She is a truly lovely person. Unfortunately that's her downfall now. I know she wants a good relationship with us both but this situation is just straining it with both of us. Now her mother constantly yells and complains, and there's me on the other side, who is understanding, but is obviously frustrated because I'm here, providing all the solutions and she still refuses to take them.
I don't know if it's worth making an ultimatum over. I'm just hoping things will improve by the time we get engaged but if not I just don't know if I'll regret breaking things off.
It was for an example… he was pointing out the fact that if OP told his wife something along those lines it'd be horrible so why should OP have to put up with being mistreated on the same level?
Your boyfriend watches porn, just like every other guy his age. He probably jerks off 1-3x every day, probably while watching porn. Don’t ask him about it, because he will keep lying about it because masturbation is a private activity he doesn’t want to discuss with his girlfriend. Also, don’t look through his phone.
I’m a guy, and I can assure you from a guy’s perspective, the fact he watches porn and jerks off has nothing to do with how attractive you are or whether you’re “enough” for him. If it gets in the way of your sex life—for example, he never wants to have sex with you anymore, or he can’t get naked without watching porn—then that’s a problem worth talking to him about. Otherwise, leave it alone.
She is a truly lovely person. Unfortunately that's her downfall now. I know she wants a good relationship with us both but this situation is just straining it with both of us. Now her mother constantly yells and complains, and there's me on the other side, who is understanding, but is obviously frustrated because I'm here, providing all the solutions and she still refuses to take them.
I don't know if it's worth making an ultimatum over. I'm just hoping things will improve by the time we get engaged but if not I just don't know if I'll regret breaking things off.
It was for an example… he was pointing out the fact that if OP told his wife something along those lines it'd be horrible so why should OP have to put up with being mistreated on the same level?
Your boyfriend watches porn, just like every other guy his age. He probably jerks off 1-3x every day, probably while watching porn. Don’t ask him about it, because he will keep lying about it because masturbation is a private activity he doesn’t want to discuss with his girlfriend. Also, don’t look through his phone.
I’m a guy, and I can assure you from a guy’s perspective, the fact he watches porn and jerks off has nothing to do with how attractive you are or whether you’re “enough” for him. If it gets in the way of your sex life—for example, he never wants to have sex with you anymore, or he can’t get naked without watching porn—then that’s a problem worth talking to him about. Otherwise, leave it alone.
If I'm in a long term relationship, objectify away:) It's probably not the reason they are still there so go right ahead and gush about my ass:)
Sounds like she's lying and this early in would be a deal breaker for me. There's no need to track ovulation cycles if they're on BC.