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Date: December 8, 2022
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You're with her why?
You're still with her why?
Consent is important. So is reading the room. I think it would be so cringey for a dude to ask that I’d be turned off. Try to ramp up to kissing. Start with hand-holding, move an arm around her. If she’s down for both of these things, a quick kiss is probably ok. If she’s resistant, back off. It can be a hot line to navigate, but if you want to kiss her, she’s worth the effort!
If there's anything she can say to you that would make you want to let her back into your life, then maybe go. If not, just say “no, thank you”.
I think you're past the point of offense. This abuse is serious – a total relationship or happiness killer if not dealt with.
You’re girlfriend has an extremely callous and immature attitude towards medical conditions. I consider that to be disqualifying features for an adult relationship. I hope that you’re getting qualified medical help for your ED and your anxiety. I don’t think those things will fix the underlying problems with your relationship. But I think addressing the anxiety will help you find the stability to find someone better and the ED won’t be a barrier to that.
First of all, you are definitely skinny. Second, just communicate with him more. Tell him exactly how you feel. You’re not asking for a lot, I think every person wants their partner to reassure them that they find them attractive.
First make sure to get a copy of everything you saw so she can't delete and deny when you confront her if you decide to do it.
Chances are the issues you are talking about started just after that guy entered the picture. He gave her attention, she got hooked, became delusional and selfish, and lost sight of how she was destroying your marriage and family. She's been focusing her emotional and sexual energy on this guy and to justify it, she had to transfer all her guilt into resentment and put all the blame on you.
It's at the very least an emotional affair with a strong sexual component, you don't mention her being physical with the guy. If she didn't go into physical affair territory yet, it's only a matter of time and opportunity. She's just losing her mind over this, like an addict.
You need to show her that you respect yourself, and prepare your exit plan with divorce papers.
If she's delusional, she needs to feel the shock of reality crashing on her after what she did. There is a chance it might wake her up, especially if all she did with the guy was send text / pictures / videos. The more you give her a glimpse of the consequences she will be facing, the stronger the shock and the better the chances of her waking up from her fantasy.
In any case, if she isn't remorseful and ready to work hard to recover what she destroyed and save the family from the consequences of her betrayal, then you need to protect yourself and the kids.
It's possible to make it but it's your choice, you decide what you need and don't compromise. Otherwise, it's better to divorce, focus on your healing and coparent the kids.
Good! I really hope things turn out for the best, however that looks for you.
I've survived a similar situation with my husband. I'm the wife in you situation. I was very frustrated with my job for a long time. Came home exhausted and angry every day. This was my dream job… shouldn't I be happy? I'd come home and “vent” to my husband. His job is so easy and stress free. I deserve to vent. But I didn't notice his perspective. I'd be gone all day. Barely say hello, and then walk through the door dropping F-bombs. It was exhausting for him. I wouldn't even ask how his day was. He finally spoke up. He asked me to at least wait a while after I got home to start bitching. Maybe ask or even pretend to care how his day was. … This of course, made me very angry. His day was easy. His day is always easy. No one fucking died at his work!! Oh…. Maybe I'm the problem. It took me a long time to see that. Your wife is probably feeling stuck. She waned this for so long. Worked so nude. Is drowning in loans…. and is miserable. I'd tell her that you want to be supportive, that you understand her frustrations at work. But that you need to find a balance. Really emphasize that you want her to be happy and that she is so clearly not happy. Maybe come up with a plan. Can she continue this for 6 more months and then take a long break? Do this job for a few years, until loans are paid down, and then look into a different career? Sometimes you just need a light at the end of the tunnel to stick it out at a job you hate. But she needs to change something. Because your current arrangement isn't sustainable. Work as a team. But just make sure she knows she is supported by you!!!
Nah. The OP mentioned earlier that he had urges to cheat on her despite not yet knowing she cheated on him. Which therefore, he didn't really loved her at that point
Bro, why are you tying yourself to this deadweight slag? I’m 5’7” too and let me tell you, anybody that’s stupid enough to get hung up on a minute detail such as height is clearly not worth your time. Plenty of fish in the sea, no reason to weigh yourself down with another’s pointless opinion on something you literally can do nothing about.
