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Date: October 14, 2022
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No you don't your only 18 you're in love with the idea of being with her and your so infactuated your blinding your eyes to the truth because she's all you know
As I said in the FIRST SENTENCE, it makes sense in this situation.
wow. dump this girl, and get a prescription to function with the next one. ED is realllyyy common, and the pills to treat it are just a doctor visit away 🙂
I do the same, with or without the dog.
He was not worried, I was breathing normally, we had not planned anything that would require me to wake up earlier, he hadn't made breakfast for me (not something he would do).
I think it's just how he tries to control me in a 'soft' way, to demand attention (like: 'hey, I'm awake, wake up, look at me, listen to me', a bit like a cat or a dog who wakes you up because they're hungry or want to play).
Tbh, I'm more and more fed up with his attitude…
“Wrong” is a weird word here. There's a chance that you and she could have a good relationship. How big that chance is is impossible to tell from any internet blurb which is necessarily affected by your unbiased perspective. In abstract, it's not “wrong”… but it is generally considered a dick move. It's only “wrong” if you expect to broach the topic without suffering any consequences.
The more important question is this: Are both you and she in a position where you can afford to burn bridges, and are you willing to cut this person out of your life? If things go “well” for you, then probably she drops her current partner, and this has negative repercussions on her social life. If things go “poorly” for you, then you may become party to an affair, which can be bad if it is found out. If things go “terribly” for you, then you are publicly rejected, and develop a reputation as an adulterer and/or a homewrecker. And in the worst case scenario, if this is a coworker or something, then you may be accused of sexual harassment and suffer the professional consequences.
As for her ability to burn bridges, it's possible that her living situation is in some way dependent on her SO. Maybe they're a family friend, and “cheating” would negatively affect relationships with many family members. Again, it's impossible to say from an live post.
As other comments have said, these behaviors don't necessarily mean anything. If you decide that you're in a position to burn bridges, then the next step is to observe if she treats you differently than other people, regardless of sex or gender.
If this person is genuinely “friendlier” with you than with others, and you're in a position where they can walk away, you should just inform them that their “advances” are confusing since you know they're in a relationship. You can even slip in a casual “I appreciate the attention, and I'd ask you out for coffee if you were single, but I know you're not, so it's just a little weird.” If she seems shocked or offended, just apologize for misinterpreting her friendliness, and politely explain that you're not comfortable with so much non-romantic physical contact. Again, ONLY do this if you are CERTAIN that you can burn bridges with this person. You might not have to, but you still need to be ready.
And again, you haven't established what kind of relationship you currently have with this person. Presumably, you see them somewhat often. Part of being mature is knowing that sometimes maintaining what you have is better than taking a risk. I personally have had many friends over the years that I've been attracted to, but I've decided that I value the friendship more than risking a relationship. The risk is double than you might at first think: First, there is a chance you are rejected initially. Second, there is a chance that the relationship goes poorly and that you hurt the other person or are hurt yourself or both.
However, and man I wish I could find the scholarly source for this, but my Google-fu is evidently not up to the task… Having an SO does not mean that someone is necessarily unavailable. Specifically, at least one survey found that women look for new partners while in a relationship at a significant rate. I'm pretty sure that rate was less than half, but maybe as high as 40%. I specifically remember one woman being quoted something like “you wouldn't go shoe shopping barefoot”. Please don't quote me on that, though – again, trying to find the scholarly source. I'll edit this comment if I succeed.
So yeah. Whether you go for it or not, take it slow. Don't jump to conclusions, don't be too blunt with your desire, and try not to be too disappointed if you get rejected. Lots of people also just like flirting. It can be fun, and it can also be very satisfying to have external validation of your attractiveness. Even if it is flirting, it might be platonic flirting, so try not to take it too seriously.
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Your stepson sounds like a nightmare and your husband sounds ridiculous and unhelpful. If you're not happy with the situation, please feel free to leave – you have no obligation towards these people.
Do you want a boob job? Yes, get one. No, tell him you’re not interested.
Boob jobs are common but that doesn’t mean it isn’t a big decision. They’re a physical alteration forever, most people need to replace them 1-2 times, there’s growing evidence showing that the implants make lots of women extremely physically ill and then they opt to get them removed. It’s also surgery and that has risks such as infection, scars, difficult recovery. Never mind that your bra’s will no longer fit and they’re not cheap, your clothes will not fit the same either. You also have to live with them and the permanent modification you’ve made to your body, some people develop body dysmorphia after cosmetic surgery.
