've never had to so I would like clarification.
Does he only get sex when you have no reason to say no? Are you even wanting sex from him at all anymore?
Im.asking all of this because 2 kids later, full marriage, and you are the furthest from a dead bedroom that I've ever heard. If he is being respectful and not forcing or coercing(or guilting) then you need to know he's not seeing you as a sex toy, he really desires you and probably only you that much, and again thats if he listens to no, doesn't force or coerce, and doesn't guilt you
This is so wholesome.
I wouldn't worry about it, just trust if he's okay then he's okay. Sometimes our arm's fall asleep but we enjoy it regardless so we don't want to move.
Please don’t look at it at people attacking you. This is very serious and disturbing. Your husband is a pedophile. You have the evidence right before you and you are doing mental gymnastics to make sense of nonsense. You being aware of that and not reporting it or making the people in the photos aware of his behavior makes you complicit and you are enabling his behavior. You have to accept that to do better dear.
The answer to the question is bullshit because there's obviously other stuff going on. That's my main point I'm trying to make.
Let's say I lie to you and say yes, it's normal. It's obvious to an outsider that it's not about this one problem because that would be a ridiculous thing to post about.
If I tell you no, then that's still not helpful advice that it sounds like you need.
Do you want advice that may actually help your relationship? Don't beat around the bush on issues like these. I can tell from your post and interactions that it's more stuff youre not talking about.
I'm going to take a guess and say it's either because it makes one or both of you look bad or youre scared people are going to tell you to break up.
Instead it makes it seem like you're not being sincere and just hiding the actual issues making it naked to give you any advice.
The next time he tries to insist, remind him that he has literally already implied he'd be with her if he could be, calmly explain that you've decided you've listened to him try to suggest helping him park alongside her to wait for her boyfriend to leave and that you won't be keeping him company while he does.
Walk away action star-style without looking back at the fire.
But that’s on him and has nothing to do with you
I don’t wanna assume she’s cheating, buuuuut my dark side is v angy about that “ice cream with guy bff” situation…If that were my husband/wife I’d be furious
????? I’m surprised you have any sexual attraction to him at all considering how disgusting this is
I have some fur from one of my kittens I lost back in 2015. It's a bag with her name on it. In the bag is her favorite shoelace, ball, some of her fur and a piece of foam she stole from a box and made into a toy. I still miss her terribly. It's not that weird. Clearly you guys just aren't very compatible. I'd move on.
Depression isn't genetic.
He isn't “unhealthy”. He suffers from a mental condition which can get anyone.
Leave!!! He is doing to you what he did to his ex. I’m sorry but if you are pregnant- consider abortion
Her time… wasting her money on me while i cheated, and spend recklessly
If an antidepressant is doing that, that's definitely not right. She needs to report that to her clinician the next time she sees them. I'm guessing the anticonvulsant is a mood stabilizer. Those take a few days to really be at level and even longer to notice anything imo so it just seems like a bad choice of antidepressant. They're not supposed to do that.
And?
Yeah, thank her for her honesty and back away. Good on you.
Don't suppose we can get a description of how telling her off went lol
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In your mind this just happened.
Get yourself tested for STD's. From there get someone to talk to, or therapy. Talk with a lawyer to find out your options. You do not need to decide right now what you are going to do, You only need to know what options you have and you process this.
He basically got a maid he can sleep with. Why would he change?
It's your move to do something about this situation, he's made his already.
Then focus on school. I don't think you guys are compatible anymore now that's she's bringing up the age difference and comparing you to older men. Best to leave and date someone within your age bracket.
We don't know that for sure, but the video being on recent videos (1 week ago) is reason enough to have a serious talk with her putting a separation on the table.
Thanks! I don't think I am less intelligent, just somewhat less sophisticated than he is I guess. Less than a lot of my peers. But maybe that doesn't matter as much as I've been thinking it does.
Thanks! I don't think I am less intelligent, just somewhat less sophisticated than he is I guess. Less than a lot of my peers. But maybe that doesn't matter as much as I've been thinking it does.
Still 7 years apart, you should have use better judgement
Still 7 years apart, you should have use better judgement
For the sake of yourself, your kids and your husband you need to get this shit out of your system in counselling. 14 years since you first met him. Together for 6, that was probably the time you weren't that well off, settled in your careers. What is it you want from this?
You can see he's happy and making an effort because he has 2 women on the go. That's what makes him happy and excited in life. Do you want to be one of 2 women, is that good for you, cos that's all he's offering.?
Why are you jealous of 2 women that share one man, when you have a man to yourself.?
I have a friend who dated a couple of these crazies and know from my front row view they exist. We ended up at a restraining order hearing because she said he was abusing her “my Facebook Friends are mad at me because of how much I’m calling and showing up where he is” didn’t go over well with the Judge at all. At one point we were at lunch on an outdoor patio and she hunted down his car and threw a glass bottle at our table but ran scared when I stood up. She was always afraid of me because I don’t take crap from anyone and would put her back in her lane. She then called him all night begging him to tell me she was sorry and she thought he was on a date so that excused her behavior in her eyes. I could go on and on but now that he’s moved away we don’t see her.
It's not really “fighting so hard” as much as it is establishing boundaries.
A messed up early childhood, my father had “adventurous hands”, yet it got better very quickly and my mother held the ship afloat afterwards. I know I'm messed up, but I really don't want his son to get back to where he was previously, and I'm pretty certain that I can do a better job than a violent alcoholic grand-father.
You do realize people are different right? Not everyone learns by just listening. Some people require other methods in order for something to click. It doesn't mean they don't care. There's plenty of things that she can try before resorting to ending the relationship.
To me if my significant other is fine outside of that, especially if we've been together for 5 years, it's worth trying other methods.
I can't believe this is such a crazy thing to say on here lol
Lmaooooo that’s too good I really want them to use that line