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It won’t work in the long term, better leave now before it gets too late… its basic human decency to adjust .. for what i read she isn’t even willing to on-line with you basically… it is such a small thing and she gets pissed about it?
Look at it this way:.Sure he was with others and likely could still be with any one of them but he chooses to be with YOU.
Let her have him. What a prize. They'll end up cheating on each other.
Wow, you're right! There's a lot to unpack there.
It sounds like you and your SO have been having a lot of communication and relationship challenges. It's important to remember that a relationship is a partnership, and both people need to work together to make it successful. It's also important to recognize that no one is perfect, and everyone has their own flaws and weaknesses.
One thing you can do to try to improve your relationship is to make a concerted effort to communicate more openly and honestly with your SO. This means being willing to listen to their concerns and share your own, without getting defensive or shutting down. It's also important to be patient and understanding, and to try to see things from their perspective.
Another thing you can do is to focus on the things that you and your SO have in common, and to make time to do activities together that you both enjoy. This can help to strengthen your bond and improve your connection.
It's also important to address the issues that are causing conflict in your relationship, such as your SO's excessive drinking and your financial struggles. These are serious issues that can have a major impact on your relationship, and it's important to address them head on. You may want to consider seeking the help of a couples counselor or therapist to help you work through these challenges.
Ultimately, it's up to you to decide if you want to make your relationship work. If you believe that your SO is willing to work on the issues in your relationship and that you can still have a strong connection, then it may be worth trying to make it work. But if you don't see any improvement or if you feel like your SO is not willing to make the effort, then it may be time to consider moving on.
I’m sorry you’re going through this. I can’t imagine my parents betraying me like this. I’m very black and white on these things so I’m not the best. Once I break up with someone, I expect my parents to “break up” with them as well. I would consider this betrayal by my parents and I would clearly state it is Marissa you’re inviting or me. Make your pick. Moreover, I’m not sure what Marisa’s game plan is here? Winning you back by stabbing you in the back? She really didn’t think this through. Do you have siblings? How do they feel about your parents pushing Marissa on to you like that? I would try to pressure my parents by using my siblings. So that eventually it becomes all is kids or Marissa. I would do this in a heartbeat for you if you were my brother and asked me to stand by you and get Marissa out of your life and vacations.
I’m sorry you’re going through this. I can’t imagine my parents betraying me like this. I’m very black and white on these things so I’m not the best. Once I break up with someone, I expect my parents to “break up” with them as well. I would consider this betrayal by my parents and I would clearly state it is Marissa you’re inviting or me. Make your pick. Moreover, I’m not sure what Marisa’s game plan is here? Winning you back by stabbing you in the back? She really didn’t think this through. Do you have siblings? How do they feel about your parents pushing Marissa on to you like that? I would try to pressure my parents by using my siblings. So that eventually it becomes all is kids or Marissa. I would do this in a heartbeat for you if you were my brother and asked me to stand by you and get Marissa out of your life and vacations.
That depends a lot, my first bf left and started dating in a few months while I didn't meet someone until 2 years later. Years later I'm ending an almost 3 years long relationship to stay single (and partying) for a good while. Around this time some friends became lovers but on-line too far to visit frequently. Meet some guy in college, my worst relationship lol was way longer than it should. Then meet my current partner less than a year after and everything is great. I'm back with the LD lovers too, some people may consider our relationship as FWB tho.
Love is a peculiar thing. I was single for 2 years before I I started seeing my wife of 11 years. She, however, was just leaving a toxic relationship that had been off and on for 3 years when we started talking (we had known each other for nearly 4 years at this point and had just resumed contact). She fell in love with me while trying to leave him and his toxic environment. So, for me anyway, I don't think time matters as much as your feelings. If you start liking someone already don't feel bad about it.
She previously cheated with him, on you ? If i’m not too intrusive why didn’t you breakup at that point ? Thing is, if she is forced to see him, it will probably happen again in a moment of weakness and/or with alcohol or whatever. In my opinion, this whole story is going to hurt you, i recommend you to choose your pain
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18 is a minor? News to me.
