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You have to move on… Clearly she has. If you're saying it was toxic, then why would you want to go back to that! I have had several toxic relationships. They NEVER get better. I mean it might for a brief time but ultimately they don't. I'm sorry, that's just the way it is! Block her, throw away/delete pictures. You don't want anything to remind you of her. Literally purge her from your system. It's the only way! Yes, it's going to hurt. But it will get better! I promise! You just have to replace thoughts of her with something else. Stay busy! Go be a hoe… Have fun. Figure out what you want. Make it happen! You got this!!
My wife and I were broke together. Everything we've built, we've done so as a team. No way in hell I'd throw that away…for what? Status? Clout? A piece of ass?
I know my wife has my back, and did so when I was broke. I'm 6 figures now, and she's been 100% on my team to get there. No way I'm letting any other person have access to that.
I think men who do this, chasing an idea versus appreciation for an amazing woman, always end up regretting it.
Hey, not your situation but I'm a foster carer and what i know from experience is that kids can handle any situation that is explained to them honestly and age appropriately. There are whole books on how to talk to children about difficult issues.
Not telling them hurts more. Finding out that stuff was kept from them is a betrayal and those who don't have answers tend to create fantasy narratives in place of their truth.
Tell him, it only takes him shutting down social media and moving to lose the opportunity for you all.
Also as a side note, you clearly care a great deal and are doing the right thing looking at how to approach this and deal with all potential outcomes.
He’s had two other chances, didn’t catch a clue…so third time is The Ghost.
Lol it's the point of my post and the first thing I asked? And I'm not agreeing with you if I had already made that point.. your original comment is zero help, again, since I already knew that. But thank you anyway. ?
Is it possible it's still too early for her to open up more? A week is still really new!
That's crazy.
You cannot MAKE someone want to help themselves. If she was in the UK she would probably get better government sponsored treatment- where you could call the ambulance and get her help, but the system in SA doesn't really allow for this here. Ultimately you have to accept that you are not responsible for her actions and what she chooses to do- because there is nothing you can physically do anymore…
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You're 20 and considering marriage? No.
He already cheated; what's stopping him from doing it again?
If he was as great and caring as you say, he would not have cheated because he values you and your relationship.
Discover yourself as a person and learn to love her. Build great friendships and professional connections while you are active duty. Leave the dusty behind.
So your bf is a grown adult who can’t pay a fair share of the rent, cheats on you, and returns your Christmas gift due to an argument ABOUT his cheating?!? Honey, why are you still with him?!?
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Say “thanks bud. We're going to the police with this evidence cuz revenge porn is illegal. Have fun in prison”
Jk. Just go to the police. Don't tell him you're talking the evidence to the police.
Realistically the only way this gets solved is to communicate with him, if rent goes up housework evens out etc etc.
Talk to each other, communicate, compromise.
If this is a huge struggle now marriage is a pipe dream.
That’s still such a childish response by him though. She clearly didn’t mean anything malicious by it. Part of being an adult is adapting to the unexpected. It says a lot about him how he reacted.
What's your question? Welcome to marriage. You earn it and she spends it. Pretty standard.
Or a favourite food! Why not be the “Bacon”s or “Pasta”s
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Girl, this is not love, this is a trauma bond.
Yes, and I agree on that view even if I personally wouldn’t do poly or open relationships again. But if you are expecting that from you because that’s what you agreed upon, how is it okay for her to break that? You say you don’t condone it, but your consequences for her actions are “mhmmm, maybe I should tell her to ahead and date the other guy?”
Prioritise your feelings a bit here, mate, and don’t let things just be to avoid rocking the boat. You can’t let people walk over you and offer them rewards for it on top of it, that’s just giving them incentives to disregard you in favour of whatever they feel like because they know that’s gonna be your reaction.
Ffs, she didn’t even come clean because she felt bad, she came clean a year after sleeping with him because his wife caught on and she wanted to get ahead while still continuing the affair… I mean, she’s not even pretending she is trying to regain your trust.
it's more because I didn't tell her that I was using it, that when she asked if I had used it I said no, Mainly because at that time I thought it'd be easier without her knowing or worrying
How is it “predatory” when she's the primary aggressor here?
She asked the guy to suck his dick and is wearing him down over time – she knows exactly what she's doing.
We're living in a flat (that he hates) that I found last minute mid last year and agreed upon without consulting him beforehand because he could have easily gone back to his aunts house but I can't go back to my parents place, there literally isn't space. (Which I still don't think he understands fully) plus the housing market is atrocious!
