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This needs to be a much deeper conversation. Make it clear that you see having a dog as part of your life and always will. There's a lot of wiggle room when it comes to dogs, though. Does he have an issue with shedding and slobber? There are breeds that don't do that. Is it an issue of cost? There are different ways of obtain and training a dog, and you can talk about your finances and what having this pet will look like to you. Is it an issue of responsibility? You can talk about how these responsibilities would be shared and make a plan. I'm with you that not wanting pets would be a deal breaker for me. I enjoy the companionship of a dog, and the routine of daily walks, and keeping a dog on a schedule keeps me on a healthy schedule. I've always had dogs and I always will. But there's a difference in lifestyle between a husky puppy and a bulldog and an older Labrador, etc. Does he object to them on principle, or does he object to a specific aspect of them? Does he understand how important this is to you? You need to sit down and have a conversation about this to determine that. I'm a bit shocked that this came up at the start of dating and then not again for two years, though.
Do a test, pretend you are drinking one night but its really non alcoholic and see if this still happens, then when you confront her about it, if she tried to gaslight you about the amount you drank then you have caught her in the lie and you need to get tf away from her if thats the case
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Ty!
Oh yeah no doubt. He’s a complete idiot.
But I’m specifically talking about people who are excusing the wife’s actions as no big deal.
This is multiple issues then, so it shouldn't be rolled into one. You want to abstain from sex so that you can heal from your trauma. And you cannot see kids in your future, but think it might change after you heal.
I would start the conversation with explaining how uncovering the trauma has changed a lot in your life and healing now has to be your primary focus. Then I would just state both issues, pretty much how I've phrased them above.
And look…either, or both, may be a deal breaker for him. And that's okay, specifically the child free one. If he knows for sure he wants kids, then you no longer wanting them, even if there's a chance the door may open again one day, may be a deal breaker. It would for a lot of people. And neither of you should compromise your futures for eachother, that's not what love it.
So just be as open as you're comfortable being, as honest as you can, and compassionate and understanding with his response, and I think this will be a healthy conversation. Maybe it won't end with you two staying together, but that isn't a bad thing when two people who love eachother are fundamentally incompatible.
Good luck!
yea that's a silly perspective for me to have, i just gotta not get in my head about it.
He's cheating. Or cheated that one time at the very least. That is not platonic behavior.
She’s 29 and she’s a dependent and wants to be your dependent AND add another dependent (baby). If she’s disabled such that she can’t work, how is she going to take care of a child? Should she even be having kids? (Ie: is her condition genetic?)
I feel like she’s really rushing it and just wants to play house. It’s been a year. That’s a little soon.
And there are issues. Sounds like communication isn’t so good between you two.
Tbh, ldr hardly ever work unless both sides are willing to put in the effort to compromise and communicate. If you are having fights on even the tiniest of things then the two of you would need to have a serious conversation about the status of your relationship and where you see this going from here, hear his side ask him what he feels would make things better, compromise and also let him know what you want changed too, he needs to compromise as well. If he’s not willing, then you have to decide if you’re willing to continue fight after fight or save your peace of mind and move on to someone that’ll treat you better.
Fyi when someone is crying it's spelled bawling, now balling. Balling makes it sound like she was doing something cool.
Would you even consider a house that has a granny flat or mil suit that has a private entrance. That way she isn’t “kicked out” so to speak but you all have your privacy. However I also understand if that wouldn’t interest you either as it is still a lot if she like to “pop by”. But I guess it would be very important to lay down boundaries.