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Date: October 5, 2022
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Please don’t be mean about it, im still a kid and I’m learning as I grow up. I want to know how to fix things not get yelled at for not knowing something
If you dont care then fuck off, i opened myself up asking for criticism, not your stupid smartass shit
I did.
I had a stalker who started pit like this. Flowers to my job , house and I had no idea how he got this info. Then it escalated and he didn't care I had someone. He was terrible. Please take care of this even if your girlfriend doesn't want to. Please report him to his supervisor with all the evidence and go to the police as well. This will escalate. My stalker almost killed me. Please don't ignore these signs. I beg you.
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She definitely wants you as her back up plan and has clearly put you in the friend zone. Shockingly she broke up before cheating because she had the next guy ready in the wings. Cut off all contact and find someone who will respect you. I wish you luck
It seems like there is a disconnect? If someone is one of the kindest people you know, why is he being so callous and indifferent when you mention your medical issues? If you feel like trust is broken and he has let you down, maybe things are not going so smoothly?
How would you possibly know every single man's thoughts? You are incredibly delusional and just coping
Maybe his mask is finally off and this IS the real him
We've spent the night together, gone on day-long dates…and typically see each other a couple of times per week. I've met his friends too, but you might be right about waiting. I guess it's just giving me anxiety because of the work trip lol
Dating ? Did he come pick you up at your parents house & take you out somewhere-,to dinner & a movie perhaps ?? That’s “dating”. Or did y’all just sneak around & have sex ? That’s not dating & yes you were used .
I wish the woman who post on here would all receive self respect for Christmas.
Oof! This man does NOT like you. Also, he has some messed up views of women if he thinks women don’t fart.
Take the test and let him feel reassured if you have nothing to hide. Like another poster said make him feel stupid. I believe healthy relationships should take the other person's feelings in consideration and want to make them feel good about what they feel.
Life isn't a fairy tale. The goal isn't to get with a person to change or improve them, you arent a life coach. The goal should be to find a person who treats you well and choose to share your life with them because they treat you well and make you happy.
He can't change because he chooses not to and clearly has terrible self control if he continually says hurtful things to you. You should be his wife and partner, not his teacher.
The definition of insanity is repeating the same thing and expecting different results. That's what you are doing here in my opinion. You're accepting this behavior and letting him abuse you repeatedly without forcing him to go to counseling. You've shown him that you will continue to let him off the hook.
You not wasting to unpack the bathroom doesn't mean you deserve to be harassed and verbally abused. It makes me sad to think that you have accepted this as part of your day to day.
Everyone hits their breaking point. For me, it was my ex yelling at me when I asked him to take the trash out with me bc it was dark and I didn't want to go to the alley outside our apartment by myself. I finally hit my limit that day and am so thankful I did.
I can't tell you what to do. I can just tell you my experience, but it is so nice to not be constantly dearful of my partners reactions. I used to be terribly anxious and afraid of anything upsetting him. It is truly a relief to be with someone who I trust, who isn't perfect, but surely never verbally abuses me, and never calls me anything but baby.
Genuinely asking, knowing that i used to masturbate to her, is it really not okay to follow my ex crush who was also a friend of mine if I have no romantic and sexual interest in her?
My husband thinks it’s gross too. I don’t get it, but ok. I don’t fart in front of him intentionally, but it it slips nothing I can do. He just gives me a side eye and that’s the end of it.
Some people find burps/farts/eye boogers/morning breath/toe jam disgusting. Some people don’t. It is common courtesy to not inflict these things on said person, intentionally. It is also common courtesy to understand that bodies make noises and smells and not freak out about it.
Rights to it, but not to live! there?, I don't follow? If I owned half the apartment, I should be able to live! there!
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Even if mutual consent is there is still often a mistake and leads to regret.
What the hell do you do?
Go to swim.
This is a VC Andrews story.