So my god father is also named John Bobbitt, and we on-line in the general area of the other JB and because of being in the yellow pages, he used to get prank calls about his penis being cut off ?
Well you are a man after all /s
You were probably replying to OP or someone else but… My son was not circumcised. He was taught proper care/hygiene from an early age. I truly hope he never has any medical issues as an adult that causes him to need this procedure. I do sometimes worry about it from a medical standpoint because of what his father went thru as a Type 2 diabetic.
Aaah, good catch with the ages. I feel like there are a lot of women with much older husbands coming here asking, “Is this emotional abuse normal and what can I do to appease my abusive husband?” When you get married that young, you don’t get an opportunity to fine-tune your bullshit-o-meter or develop an independent identity strong enough to trust your instincts. OP’s husband is acting in bad faith threatening divorce at minor perceived slights, criticizing her every move.
I think she should stop playing his game. Call his bluff, OP. Next time he threatens to divorce you, call a lawyer.
Fine, then. If he really means divorce, then how is it “toxic” that he said he wants a divorce? Sounds like he’s voicing his position with clarity and confidence.
Bf is an asshole. 124 in 5’4 is ok but depends on preferences. There is “ok” and there is naked based on preferences. Your bf likes skinny girls.
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You could have died! And he hadn't visited you once? The guy just isn't someone who doesn't love you. He's a POS of a human being. Perfect strangers give more compassion then this man has.
'THE ONE' can only be the one If he loves you back. This guy not only doesn't love you, but he's a jerk ass that only loves himself. Even if he didn't love you, but was a good human being he would have driven you to the hospital, would have visited you, and as he knows he's your boyfriend, would not leave upu alone on New Years.
He's not the one. You deserve so much better. OMG Op, Stand up for yourself. Have a screaming fit on him and tell him he's a POS human being, then leave him. Use whatever contacts and services you can if you're relying on him since your new there and get out.
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This is powerful, thank you!
It sounds like she willingly flirted and kissed him, so do with that what you will. However, I 100% believe she was coerced into sex as I’ve been in a similar situation. There are manipulative and evil people in this world who are capable of finding you at your weakest moment and wearing you down into saying yes, to the point where you feel you have no choice but to say yes and just get it over with. This is sexual assault. Your girlfriend was sexually assaulted, it doesn’t matter if she flirted and kissed him, or if she went to his room. It’s so easy for people who’ve never been in that situation to say “just leave”, but when it’s happening, leaving is not always a viable option.
You are 100% allowed to leave her, as she did cheat by flirting and kissing. But him assaulting her was not her fault by any means. This is a tough situation for both sides. My suggestion would be offer to help her seek professional help (you can look up sexual health clinics to get her tested, and see if they have any therapy resources.) and protect your own peace by breaking up with her if cheating is non-negotiable for you.
Drop this creep.
She did it once and will do it again.
You need to be married in order to move in together, he will be living in barracks where you cannot stay.
You also cannot travel with him to basic training or advanced individual training.
It’s permanent because she’s very ambiguous about time and there’s no opening for remaining in contact. I hope you’re okay!
Being exclusive just means excluding other potential romantic and/or sexual partner while seeing someone. It could mean bf/gf or it good mean just having one sexual partner without the confines of an actual relationship. The only thing you can do is ask him what he thinks and feels about what you two have.
1) drop the recharge my batteries bit. It’s so disingenuous in my opinion
2) this has nothing to do with napping. You clearly don’t communicate issues in your home. Why would anyone agree to work and do everything and the spouse who stays at home does nothing. This doesn’t add up if it’s all you’re frustrated about. If it’s more then address that. If you really don’t appreciate it, you could go to the guest room just the same. I stand by there’s way way way more to this issue and you’re not really sharing all relevant info.
The clear blue tests work a little odd. The clear blue tests has that 2-3 means actually 4-5 weeks pregnant and then 3+ is 5+ weeks pregnant. Terribly confusing system but I’ve used one recently. The pamphlet included talks about it.
So she got pregnant from having sex 3+ weeks go. She is 5 or more weeks pregnant right now according to that test.