As for the ultimatum, unfortunately, it's not the first time it's been used, (not about this friend though) even though I'm the older one in the relationship I do sometimes feel like he talks down at or to me in certain situations.
So he wants you to believe what he says, but don't really believe what he says? This guys is not ready to be in a real relationship. Move on. He's basically saying you will never get it right. He reserves the right to gas light you, flip things on you, move goal posts and change the rules whenever he feels like it. He is not worth it! So many red flags.
I don't have a lack of self respect I just don't like giving up easily and I love her
It isn’t remotely normal to block your significant other on all social media after a fight. And if this is a common thing with you two, I would think about why you’re in this relationship.
You’re a terrible parent and a terrible human. Missed out on your sons birthday because you chose to be with the child you groomed. You were relieved when your son left for college. Now you have a child with the the child you groomed. Disgusting.
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A friend of my wife and I decided somewhat recently to take up photography. He has started his own business and it attempting to get clients for weddings, engagements, and boudoir.
My wife and I recently had an anniversary and without me knowing he offered to do a shoot with her.
When I opened the gift I was already shocked. But when she said our friend had taken the pictures my heart sank.
I don’t know how to bring it up in a way that will not make her feel bad.
EDIT: The pictures were lingerie and some very hot. I don’t like the idea of my friend seeing her like that.
EDIT 2: I was shocked because they went from tasteful to pornographic . Only after seeing them did she say who took them. Apparently it was all his idea from the shoot, to the outfits, to the nudity. She just went along with what she thought was the professional.
EDIT: I explained to her that she looks great, but that I am very uncomfortable with him taking the pictures. She understood where I was coming from and apologized. She said that he only touched her to pose her and make adjustments. She did sign something giving him full rights and ownership of the pictures, but he promised to consult with her over if he wants to use any for anything. I haven’t confronted him yet.
You have options. It won’t be fun but use them. Seriously.
Having had the experience of being stalked by an ex-boyfriend cop for just breaking up with him, do not, for the love of God, tell his wife. I lived in fear for months. I understand your desire to protect his wife, that's admirable. But the consequences to you could be really awful.
You are insecure, you do not trust your partner, and your insistence that he share his phone with you is controlling.
So end the relationship.
Go to therapy.
Work on yourself before thinking of getting back into a relationship.
Your trauma from past relationships is not his problem. It is something that you have to deal with on your own, preferably before you start another relationship.
Listen…
“I am going over to my friend”. “Ok, thank's for telling me!”
That's most of the guys favorite answer. Meaning they are being trusted.
What's up with this guy?
Do throw a temper tantrum for once and see if he likes it. I bet… he will find something to say to that, also.
So this is not about YOU. It's about him.
He is picking random reasons to find fault with you.
Be away there. He is manipulative.
Him testing you makes him a total failure.
Tell him he got an F- in your personal boyfriend test and be done with him.
Why aren’t you disgusted by this?? Do you not care about those girls’ privacy??
My best friend is someone I met on Bumble, I also slept with him. My partner isn't bothered by it at all. Hell I'm going to stay a few days with him in a few months.
If you want to break up because it makes you insecure. Admit it and break up.
He reached out to a ex female coworker through text for what he said was about work but when I saw their messages they were in context that was not work related and I brought this up to him that it was not ok basically and it backfired on me being the crazy one.Idk if the matching his energy part was sarcasm or not:
I don't think it is really your business
What's the rush? You two are logically strangers and you're firmly in the honeymoon phase wearing rose colored glasses. I honestly hope it works out, but you're about to experience a monumental change in dynamic. Good luck.
What was his response to when he was last tested?
That’s a rough life lesson.
But you want different lives and luckily the loss is minimal
Also side note on top of all the good advice about leaving him.
Please do not ever leave him alone with your child. The fact he seems to resent and hate a baby is a huge red flag. Protect her and yourself.
She’s not entirely wrong – none of us can predict the future – buts that’s some really immature shit to say to a partner.
End it with her.
If she’s asexual and you aren’t, then the relationship will implode soon enough anyway.
If she’s not, then her emotional and relationship maturity leaves a lot to be desired – a partner should never tell you that they don’t know if they can forgive you – yet.
If they can’t forgive you, then they leave, if they can, then they take space as necessary to process things, but they can’t drag it on for long, as then they become manipulative.
He’s gone through a lot of crazy shit in life. I just wanted to be the person to love him and treat him properly. Everything was amazing a few months ago. It’s just recently that he’s grown cold and distant.
You should both grow up