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Well 1 never stay friends with exes. It doesn't let ypu heal or move on properly, most of the time.
Honestly if that was all, I would say just keep dating this new girl. If she was saying you cheated or hit her, something along those lines you wouldn't have a chance.
Did the parents say anything to you about it? Or just your gf? It is easy enough to just fit an off hand remark that you didn't want to stay friends after breaking up or something along those line in normal conversations.
Keep dating her. And eventually the parents will have to meet you. Hell you could even text her to stop lying about what she said, get it in writing that she did that and use that for a small lawsuit
Classic case of mansplaining ?
It's really up to your bf to decide whether or not his comfortable with an entirely sexless relationship. The dynamics of the relationship have changed and it's understandable that he wouldn't be comfortable with that. I wouldn't be comfortable either.
Funny how that's the opposite for me. Much easier to last in missionnary than in cowgirl. Especially if she's close and you don't wanna break the flow by telling her to slow down.
At least missionnary you can “emergency brake” if you really need to lol
Missionnary is obviously more of a workout tho. Pick your poison. Legit I often have calf cramps when in missionnary lmao
This. This right here. I’m constantly shocked by the level of judgemental issue-ridden commenting on Reddit, so thank you for bringing some sanity!
I think you guys should separate. You seem to hate each other. There’s a toxicity there and it seems to be increasing and overflowing. Maybe split custody would be ideal
Neither did their parents.
They think cause they are fat and happy that everyone should be fat.
They really don't sound like they're happy, tbh. Happy people don't feel the need to put others down for no reason. They sound jealous and bitter.
Yeah I saw her reply in my notifications and then it disappeared. Horrible stuff I hope he finds peace
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Well said. I will just let it pass. I trust that she hasn't cheated.
I was left uncomfortable from the experience. Should another such opportunity arise, she will be reminded to be careful with whom she drinks, and to plan ahead how she will make it home. To be fair, she did complain about Ben's hygiene. We did talk about it when I knew about Ben, the dashing young man. I don't worry about him.
I would mostly like to also tell her to be wary of men who flatter her and isolate her, especially when she is vulnerable and drunk. That appears to be the case of Jerry.
My gf is trustworthy so I am not worried on her end. Just concerned that her appreciation for attention might be exploitable. Suspicion of cheating is not the greatest concern so much as her overall safety and boundaries when it is appropriate. I am not comfortable with Jerry speaking to gf alone especially since he is attracted to her and alcohol is involved.
What kind of grown ass man isolates a drunk girl he was interested in and who now is in a relationship? Why is he so nosy about our relationship? That seems inappropriate.
I wonder what you think about that. I just don't have any life experience to validate my thoughts.
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Leave him. You won't be able to trust him again. You deserve someone who won't lie or cheat.
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I'm gonna risk watching 3 without having watched 2. I feel that while I may miss some jokes, the movie will pretty much be a self contained experience.
I actually have a few boxers that I bought myself recently because I like sleeping hot except for my lower half. The boxers were much less restrictive and thin. Just an idea. But it definitely could be because laundry might’ve been mixed.
Well, problem is you’re gonna have to bring it up by mentioning that you betrayed his traits again by snooping through his phone. At some point, I think you have to consider whether you want to continue in a relationship where someone continues to throw your past mistakes in your face. Not excusing what you did, but his actions are not consistent with actually having forgiven you.
What I’m saying is, you don’t really have to bring this up at all. You can just leave.
Now, if this is something you actually want to work through, you probably could start with acknowledging that flirting is not quite the same thing cheating. I mean, to you it may be. To him, I don’t know. But if you’re about to come at him accusing him of “cheating”, I would definitely expect some resistance along those lines, not to mention the only reason you found out about it. So you’re gonna have to acknowledge that you fucked up, but also that it doesn’t excuse his clear wrong-doing and you’re going to have to communicate some firm boundaries with respect to “flirting”, if that hasn’t already been done.
he said he will build the courage to ask her for help on finding a therapist. And eventually hopes to cut ties with them as well. I’m glad you chose yourself in your situation ??
What kind of idiot ejaculated inside a woman without confirming she's on birth control?! He should've worn a condom AND spermicide….hardly baby trapping if the dumbass wasn't using protection in the first place….anyway
That aside paternity needs to be established. Prental paternity can be established before birth
Have you talked with her about it. Btw I don't know how intense their flirting was, but if she was emotionally cheating on you and feels no remorse than something is wrong (enough wrong to cut your losses and leave). A remorseful person would accept your concerns regarding that person. Are you sure there is nothing going on between them? How have her affair ended up? Were you just fine with her continuing to work with a person she had an emotional affair with?
I really feel like this issue is a result of not taking the right steps when she was flirting with him.
Lol whoever hurt you sorry about that, don’t take i out on me though.
She wants to cheat on you guilt-free especially since she doesn't want you to enjoy the same benefits. Dump her and find someone that actually loves you and respects you. You GF doesn't put you first you are an afterthought because this isn't any different than her wanting to sleep with a man you know why? She had this girl already picked out and if it was a man you would have flipped out on her but there is no difference in this situation. She wants a free pass to cheat. If you don't give her the free pass she will cheat or she already has and feels the guilt is too much. Either way dump her.