So yes it could be yours but not definitively. She would need an actual beta hcg to tell weeks.
um you seem real confident that you have a shot. you divorced him. like legally DIVORCED him. I don't think you get how unlikely it is that he'll even be able to take you seriously when you say this to him.
He is feeding you some classic lines/lies. Do not pursue this. It will be misery for you.
Yes but more importantly you collect as much as evidence as you possibly can and take it to hr because he is sexual assaulting you.
He definitely took advantage of the situation and honestly would consider it rape, even if he actually didn’t spike your drink. Which at the moment sounds likely, but is speculation.
Even if you seem lucid, he was fully aware you were drunk and could not give consent.
I’m sorry this happened to you. It is not your fault, and you have no reason to feel ashamed or badly about yourself.
He definitely took advantage of the situation and honestly would consider it rape, even if he actually didn’t spike your drink. Which at the moment sounds likely, but is speculation.
Even if you seem lucid, he was fully aware you were drunk and could not give consent.
I’m sorry this happened to you. It is not your fault, and you have no reason to feel ashamed or badly about yourself.
He's being both hella insecure and immature. What the hell.
Only time will tell you that. Three months isn't very long, you don't know her very well yet.
There's no way to know if she is a 'keeper' or if she will be 'loyal' at this stage.
Does he believe that a fetus is a person? Because that seems to be what a lot of people believe and, to be fair, if I believed that I would almost certainly feel the same way.
He sends vids tho, but never video chatted
“it seems that my relationship with Max had a negative effect on the relationship with my son” No shit…
Truly disturbing — both wife and “friend” (he’s not a friend).
I understand her not wanting to do this honestly. I used to think it was absurd not to give your kids their fathers last name…until now. My oldest two are from the man I was with before my husband now. We were never married but I never thought twice about giving them his last name. I thought it was just customary. But now that I’m older and married, and my youngest daughter myself and her father all share the same last name, I really don’t like that their last name is his. Before we got married it was 3 different last names in one household and the main point is that I have my kids 90% of the time and pay for 95% of their expenses so it seems unfair to me that they’ll always have his last name. He gets the perks without the work.
Not saying this will be your situation but if you want the kid to have your last name you have to marry her bud.
Time to grow up buttercup.
“Mom, Dad, I know you don't approve of (name) but we've been seeing each other for a while and now she's pregnant.”
No offense taken, I hope! I have a passion for learning the history of idioms ?
Med school is more of an achievement than a marriage. Celebrate you!
Your family keep treating you second because they can. Don't let them!
Yeah, I've been threatened with that so many times I've grown cold to that really.
It's pure manipulation. People experience these emotions and thoughts and they try to cling on to something like it's their property. Say whatever they can to mislead you.
If someone tells me they'll kill themselves I would actually just walk away sooner.
You can have a dance with both of them. One starts and the other finishes.
My daughter had her bio-dad and step dad walk her down the aisle.
2-5 times a week, not counting days where its multiple a day.
You can do so much better. End period stop. He sounds rude and cringey, and if my boyfriend ever referred to me as “his bitch” I would be out of there faster than light.
He's calling other people morons?
It doesn't get more moronic than this. Tell everyone he had a psychotic episode.
Why don’t you want to divorce him? he sounds awful, and you’re already doing everything by yourself anyway. You’re a strong, smart woman. You already know all of this logically, you’re just in the denial phase.
I’ve read your posts. I want you to imagine your life with your husband for the next 20 years. Putting up with his drinking. Doing everything for your daughter. Doing everything for him. Battling his misogyny.
Now imagine if you split now. The next 20 years. Doing everything for your daughter. Now you have so much more time and energy because you’re not enabling or battling his drinking and misogyny. Your not doing everything for him. So where does that go? To you. To your child.
I’d think really naked about what he ADDS to your life. And then think about what he’s going to take from your daughters. Her agency. Her value.
Why are you staying?
My 'father' does the same shit and it's infuriating. Votes for the people that call them criminals and rapists and thinks its his duty to force christ down everyones throat. He couldn't even afford it himself so had my brother pay for it. Last time he skipped his granddaughters graduation to stroke his ego instead. We don't talk anymore.