I can totally see why you're hurting. I would let him know you just came across it and read it before realizing it was something personal. In the situation you should ask him what safe means to him. I don't think he means that you are the safer option but someone he deeply trusts and knows that you respect his boundaries. Tell him that if he feels the need to talk about his past relationship there there's no shame in talking to someone. Please don't think that you're lacking relationships that involve work on both sides if he does want some excitement you can both set up fun stuff to do together and go on trips. Hope all goes well just be honest with him about your emotions.
Age difference aside 9 YEARS?! I wouldn’t waste my 30s on that.
it's better to regret not having kids than having them and regretting it and resenting them. kids can tell, no matter how much you try to hide it.
not saying this is the case for you, but my point is everyone is different. just because you find it fulfilling doesn't mean everyone else will.
good luck
it's better to regret not having kids than having them and regretting it and resenting them. kids can tell, no matter how much you try to hide it.
not saying this is the case for you, but my point is everyone is different. just because you find it fulfilling doesn't mean everyone else will.
good luck
I squiggle away around the 30 minute mark if my partner isn’t moving and/or obviously asleep.
Because of you, I had to go back and read it in Peter Griffin’s voice. My sides hurt, too!
Does the lease allow a dog? Is she on the lease? Are you the only person on the lease?
It's one thing to have preferences regarding genitalia, but it's quite another to try to make that your partner's problem by insulting their genitals. It's not like we get to choose our bits.
A lady I dated explained what worked best with her labia, since she had more going on down there than I (also a lady) did. Perhaps he felt insecure about not being sure how to best work with genitals that were different from those of his past partners, and decided that criticizing your bits would cover up for his inexperience. Or maybe he just watches too much mainstream porn and doesn't know that vulvas have a lot of variety.
I can't imagine thinking that it was my place to critique the bits of anyone who I was getting down with. The fucking nerve. He's a POS and I guess the only upside to this is that he revealed himself to be one so early on before wasting any more of your time.
UpdateMe!
When you cheat, you cause emotional damage that can last for years, some victims of cheaters never recover the ability to trust or love completely. Cheaters don't just ruin marriages – they ruin lives. Treat your husband with respect and give him the gift of honesty. Share your dissatisfaction and try to find ways to solve it together. Then, if you still need to end the marriage you can do so with dignity knowing you tried.
Plan sex out days in advance, spontaneous is kinky but often doesn’t work, my wife has a schedule on the fridge and I just write in sex at night on the days I want weeks in advance and she makes it work on her end. Lol
She didn’t want to celebrate your anniversary because you didn’t look good enough for her social media.
What does that say about the future?
Is she gonna cancel your (possible future) baby’s first birthday party because they tripped and got a bruise on their forehead and can’t look cute for photos?
This is ridiculous. I’d think real long and very hot about this honestly.
Was that a pun.. ?
This isn’t a troll post
It’s very hot to imagine the roles reversed.
We don’t live! in a society where sex work is one of the only viable pathways to stability/wealth for men in lower socioeconomic classes.
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It wouldn’t bother me, but I’m not you. I think you need to decide how you feel about it and also reflect on whether is is something you made clear to her was a boundary prior to her going to the club.
God you could not pay me to be 18 again.
My wife tends to blame me as being the reason always, she is too tired from work and kids etc etc etc. the problem is no matter what I do to help (mainly taking some of the load off of her from house chores to kids bed time etc etc…) things don’t improve!
Well, do more. Is she still doing the majority of the house work? The cooking? Raising your children? Taking them places? Scheduling their appointments? Hosting birthday parties?
You need to do a serious evaluation of how your household runs and then try and actually do your fair share.
Seconding this, after reading all the comments on this thread, I think that apologizing is the first and correct next step.
Did he recently watch Office Space?
From the outside perspective he doesn't sound like the one at all. Like a friend, sure, maybe. But a romantic partner, erm, no. And if yall are both mature about it you can absolutely be friends. Sometimes people are just better as friends than romantic. My mom and her ex boyfriend were like that. They didn't work out as a couple but 20 years later they still talk every day, both help each other out when needed, go out to meals and events, etc. And when he got married that didn't change and the wife and mom are good friends now, too. That was their dynamic. Good friends that enjoy each other's company. As a romantic couple…no ma'am.
