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Date: December 17, 2022
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I have a friend who was in an abusive relationship. The guy used to beat her and tell her it was her fault. She finally got out of it. The silver lining, she says, is that now she can smell an abuser a mile away.
Have you asked him what his perspective is on gifts for him? What was the best gift he ever got in life and at what age? What his perspective is in Xmas?
As a man I also find it difficult to get into the Xmas spirit, thankfully for my wife and kid I feed off of their enthusiasm. It's very hot to receive gifts sometimes due to the lack of consideration that has been years before. With that our role in life is to provide and to ask for very little if anything at all. We are so consumed by this we are at a loss when we are finally asked what we want. Most of the time it isn't even a material thing. Each man is different but just like your idea for the sushi knives, he says they are too professional, I'd retort “nothing is too good or professional for my man(love) and I won't have another sushi until you use the best tools for my best man” helping us feel important is the only way we may accept such gifts or even love.
Hope this helps, all the best
I have brown, my husband has blue, my 2 girls have Blue.
My sister has blueish hazel? Idk but not brown at all used to be really blue but as she’s aged her eyes have changed, her husband has green, one son has hazel one has my color brown and one is blue.
All three are 100 percent hers and her husbands.
4 kids with a 15yo mentality. Poor kids ?
I assume he was very lovely at the beginning of the relationship because he was trying to “get” you and it was the honeymoon phase. NOW that he’s “got you” he’s showing you how he truly is. Listen to him – this is the true him.
He’s not going to be that guy again (from the beginning) because he was never truly that guy.
Eww.
I dont get how I am the arsehole
A married/separated man dated me while being unsure about whether he actually wanted to leave his family. He lovebombed me by giving me loads of money and gifts, but ended it with me when I didnt pay back money I owed him. He is a complete narcissist.
Have you thought that maybe his wife was lying about them being separated to protect him. He ruined his own life and is now attempting to ruin mine.
It makes so little sense, like she filled up some quota and is now good for life? That’s not how sex drives work!
I think this is entirely up to you and what you have to ask yourself is did you decide to break up with her out of spite or reaction, or did you think about what the relationship might look like if you had a conversation with her?
If kissing on the lips is touchy territory for her, it might stem from something that happened to her in her past that you are unaware of (and maybe she didn’t recognize it right away).
Communication is huge in any important/successful relationship, so decide whether you want to have a serious talk with her, one-on-one (no friend with her). If you can reach some understanding of where she’s coming from and how you might slowly gain more trust, then perhaps this could just be a temporary obstacle.
I do think it’s a bit of a red flag to not only bring this up after several times kissing her, but especially when she decided to bring her friend with her. This reminds me of shit you see/hear about in high school, so could be a lack of maturity on her part. You know her better then all of us commenting, so go with how you feel.
20 and 30 is very different to 25 and 35 or 30 and 40.
At this point, I'd break up. Too many red flags.
lol, you are half right, I've done it before and have been absolutely slaughtered in the comments, like 150 downvotes.
If OP is a woman, they have the holy unquestionable word of god coming out of their mouths on this sub, men however must be making it up to sound better than it is.
Mostly my thoughts are: this person gets in bed with people quickly and never uses condoms, thus is highly likely to have an STD. Don't worry about if he respects you — respect yourself.
She blocks her exs
This is the second time you have used “weather” when you meant “whether.”
It's not the kiss, whether it was a few seconds or if it was all night. it's the betrayal.
You can't blame the alcohol either. Has that ever stood up in the court of law?
There's a saying that if you forgive a cheater the first time then they already know you'll forgive them the second time.
Don't listen to the people trying to shame or insult you into taking her back. You're better off finding someone who would never treat you that way
Honestly I have no idea why she wouldn’t tell her friend either…
It kind of surprised me how many people are advising me to keep secrets from my husband because it is more convenient. But keeping secrets is the first step in cheating. I dont want to start that journey.
If your wife wants to forget about it she was aware he had the photos. You need to check her phone for copies and for any proof of his story.
I, being someone who was sexually assaulted, would absolutely not tolerate this. This would be especially heinous from someone I considered a friend.
It’s disgusting and such an invasion on privacy. If your wife was so incredibly Open with her “nudes” that she didn’t care who saw them- them you’d have a million of them.