Talk to a lawyer, don’t agree to anything. All communication should be through lawyer, now. Don’t trust him, he’s already screwed you.
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I dont know how tight your friendship with the group is, but I know good friends won't let you down due to this. If you think about it logically, this would affect them less than if you weren't ace, if you know what I mean. Obviously this would matter to a potential partner rather than your platonic friends
While what he’s doing is gross and frankly juvenile, I think what it boils down to is that he misses having a partner he could spend time with and felt equal to. Partners should grow together and it sounds like he’s stagnated (or at least settled) in areas you have continued to grow in. You may simply not be compatible anymore.
You shit the bed twice. Once on accident and the second on purpose. I suggest you learn how to keep your shitty jokes in.
You are absolutely right!
OP’s boyfriend is the ultimate control freak and a psychopath.
OP should have a safety plan and exit this relationship as fast and carefully as she can.
It is clear that they are 100% incompatible. Be safe OP.
Block him. He no longer exists. Go out with your friends. Explore the world again. You are free.
If you are going to be unhappy either way, choose the way that can eventually lead you to happiness. That is leaving and eventually finding a better more compatible partner. Best to you.
That's a super weird take. I'd expect to have stuff stolen, maybe get SA'd or even murdered if I let randos into my home. Arson, not so much, especially as it started outdoors and these randos could've, if they wanted to, have set the house on fire without being let in.
“If you let randos in they'll torch your neighborhood” is not really all that foreseeable, even for pretty safety-conscious people (I neither pick up hitchhikers nor let strangers into my home, but that's not a risk I'd worry about. Many other risks yes, that one no).
You didn't overreact at all, justly you are absolutely right to adress what you don't like and wouldn't want. He is the one overreacting here, he is the one acting very off.
Let her know that since she decided to keep the cat even though you don’t want to/can’t afford it, she is responsible for his care and vet bills.
I am not a lawyer. BUT THIS. Please seek help. Do not date. Reflect on why you choose to put yourself in an environment that leads to bad outcomes? You say you don't like it but your behaviors say otherwise.
This isn't a him problem. This isn't a her problem. It's a you problem. Why do you insist on staying with this person who is a degenerate. You're mad at her? They're both toxic and you're feeding into it. They can't/won't change. You can only change yourself. Either accept this is your life or change your life for the better.
You've been together for 2 years and she randomly decided now was the time to come back and cause problems for you guys? I'm sure there has been multiple attempts and it's going to be a persistent/reoccurring problem.
Do not reply to her. I'm sure the restraining order has proximity and direct/indirect contact. All you're doing is putting your boyfriend at risk by doing anything but getting on with your life.
I also questions your boyfriend being on parole. Does he have a colored past? I'm not judging but has he learned? Has he changed? Who is he today? What will he be tomorrow? To me it looks like he's compulsive and a poor decision maker. Is that who you want to entrust your future with? Build a life with? Potentially have a family?
This whole situation is a mess. And until you realize you have a hand in this chaos and need to make better decisions; this is what your life looks like today. Guess what? It will be worse tomorrow.
Remember a series of bad choices makes a bad quality of life. A series of good choices makes for a good quality of life.
Which one do you want? But what does your actions tell you?
Where does it say OP left her first husband for this one? You make it sound like she was cheating.
It depends on the state. Some states still have at- fault divorce and his lawyer needs to advise him on the path to take, not the Reddit mob.
But you weren’t official – you weren’t exclusive and therefore it’s not cheating. (I’m genuinely confused where women are getting the idea that tubs that happen before a relationship is established are cheating as you aren’t the guest person to post this lately…)
Also, you are thinking about this wrong. You guys are hanging out a lot, but not dating, he goes to a party without you and some girl flirts with him. They get together that night… and then two or three days later he makes it official with you. Which says all that negation did for him is firm up that actually he wants to be exclusively and officially with you.
He didn’t cheat, but that experience did confirm you’re the one he’d rather be with.