It could be stress but he could be showing you exactly who he is an expects you to jump when he says jump. He's just showing himself before you say I do to him which is probably not a good idea on his side. But it definitely gives you an inkling of what may come. I would think long and hard about going through with the wedding. However if you do go through with it because you don't want to disappoint everybody, then keep your eyes wide open and don't get pregnant. Make sure if you're using birth control it is safe and nowhere near him. If he is using condoms and all of a sudden says he wants you pregnant right away and I would just cross your legs and tell him no I don't want to child right now. Of course you may still try to impregnate you you might want to have some Plan B on hand. But which would you rather do call off the wedding or go through a messy divorce or an annulment?
It could be stress but he could be showing you exactly who he is an expects you to jump when he says jump. He's just showing himself before you say I do to him which is probably not a good idea on his side. But it definitely gives you an inkling of what may come. I would think long and hard about going through with the wedding. However if you do go through with it because you don't want to disappoint everybody, then keep your eyes wide open and don't get pregnant. Make sure if you're using birth control it is safe and nowhere near him. If he is using condoms and all of a sudden says he wants you pregnant right away and I would just cross your legs and tell him no I don't want to child right now. Of course you may still try to impregnate you you might want to have some Plan B on hand. But which would you rather do call off the wedding or go through a messy divorce or an annulment?