I also say this with all the kindness and support of a 26 year old woman who remembers being 22 – you have so much time to learn to grow into your body and appreciate it for what it is. If you’re anything short of extremely unhappy with your chest, I wouldn’t do the surgery and I would never do it to be more attractive to a man.
She’s hitting you with a flagpole with a big red flag. Run
Yeah, you're probably going to have to pay child support. Sorry you're in this situation.
Is that “non-player characters”? I think that's what it is, just not sure it means the same in this context…?
Sometimes a best friend knows you well enough to know when you need a kick in the ass.
It sounds like a number if things could be going on.
Everyone is different and you are allowed to need some alone time.
-No one should ever rely on one person to provide all the love, affection and connection they need. Its not fair but it's also a common misconception thanks to the media and lack of life experience. Ruby Sparks is one of the only movies I can think of when a main character relied on their partner for everything and had the tough lesson that it wasn't healthy.
-If you live together that can be very hot to strike the balance. Alternatively being in two different stages of life (college and full time employment) can also be hot to balance. Because she doesn't have that structure in her life, understanding will be tricky.
None of the above are impossible, in fact they are quite common relationship challenges.
The tell will be how you both meet the challenge and move forward.
Extracurricular activities for her might help build her confidence in different environment (sport, dance and work out classes etc) and give her a wider support group so to speak.
This doofus should be posting on r/AITA. Spoiler alert: yes OP is definitely the asshole.
Yes, I'm working on that. I'll be seeing one soon. Thank you.
I'm not the only one that's dirty and perverted right? I should probably stop reading fan fiction erotica
Possibly, I used to break 'em all the time, name brand ones. Still haven't really figured that one out (it's not a brag, it's a BAD THING when the condom breaks).
I am. This woman has treated me better than anyone, ever. Our chemistry is amazing. But you're right, maybe I should relax. She is going through a rough time now and here I am being selfish and rushing her without actually rushing her, if that makes sense. In my head so to speak. Thanks for answering.
You just had a baby. Everything is changing right now. Stress and sleep deprivation are a hell of a drug.
I'd give it time, and accept that parenting has temporarily changed everything.
How much are you doing with caring for that baby? Wife and I tried to adopt a young relative together, and even with a teenager in the house (albeit with special needs), I can't say I had much time to be drinking alone in that first year.
If you want your wife to see you as a sexual partner instead of another child in the house, make sure she's only getting half of the work.
Her reply to that is that if we had more connection it wouldn't be that way.. I suppose the fact she isn't frustrated the same way as me tells it.
This is so fucked up. You better ask her agree on that masturbation thing. It does not have to include porn. Honestly controlling jerking off seems brutal to me. You could make some photos of her if she is so concerned.
I know full well you won’t listen to anything anyone has to say to you because you’re obviously operating under the delusion that this is your world and everyone else just kinda exists around you. So I’m going to talk to your husband in the hope that he finds and reads this. Man, you deserve so much better than this. She does not and will never love you because she’s only capable of loving herself. Please, just leave as soon as you can- this relationship has been DOA from the start.
Be blunt. Did you lose your engagement ring? Do you not like it. Not trying to be controlling here but why aren't you wearing it?
The excuses will come but only you know if she's being honest and they are valid.
I don’t know why he’s ignoring your requests either. That sounds frustrating. Does he do this with everyone or you specifically? Or women and not men?
I think it’s fine to tell him you don’t see a future with him if he doesn’t change his behavior. Ask him if he’s willing to try a communication exercise. When you make a request as in the examples you gave, he repeats back to you what he thought you said. You then reply that’s right, that’s what I meant, or, say no, that’s not what I meant and clarify or restate. Rinse and repeat. Good luck!
First, don't ask questions that don't have useful answers.
Second, did you learn nothing from Judith and Holofernes? Pretend to go along with the threat and then kill the person holding you hostage.
You are being seriously trickle-truthed. He's also fiddling around with a DARVO strategy: Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender. If he persists you should cut your losses.
You don't need her to “get it”. Listen to your lawyer and don't try to change her mind about anything. That part of the relationship is over now. Where was this cooperative attitude before she got caught cheating? Where was all this guilt before you said the D word? She's not really trying to fix the relationship, she's trying to get out of trouble.