Are you seriously invalidating someone telling you that they're busy?
What about it doesn't make sense to you?
Well yeah it makes all the difference
I wouldn't call it obsession, it sounds more like they're the one that got away. Either way OP, it's not fair for you to stay in a relationship with her while she makes up her mind. Give her time and space and take some time yourself. She may come back to you and you'll still be there for her, she may not, or you may move on. You have your own life to on-line, and you should, without having to worry about whether your partner wants you to be part of their life.
If you want some unbiased fact it's that he walked out of couples counseling. He walked out because he doesn't want to work on your relationship – he likes it as it is.
I can’t see the comments on here. Is that normal??
That's just how i read it.
I can't read his mind, tho.
Plan a date.
This.
guitar solo and explosions
If you tell his girl, he might get pissed and might not want to be friends anymore. But at the same time, if you keep quiet and she finds out later, she's gonna be hella mad at both of y'all. So, you gotta ask yourself what's more important: your friendship with this dude or doing the right thing and being a stand-up guy. Think about it,
A mother in law is a parental figure you acquire by entering into a legal marriage contract with someone. No marriage contract, no in law.
It's just his (ex) GF's mom.
Ya, a real massage with an RMT where our insurance would have covered it … you’re right. You don’t accidentally stumble into a massage offering m2m happy endings. Issues were mostly mental health and substance abuse related, which is why I’m feeling torn. But maybe I’m just in denial. Correct on the conservative family background. Ugh.
She wants to break up. She’s too scared to break up. Just pull off the Band-Aid. You’re both very young and this is common.
Yea her BF is still a rapist PoS
Therapy is good. I would not open the marriage on his end, you will most definitely be done at that point but I feel like you are already done to be honest.
All this in 6 weeks of dating? Girl, dump him, block him and move on.
From her perspective maybe nothing is wrong.
From his perspective she turned to another man immediately. Showing him disloyalty, lack of commitment. It is a man thing, loyalty and respect are often way more important.
I guess men and women need to learn the differences between genders, they seek and value different things from each other.
Happy cake day.
Damn that is straight up disrespectful and shows he has no value in you're relationship, get out now.
Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free? OP needs to run.
Your whole family and your ex are awful people lmao
Your family is acting pretty shitty. Extend that distance a little bit further
Apologies are just noises our throats make. Choose peace.
Oof.. I'm afraid I can't help you any further because I'm not religious and in my family you marry whoever you want to marry, not who your family chooses for you. So I don't have any experience in your kind of situation… But it's a bit confusing – you're afraid what your families would say but you on-line together anyway? Are the families okay with that? If they are, then why would they not agree?
If you're afraid that you'll sleep with each other and end up with someone else, then just don't sleep with each other, lol.
My surname is very hot to pronounce so I doubt any of my husbands would have taken it. I made a lot of bad decisions when I was young & my current husband is actually my third & final husband.
For a woman, changing paperwork as a result of marriage or divorce is a huge pain in the ass. It may be easier now but I got married in 2005, it took months to get my driver's license, SS & banking information changed.
The push to take away voting rights in my state is major. I have witnessed people being turned away from polling places because the last name on their driver's license didn't match the voting record due to marriage or divorce.
I got married for the first time in 1979 when I was 19. It was expected that a woman would take her husband's name so I did. I just followed that pattern.
Because she has said no. That's why. I know it sucks but you have to respect that.
That's what you get when you're a mistress. Imagine how upset his REAL LIFE WIFE would feel. YTA.
Hopefully when you grow the fuck up and learn that husband's aren't for sharing you will not have someone like you in your husband's life.
It really depends on what you're looking for. Whatever it is, you need to communicate it. Regardless, she told you she has a lot of stuff going on. That logically means she's not interested in you in the same way you are.
If I came here to be told I was right I would jave sugar coated the post and left out details. I know for a fact I was wrong, I am repeating it again and again. That does not excuse people from telling me I am scum, I am an idiot or I deserve it and I hope you stay single, you are a horrible human being. Maybe stop going by the groups mentality and see the comments for what they are. Have I really written anywhere that I was not wrong, I have many comments claiming I was completely in the wrong.
That's not exactly financially sound advice in a divorce, that could really backfire in court. It's temporarily satisfying, but could really screw OP over long-term.
OMG -she’s a 10/10 and people picked up the wrong vibe ??? That sentence right there tells you that they were acting cozy. He is lying to you. He liked her but they on-line in different towns so it wouldn’t work ? Cheating is. just. physical ?? He is cheating.
The rent in these areas is awful. Like… $3k/month for a 2 bedroom.
Sounds like Brad is a narcissistic joke and in some way, jealous of Jake. For long term results, date whoever you want and leave the damn high school popularity games far behind.
Call off the engagement and get into therapy. There’s a reason you gravitate toward people like her and you need to address this with a therapist. The definition of insanity is to keep doing something over and over again and expect different results. You won’t get different results with the next one. Fix it. I’m so sorry.