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Date: November 6, 2022
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Because there are often a lot of work related conversations and people can feel left out? Where I’m from it’s generally the norm that partners don’t come to work Xmas parties
It sounds like your friend is in a difficult situation with her arranged marriage. It is understandable that she wants to make her parents happy, but it is also important for her to be happy and fulfilled in her own relationship. It is clear that she has some doubts and concerns about her fiancé, and it may be helpful for her to take some time to consider these carefully before moving forward with the marriage. As her friend, you can offer your support and listen to her concerns without judging her or pressuring her to make a decision. You can also encourage her to talk to her fiancé and her parents about her doubts and to express her needs and wants in the relationship. Ultimately, the decision about whether to move forward with the marriage is up to your friend, and it is important for her to make a choice that is right for her.
To you, it's just random likes. To her it's a conscious comparison of all of her physical attributes leading to her being found wanting in some areas because you're out there in public falling into other girls thirst traps.
People like to try and brush these off as minimal things, not realising the massive impact they have on partners.
If you had your gf and those 5 other women together inappropriate room. would you have complimented those 5 other women on their bodies in front of your gf? I'll bet not, because youd know how disrespectful and hurtful that would be.
What made you think it was ok to do that behind her back then? Was it that you thought she'd never see?
If abject apologies dont work here, I'm not sure how you recover from this.
I think you are going to have to demonstrate that you understand how seriously she takes this and not downplay it as 'it was only likes'
Instead of waiting for her to tell you how to fix this, you'll need to take the initiative,organise another sit down chat. Tell her you've done some more introspection and soul searching and that you understand. Tell her that you would underif she walked away from this but that you would very much value a chance to put things right. You might have to repeat yourself,you may have already said much of it, but the seriousness of your tone and approach are what matters here more than the actual wordage.
Good luck. And just dont do anything on social media that you wouldn't do in public in front of your gf.
That’s a lot of moving, I couldn’t do that. When I say my whole life revolves around stability I mean that in the most serious way. Sounds cool to be able to pick up that many times and be okay with it.
Thank you
Fine, sit down and work out their long term relationship that would effectively be a common law marriage over a sufficient period of time.
Super confused. What was wrong with the story? His issue sounds valid?
Naked! When I'm on my period I wear underwear..
Yeah, sure. Nothing sexier than getting it on with a dirty backpacker on an uncomfortable bed in front of dozen people. It doesn’t get better than this.
You will be miserable your whole life if you compare yourself to others. I suggest get off that train and live! your life on your terms.
Good point. Perhaps I’ve gotten used to the back and fourth of her loving me for a few days or weeks then out of nowhere getting triggered and treating me like I’m nothing, projecting her past and insecurities on me. She’s on her phone most of the day scrolling through social media watching random videos. She did read books but not much the past couple weeks. We’ve definitely had a lot of deep meaningful moments but as of the past few weeks it’s just been constant anxiety because either the day is really good or really bad mostly depending on her mood and how she acts towards me. She does dishes every now and then and cooks, other than that she just lays in bed. She doesn’t go out on walks with me or anything.
There's no magic way to convince people of things beyond very unethical methods like brainwashing or manipulation
Oh dear lord… he HITS you?
Get out. No amount of money that might be wasted (NB 4 months’ notice is enough to get some of the deposits back, so it won’t even be as much as you think) is worth your safety and your life.
You do not deserve to be hit because he has issues. Tell yourself that as many times as you need to in order to walk out the door.
Tell your family the truth. If you live! with him, you’ll need support to physically leave so that he doesn’t hurt you for leaving – which he is very likely to try to do.
Money doesn’t matter. YOU matter. YOU. ❤️?
Mouths aren't vaginas
You've been dating for a month man, and you imply she is a virgin with the “non penetrative” comment. She probably sees you as a sleazeball who is rushing her.
Lots of heavy theories going on here but one thing is indisputable – he is not being open with you. The reasons for that could be anything from he's having an affair through he's already married to he's an undercover FBI agent investigating something. The point is you have no way to know which if any of these is more likely, because you don't know him. Like I said, the one thing you DO know is that he is hiding things from you. Your move.
Leave out a list of guys that you will not be sleeping with and have the four on it
Honestly not leaving anything out, we’ve gone to therapy when this threatened our relationship years ago. I can’t figure out why he would let himself get like this. But I definitely feel some of what he said must be deep seeded feelings bc he has said them before when angry. Maybe it’s time to throw in the towel for good this time. It’s just so naked bc other than this demon in his closet, life with him is wonderful and we could have an amazing life building on what we’ve already started. My boys are the other thing, they truly love him, our home, our life. I know it’s my responsibility to keep them safe and happy but uprooting them is going to crush them.
I would just be honest with her. It sounds like you are friends. Tell her about your ex (being as precise or vague as you wish to be) and explain that that is why her true crime stories make you uncomfortable. That you are sorry, you can’t share in her particular interest on that score, but that you love to hear about the supernatural stories. Take it from there. It might also be worth highlighting, that you try to keep your history private and you’d really appreciate it, if she could treat the information as such.
Ur assuming. His post suggests it was brought to her attention by someone else.
Why is your life hell, because of some girl u broke up with, bury your head into something worthwhile other than self pitty