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Date: October 15, 2022
Karoline, 19 y.o.
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It's easy to be black and white with other people's lives, I want op to have tools to understand and explain their difficult situation that will help inform their decision
Thank you for the added context. When phrasing it this way, it definitely seems as though she is a bit high maintenance and has very outdated beliefs what “roles” each sex fulfills in relationships. If you're indeed putting in the effort and she either responds to it negatively or not at all, then I can't see a path forward without some form of couple's counselling. Relationships are a dual effort endeavor, she has to be a team player. If she has certain standards, she has to communicate and find a rational middle ground with you in order to coexist.
Sometimes, people who've lost romantic feelings tend to try sabotaging the relationship with escalating trends of insidious behavior, intending to provoke their partners into breaking things off as they'd rather not be the one to initiate it. Typically from a toxic combination of fear, dishonesty and ego. Maybe that could be at play here. The only way to know for certain is to look at it at large and get a pulse for how she's feeling. If your gut tells you that she's giving up on the relationship and is just constantly seeking ways to tell you” you're just not good enough for me”, trust that instinct.
Thank you for the response. I agree, he's not perfect, but neither am I. There's been enough good in our relationship that I feel like I'd still like to put in the effort and I'm hopeful we can move past this.