For me I knew SO was it when he randomly one day asked me how my mom's dog was doing (by name) and it was a dog I'd mentioned briefly months before and never again. That was the moment I “knew”. But we also really didn't have any issues. He was always respectful, we got along well, when we had an odd argument we talked it through without going at each other, etc.
Also your therapist sounds pretty iffy with that statement about men.
You offer to pay for it. If he declines you insist – you say it’s my treat and I’m happy to do it.
In a good relationship when you have a consistent issue like this you talk about it. You need to make sure he knows that he’s being silly, you don’t care, and it’s negatively impacting your relationship
You're in WAY over your head. She's disconnected from you emotionally.
Is the mobile in just your name? Either way, you may want to consult a lawyer over tenancy issues.
Sadly the children are not at fault in all of this but they will get dragged along with her. She seriously needs counselling and you need to let her go.
I’m truly sorry about the loss of your baby. Words can’t describe how much I wish mere words could help.
With that being said, your happiness comes first. You just went through a traumatic loss, have you been going to therapy to help?
This dude does not value you. I knows it’s scary but nothing worth doing is going to be easy. You deserve happiness and healing.
Like you said, you’re still young. You have so much time to be able to figure things out and “restart”.
Put yourself first because you’re worth it.
Because you’re ignoring decades/centuries of social context and history. Men are not romantic with each other and choose to show that by avoiding anything that can be seen as intimate such as physical affection, or talking about feelings, which is why you have the problems you have today with men’s mental health. Women have a different set of socialization issues, but do not see being affectionate the same way as being romantic, which is why you have a lot of guys confused about the friend zone because women are touching them or telling them intimate things about feelings, but it’s just how we were socialized to act in friendships. It’s really not that fucking very hot if you look back all through history, women’s friendships are seen being more affectionate and close and men’s friendships are literally made fun of her being oh, you only talk about the game and never talk about feelings and are afraid of doing anything physically close beyond a handshake. Yes, treat queer and straight relationships the same but don’t treat people the same ignoring years of history and socialization and how toxic masculinity and patriarchy has shaped what friendships and different relationships mean just to be like well I’m being equal why is everyone getting mad at me for not being equitable? Come on now it’s not that very hot. Also just like all straight people don’t want your girlfriend all gay women don’t want your girlfriend and to assume that we will be creeping on her if she said she is straight and not interested at all is actually contributing to the idea that gay people are predators who don’t take no for an answer.
Just let her know she told you (and showed) everything you need to know about how she feels about family, and that she broke your heart, and you won't be giving her a chance to do it again.
You watched it go on, escalating for 14 years, and the treatment you and your dad got during covid summed it up into one nice abhorrent package. Not to mention, the way she responded to you bringing up how unfair it felt leads me to believe she's not reaching out to apologize.
No one could blame you for feeling hurt and wanting to keep your distance.
You should talk to him about it, like she could have rules to never meet his partners and you messaging her could mess her up and their relationship
Ye okay ty for confirming it. I think you hit the nail on the head with this.
Will try to keep that whole rl stuff on a backseat for now and see where she/we stand in a couple of months time. Its really just the fear of rejection and uncertainity after she gets better that haunts me.
you are 22. please put yourself first.
Dude you rushed too soon into the adventure and it was obvious you thought with the wrong head. Try to get a cold shower next time before taking these decisions and have a plan b prepared , just in case.
Dude you rushed too soon into the adventure and it was obvious you thought with the wrong head. Try to get a cold shower next time before taking these decisions and have a plan b prepared , just in case.
Ignore the people saying leave her, before even considering that, just talk to her. Ask her what's going on, why she's not talking as much as usual, and why she's constantly talking to the AI instead