Personally a big part of what makes sex sexy for me is mutual desire and mutual enjoyment.
Your bf has let you know that his sexual desire is still there even if he knows the person he's fucking is not into it, is not enjoying it, and might even be there against their will. He doesnt care.
Knowing that about a partner would be a huge turn off for me, as well as concerning on an ethical level.
20 years together and i was never called a bitch. And he thinks that “i don't say you are a bitch, you just behave like a bitch” is so much better?! It is like “i don't call you stupid, you just do stupid things, behave stupid and when you open your mouth, you say stupid stuff”.
I would ask yourself 1. are you happy in your relationship and 2. if this is an abusive relationship. Abuse isn't just physical.
Why though? All you have to do to prevent spread is wash hands. If you would prevent lice by showering, I doubt they would be that common.
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Personally a big part of what makes sex sexy for me is mutual desire and mutual enjoyment.
Your bf has let you know that his sexual desire is still there even if he knows the person he's fucking is not into it, is not enjoying it, and might even be there against their will. He doesnt care.
Knowing that about a partner would be a huge turn off for me, as well as concerning on an ethical level.
Yes, she should stay locked at home in a burka because of your misogyny.
20 years together and i was never called a bitch. And he thinks that “i don't say you are a bitch, you just behave like a bitch” is so much better?! It is like “i don't call you stupid, you just do stupid things, behave stupid and when you open your mouth, you say stupid stuff”.
I would ask yourself 1. are you happy in your relationship and 2. if this is an abusive relationship. Abuse isn't just physical.
Don't stay in an unhappy relationship.
Unless you can get pregnant from sex, STFU. Seriously.