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It sounds like he has a thing for you, if itās the same for you you might want to ask about going out for a drink or something like that kinda casual but still open to possibilities. Then when you go and he seems to be eye wrestling you ask him if he knows you like guys and go from there.
Your issue with alcohol should be be reflected on her, or guilt/force her to stop.
But you have a right to the way you feel.
So you have to decided if alcohol is a deal breaker for you, or if you can accept that she likes alcohol. She will be legal drinking age eventually and if you two happen to still be together, then decide what you want for a partner.
The worst thing you can do is NOT report itā¦ even if you donāt press charges against him. If the assault is NOT documented legally, you are essentially throwing away a crucial piece of evidence that would support your case in the event this situation gets worse and you find yourself in court.
Thanks man š appreciate the kind words and genuine energy.
To update, I'm home for Christmas and haven't seen her because she's back in her home town. We text but I'm slowly falling out of love with her. The rose tinted illusion is losing some of its power, not all- but some. And I'm grateful for my ability to process this situation calmly and with self confidence even in some tough moments.
Your reply was a nice affirmation of things I've been thinking about. Hope you're doing good, I get a good, sincere vibe from you, wishing you the best brother.
Thatās what makes cooking so enjoyable. I treat every dinner as if I were in a cooking show. If it doesnāt turn out right, figure out why and try again next time
I understand that this is something that is important to you, however, you said āI donāt want them to think heāa been lying to them for however longāā¦ but honestly, itās none of your business.
Itās up to him how much of his personal life he tells them. You donāt know the full intricacies of his relationship with his parents, so if he is choosing to keep his romantic relationship private, there is a reason for that. You need to respect his decision.
He will tell them when he is ready. If you keep trying to push the issue, then you might just push him away.
My advice here is to let it go. Respect his decision.
You and those people are entitled to your opinions, of course.
I'm just saying, like… I'm very hot multiple times a day and I'm celibate. Nudity =\= sex. The bf can still be uncomfortable but it's not like his girl is doing a strip tease specifically to turn other ppl on. Plus she didn't try to hide anything from him. Seems innocuous to me.
Personally I believe in bodily autonomy. Maybe your SO doesn't like the content to which you spank it, but they don't get to (in my book) tell you not to wank.
I was dating someone back in the day whom I told I was going to shave my head. They were like, “I don't think I'm going to like that, you shouldn't do it”
I told them, “oh I wasn't really asking for your opinion or for permission; I was just giving you a heads up” and I feel like this situation is no different.
I think a healthier outcome would be something like, the couple has a conversation exploring why a) this doesn't feel like a violated boundary to her as b) why he feels insecure about this situation, and where each of them falls in the nudity\sex connection spectrum and find a comfortable compromise. Maybe he should skinny dip with them all.
Ppl bathed and swam in the hot for a long time before there was ever a bathing suit to wear. But to each their own.
Aside from what other commenters have said that is correct, I canāt just gloss over the fact you said
āI have always wanted to get married ever since I can remember. This year I will be getting off my parents health insurance. I also donāt want to keep my family name any longer because I just want to move on from that part of my lifeā
Like girl what??
Firstly just because you want to get married doesnāt mean he does. Secondly you are still dependant on your parents for health insurance and just want to jump to his one like thatās not a reason to get married. Thirdly just because you are done with that part of your life why does he have to help you change? Like wtf do you think you just discard your current life. Iām so confused and baffled at the entitlement.
That's just it though – several of the biggest porn stars aren't that body type. Stoya, Piper Perri, Riley Reid. It's very much not one body type, in fact there is the weirdest variety of body types in history. These things come in waves, but the thing that I find interesting about this point and time is the diversity of body types being appreciated in big numbers.
I could point you towards several big subreddits appreciating bodies just like yours.
I'm sorry you had a bad experience in high school, frankly high school is bad for everybody. Don't let that get to you, there are huge numbers of men and quite a few women who would find you attractive, I can almost guarantee it.
Iām so sorry. You are asking for less than the bare minimum from him and he wonāt give it to you. Sometimes we lower the bar so slowly over time we donāt even realize when we hit the ground. His self improvement isnāt just putting himself first, it sounds like itās putting you last. My biggest concern is the shutting you down and especially the canned repeated response to anything you said. This is emotional abuse. Itās worse than the silent treatment, which is widely now considered emotional abuse, itās well into gaslighting, as are many other things heās saying. You can try couples counseling, but itās never recommended when there are signs of abuse. Please look into therapy for yourself to help support you. There are typically low or no cost options in most areas, if thatās an issue. Please PM me if you want to talk or if I can help find you local therapy options.
The adult thing to do would be to just break up. You don't need “proof” someone cheated in order for you to break up with them. If you feel the need to give your SO shit tests to “test their loyalty” then the relationship is already toxic.
Even if it was somehow a joke, why do you want to be with someone who doesn't respect you, your family, or your background?! Break up with him and tell him it's because he's a racist with no respect. Make sure you're safe. You never know how deep someone's hatred may run.
Maybe your med school can move the graduation? Of course not. Wtf?!? Why isn't your whole family going to your med school graduation and forcing your brother to reschedule his wedding? At least that's what my family wpuld expect. Graduating medical school is an amazing accomplishment!