Yea bro it’s a wrap. Look elsewhere
Idk why people here are downplaying the obviously deluded and unreasonable girlfriend. Doesn't even matter if you play more than those 3 hours a week you said either. I know plenty of gamers that make a living off streaming playing over 4 to 6 hours a day and some that even play and stream with their spouse with a similar set up…
Yet these folks here are claiming that she has to feel rejected and hurt and whatnot by your playing and somehow they're making excuses for this delusion? I'm sorry dude but only a mentally unstable person can truly believe that and the fact that there are people (most likely other women) making it seem like she's the victim here is ridiculous.
For me, this is a HUGE red flag ? I've seen quite a bit of cases of men who enjoy playing video games every now and then have martial and relationship issues. Most of these cases with men in relationships aren't even that severe with “gaming addiction” more than most are simply guys trying to wind down for a bit with the boys in a couple rounds of Warzone every weekend and their wives or girlfriends absolutely can't stand them doing said activity even for short periods of time a week. On the contrary I've seen MUCH happier couples that game together or have their own hobbies that they keep to without nagging their partner. In fact I'd say those couples I've spoken to have better relationships than most. Some have been a partner that plays and the other just watching and even those have a significantly higher outlook on their relationship than what your case might be. While there ARE some people out there (men AND women) with addictive tendencies and possibly a so called “gaming addiction” it's much more prevalent in younger individuals than people your ages and usually these cases (from what I've studied) resolve themselves as the individuals progress in age and maturity. There's also this fallous belief that only certain de facto addictive stimulants are only addictive like drugs or alcohol. You could literally be addicted to ANYTHING. Enough progressive dopamine hits and you're hooked. I'm talking anything from Porn to Candy Crush to yes even marijuana and sex and some otherwise normally healthy behaviors even so much as reading… Did you know people back then would complain how the younger generation in the mid to late 1800s were addicted to reading books??? This fallacy that video games are addicting is ridiculous when almost everyone has an addiction to something and addictive tendencies. Your grandma could be at the casino spending butt loads of dollars there and still come home to lecture you on how video games are so addicting.
Honestly sir this isn't healthy behavior on your partners part and if she is serious I'd argue it's neurotic and delusional. I'm not going to tell you or recommend what to do but I'm guessing this isn't the only issue you've been having with her as this sounds way too unreasonable to be a one off situation in your relationship. Seriously, you could be out clubbing and drinking with your buddies getting hooked on drugs and talking to fine girls but God forbid you play Super Mario Bros lol
This whole thing is fucking fake. What are you talking about?
I wish someone would just hand me random cash. Wow. If your pay goes down, you adjust your lifestyle. Not ask for handouts.
That's what I meant by “already got medicated”
You like what you like, and you aren't harming other people by doing the things you like to do. And I say this as a feminist: I fully realize of everything patriarchy does in the life of people of all genders (it harms men too, by pushing them to hide their emotions as if they were not human) but it's not the fault of cars or boxing that patriarchy exists. It's really not.
It sounds to me that she wants to date you, but turn you into a person you are not and erase from your life the things that bring you joy. It never works. One of you will be permanently unhappy. And no, you can't hide your hobbies from her, how will that work even? By not engaging in your hobbies or lying to her when she asks you where are you going? That's so toxic. You're not compatible and I'm not a fan of her and how she wants to manufacture a person who doesn't exist so she can date this person, as long as this person obeys.
U haven’t gotten out much lately if asking that question
I don't know, Op.
If I only got to see my boyfriend on the weekends and he was “all over me” the second he sees me, I would be perturbed.
I mean, yeah~~hugs and kisses when we see each other, sure!
Can we sit down and talk about, oh, I don't know, how are you? how was it driving up? Have you eaten? Can I get you something to drink?
If he comes in and the moment he sees me, he's taking off his pants and tells me to get hard? Lol.
I totally get passion, and wants and desires, but … can I sit down and take a breath?
If I was approached like that, I would get turned off. Totally turned off. There's not enough lube in the world that would help.
Are you sure you aren't the side piece to a man with a whole family elsewhere?
Or maybe he has a chick in each state he travels to?
IDK. This smells kinda fishy.
There are a LOT of POTC posts in his post history. Like, a weird amount, perhaps it's related to this weirdness.
Even if that's true, you don't have to stick around for it. He can sort his stuff out in therapy and if he wants to get better he will, but in the meantime, it's not even been a year yet and it really sounds like he's not ready to be in a proper relationship.
You break up with him? It's pretty simple.