I would seriously be having an issue with the fact that your wife said forget it. This is a problem.
Guess you shouldn’t have cheated?♀️ I don’t blame him
You hate it you've asked him to stop repeatedly and he refuses. It's abusive and he abused you to the point of rearing violently.
Look up reactive abuse.
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How do you think your partner would feel if he read this post and your comments?
Totally unedited and without you sitting there explain every little thing he would cock his eyebrow at?
Would you feel bad afterwards because you made him feel like his only good quality is trauma?
Just so you know- as someone who has childhood and adult trauma- what you're saying isn't even remotely TRUE let alone okay.
?⛳️?⛳️?⛳️?
Would you love him if he never went through trauma? No? Ok then
lol OP you are something else. Just because you are marrying this guy doesn't mean you get a say in his finances before you are married, or even during if he chooses to keep them separate. You over stepped boundaries.
You have to get a divorce–therapy isn't going to do anything to change your value (not wanting kids).
Successfully attacked your senior dog = 3 times Unsuccessfully attacked your kid = 1 time
Save your kid and your old doggo!!!!!!!!! Dont tell me you gonna wait for it to attack again then you'll decide! I would euthanize the dog.
Sportin' the flavor saver I see ? good luck though!
I really wish yoir wife had more self respect than to even cpnsider staying with you.
his balls belong in his sack, not your purse.
That cracked me up, I had never heard that before but it is so apt.
How can I talk to her about this in a way that won’t strain our relationship?
You can't, because you are in the wrong.
But you aren’t just asking are you And you are tying to sabotage them by this FBI style snooping.
You’re trying to find out in an invasive way if he’s cheating so you can have her all to yourself.
And implying his lesbian friend is faking it without any proof? That’s not normal behaviour either.
How long did they try before you and your siblings were conceived? Maybe your dad is infertile (and doesn’t know) and she got sperm donors through a doctor without telling him?
Hebrew school is almost definitely religious. It’s held at the temple and it’s comparable to Sunday school.
Dump this loser. Anyone who looks at you with disgust DOES NOT deserve to date you. He is a hypocrite. This is gross behavior. Kick him to the curb. This won’t be the last you hear about your so-called ´failings’ if you stay.
You were just on 5 dates. It is better to bring it up now then you hear it in a year. Just come with “Do you remember when we talked about accident and you said something that i can't get out of my mind. My ex often made fun of my nose and know i'm pretty sensitive when people make comments about it. So i want to know what you mean when we talked about my nose-accident.”
You said he is a blunt-type. So i guess when you both stay together for longer, and he has a problem with your nose, he will make comments that hit home. So why walk on egg-shells now. He sees your nose whenever he looks at you, so there is no hiding it. And it is better you find it out now. Maybe he just thought that you would want to change it and all your worrying is for nothing.
You can't assault someone with their consent.
There’s nothing you can do op. When a man wants you nothing can make him leave, if he doesn’t, nothing can make him stay. You don’t want him trapped and lashing out. You don’t want yourself or your baby in that environment. Let him go, collect child support, spousal support and file for divorce. You’ve got enough to focus on. He’s not worth your time.
He still wants a Mommy not a girl friend
You deleted your post as I was typing…hope you still get this message
Nu uh..you will be IF YOU DON'T CUT HER OUT. Seriously….
Could you ever trust him again? How can a relationship work without trust? And you know why cheaters cheat again? Because they think “well if i get caught… she forgave me once, she will do it again! And i now know how to hide it better!” He disrespected you when he cheated on you, he showed you that his urges are more important than you and your feelings. Do you think that he thought about you once when he wrote those women?! They don't even know you exists!
He isn't sorry about what he did and how will you ever know that he 1. really goes to therapy and 2. what he talks about. He just is sorry to lose his confortable life. Let me guess, you do cook for him and do most of the housechores. He will need to care for himself if you are away.
You will find a better man, someone who don't lie to you and cheat on you.
She calls me “babe” and everything
Well in that case ,it’s even worse and I don’t know why you would want to be friends with someone like that …she obviously needs to go to therapy if she’s looking for validation by saying anything idk she’s got some serious problems and needs to grow the hell up and not cross boundaries with a friendship to a married man while she’s also married.
What are you gonna catch from an arm pit? Seems safe.