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I would like to ask first if your co-workers are mostly women? Is your group seems to be more fun?
I’d also think it is best to be professional with them and tell your husband. Ask him why his insistence to be involve with them as you haven’t met his co-workers.
Sure, be upset, but whoa Nelly!! Be her friend!!! Could you imagine being in her position? She needs to find strength and courage to leave him. She's not making clear choices, and sounds like doing the best she can, and you're adding to this for her. I'll bet she's a hard mess inside right now! ☹️☹️☹️☹️ My heart hurts for her. It sounds so easy, leave him, but there so much more to this. Please educate yourself about dv and emotional abuse. If not you, I hope she finds a real friend who can help her see she deserves better – anyone would.
Send the email, keep it low key,, short, clean, and sweet.
Not lots of detail, but say you are out of the country, are free and wondered about her.
If she answers great, if not respect that.
If you don't send it you will think about it for the rest of your life.
I’m sorry, but this isn’t gonna get any better. If he broke up with you before he will do it again. You need to take your own life into your hands and do what you want because he’s just gonna take it from you. He just want you to be as miserable as he is.
1) You’re an incredible writer. Have you ever thought about becoming an author? You certainly have the command of the language to do so.
2) He’s absolutely wrong about this issue, and I’m even more concerned that he screams at you and stomps off to shoot whiskey over his own disgusting habits. The fact that you deal with this, what, once or twice a month, so you’re cleaning HIS MESS at least 24 times a year, and he still has the audacity to scream at you and you apologize? Wild, I tell you. He has a gem of a wife and doesn’t even appreciate it. Where can the romance be when you’re dealing with his marinations?
And for the record, I’m married too, so this isn’t some idealistic single viewpoint. My husband has never once screamed in my face or expected me to deal with his bathroom messes.
Why is it clearly placed in your car by your bf? Why are you so certain it's him?
I think the worst thing of all, her mother died and he blamed her lack of emotional availability as a reason for the affair within ONE FUCKING YEAR of being married. A year of being married to this piece of shit and she might literally have to pay with her life or at the very least a part of her body. It's so sad that she gave in, forgave him and then had his children after.
Yet very true
Im pretty sure she loves me because she said yes to me marrying her, and i love her too! But the problem is me! Im the problem im the one who always think these negative stuff and think that she doesn’t love me! Idk what to do
My brother is like this. I’ve learned how to thwart him by staring at him silently without blinking when he tries to engage in an argument and he doesn’t know how to react so he just leaves me alone.
I’ve been trying so hard to not think like that and not accuse her of anything like that.
In a healthy, mature relationship, this wouldn't be going on. You need to breakup and work on yourself more before you get into a committed relationship.
Sounds like the new relationship energy wore off and now she's on to discarding you.
That's fair. I need to grow up
“Taking things at this pace” — she never even told him. He found out on IG and had to ask her about it.
How do I know it’d be different if the pronouns were swapped? I’ve been to this sub before.
I think you already know how to act. You and your wife clearly do not want or need the same things anymore, and that’s completely understandable, also give your age difference. If you want a physical relationship, it is abundantly clear your wife is not the right person. You need to leave her and move on.
You focus on your happy marriage.
You can’t change the past but you can change the future.
Time to also work on migrating to different friends not connected to her.
Your friend is a taker and you're a giver. I don't think you need to cut her off entirely. Just don't be as responsive and don't allow her to go on for hours about some guy problem. Maybe ghost her a little. Pick back up again when you feel like talking to her – which might never happen.
After all, that's what she did to you.
Yep I tried that route and forgave him (well 98% forgiven and 0% forgotten), but that did not work out. I can never trust him again with finances.
I am pushing him into therapy and gamblers anonymous is an option I have presented.
back to back kids at an older age with someone you barely know and have no passion with… not exactly a recipe for success.
How is your relationship otherwise? Do you share an equal role in parenting and housekeeping? Do you ever talk about your sex life? Do you have date nights? Have you brought up your concerns? Talked about couples counselling?