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Room for live sex video chat Judith_Freeman
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Date: November 23, 2022
Unfortunately, you don't know what means ” be careful” in your age. No offence, it's just a lack of experience.
The fact you were in a previous abusive relationship makes you even more vulnerable.
You think about the goof time with her and how much you have invested; but what matters is not the past but the future. This is not the stock market where you keep investments is it goes down and sell only when it rises again This is relationship , you invest every day to keep it afloat and good, if you are in a relationship for a long time, and it is healthy, things from 10 years in the past do not really matter, what matters is today and tomorrow . You suffer , you will suffer every time she goes out, you will picture her with the other guy, ask yourself what you did wrong…. Think about you 1st and foremost , if you can let go and treat her almost like a fwb for the time you heal , why not. If you cannot, rip the band aid and let her go. Good luck man
The fact his family disowned him only 6 months after the marriage tells me that you could be the reason. It might be they haven't approved of you fully, he defended you, then got lash back for it. And now he resents you for it. That isn't fair though. Try to convince him to see if you can work this out in couple's therapy.
You say your impatient but with the type of issues he has to unpack in therapy that could be years before any long lasting real results happen as far as his anger management/coping skills. Healing from deep childhood trauma is not linear and not fast. Outside of setting clear cut boundaries and sticking to them you have to ask yourself if you wanna go down this road with him, and realize because he’s doing this for you/your relationship if you do decide you can’t handle it that potential progression he makes could be reversed and then blamed directly on you from his perspective because he’s using your relationship as the sole reason he needs to change. I feel like it’s best if you two have a talk about boundaries along with letting him know that if he wants to heal, it has to be for him and his quality of life/mental health.