Ive had plenty of friends that would sleep with a new dude every weekend, back when they were in their twenties. This was when OkCupid was at peak, so they'd have things lined up for every weekend – it really wasn't that complicated or shocking.
Friend (F) husband is exactly like this. They have been married 10 years and have an almost 10 year old. Now their daughter is doing the exact same thing. Does not help, dismissal, gaslighting, and uses their culture as an excuse (both Mexican- Americans) to not do the work. I told my friend HE WILL NOT CHANGE. You have to decide whether you love both of them enough to do this the rest of your life, or divorce and find a partner and hope you can alter your daughter’s behavior. I hurt seeing my best friend become so dependent and depressed.
Ive had plenty of friends that would sleep with a new dude every weekend, back when they were in their twenties. This was when OkCupid was at peak, so they'd have things lined up for every weekend – it really wasn't that complicated or shocking.
Friend (F) husband is exactly like this. They have been married 10 years and have an almost 10 year old. Now their daughter is doing the exact same thing. Does not help, dismissal, gaslighting, and uses their culture as an excuse (both Mexican- Americans) to not do the work. I told my friend HE WILL NOT CHANGE. You have to decide whether you love both of them enough to do this the rest of your life, or divorce and find a partner and hope you can alter your daughter’s behavior. I hurt seeing my best friend become so dependent and depressed.