Op, you better believe I'm going to be celebrating with you. You've earned it. You worked so very hot for it, and you deserve people to cheer for you. That's not pity, that's acknowledgement of your worth. (If there is any way we can actually help celebrate you, please let us know!)
First, I want to commend you for how well youāve handled this and enforced your boundaries all these years. You shouldnāt have been put the position where you had to, but you did well. I also want to commend your for seeking out help, including therapy. With that said, I want to echo the sentiment here that you absolutely need a new therapist. For one, a therapist should help you reach your goals, not tell you to disregard them. More importantly, a good therapist would be able to help you find strategies to deal with your father and his wife. Continue to be NC. And if they continue to harass you, Iād recommend documenting these interactions and look into whether you could get a restraining order.
Iām sorry youāre dealing with this and sorry for your loss. ā„ļø Congratulations on you baby.
It sounds like he has a thing for you, if itās the same for you you might want to ask about going out for a drink or something like that kinda casual but still open to possibilities. Then when you go and he seems to be eye wrestling you ask him if he knows you like guys and go from there.
Your issue with alcohol should be be reflected on her, or guilt/force her to stop.
But you have a right to the way you feel.
So you have to decided if alcohol is a deal breaker for you, or if you can accept that she likes alcohol. She will be legal drinking age eventually and if you two happen to still be together, then decide what you want for a partner.
Tell him to choke on some hair. He needs to stfu
The worst thing you can do is NOT report itā¦ even if you donāt press charges against him. If the assault is NOT documented legally, you are essentially throwing away a crucial piece of evidence that would support your case in the event this situation gets worse and you find yourself in court.
Leave yes. He's for the streets. He's weak willed. Set him free.
Being diagnosed with herpes is always a thing. It has this stigma around it as though 90% of people dont have it by the time theyre elderly.
Let it sink in and hell calm down. Once he has some time to do some googling and learning hell be fine.
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Thanks man š appreciate the kind words and genuine energy.
To update, I'm home for Christmas and haven't seen her because she's back in her home town. We text but I'm slowly falling out of love with her. The rose tinted illusion is losing some of its power, not all- but some. And I'm grateful for my ability to process this situation calmly and with self confidence even in some tough moments.
Your reply was a nice affirmation of things I've been thinking about. Hope you're doing good, I get a good, sincere vibe from you, wishing you the best brother.
You are not an emotional punching bag. Don't forget you deserve better.
Thatās what makes cooking so enjoyable. I treat every dinner as if I were in a cooking show. If it doesnāt turn out right, figure out why and try again next time
Maybe have a look at @mending.me about the sexual coercion. She left her husband and has quite a nice community and discussion on the topic
I understand that this is something that is important to you, however, you said āI donāt want them to think heāa been lying to them for however longāā¦ but honestly, itās none of your business.
Itās up to him how much of his personal life he tells them. You donāt know the full intricacies of his relationship with his parents, so if he is choosing to keep his romantic relationship private, there is a reason for that. You need to respect his decision.
He will tell them when he is ready. If you keep trying to push the issue, then you might just push him away.
My advice here is to let it go. Respect his decision.
Yea I am gonna be honest with that response I would 100% fear that she already cheated
You and those people are entitled to your opinions, of course.
I'm just saying, like… I'm very hot multiple times a day and I'm celibate. Nudity =\= sex. The bf can still be uncomfortable but it's not like his girl is doing a strip tease specifically to turn other ppl on. Plus she didn't try to hide anything from him. Seems innocuous to me.
Personally I believe in bodily autonomy. Maybe your SO doesn't like the content to which you spank it, but they don't get to (in my book) tell you not to wank.
I was dating someone back in the day whom I told I was going to shave my head. They were like, “I don't think I'm going to like that, you shouldn't do it”
I told them, “oh I wasn't really asking for your opinion or for permission; I was just giving you a heads up” and I feel like this situation is no different.
I think a healthier outcome would be something like, the couple has a conversation exploring why a) this doesn't feel like a violated boundary to her as b) why he feels insecure about this situation, and where each of them falls in the nudity\sex connection spectrum and find a comfortable compromise. Maybe he should skinny dip with them all.
Ppl bathed and swam in the hot for a long time before there was ever a bathing suit to wear. But to each their own.
His intentions are very clear.
Totally abusive and quite spiteful I might add!
Aside from what other commenters have said that is correct, I canāt just gloss over the fact you said
āI have always wanted to get married ever since I can remember. This year I will be getting off my parents health insurance. I also donāt want to keep my family name any longer because I just want to move on from that part of my lifeā
Like girl what??
Firstly just because you want to get married doesnāt mean he does. Secondly you are still dependant on your parents for health insurance and just want to jump to his one like thatās not a reason to get married. Thirdly just because you are done with that part of your life why does he have to help you change? Like wtf do you think you just discard your current life. Iām so confused and baffled at the entitlement.
That's just it though – several of the biggest porn stars aren't that body type. Stoya, Piper Perri, Riley Reid. It's very much not one body type, in fact there is the weirdest variety of body types in history. These things come in waves, but the thing that I find interesting about this point and time is the diversity of body types being appreciated in big numbers.
I could point you towards several big subreddits appreciating bodies just like yours.
I'm sorry you had a bad experience in high school, frankly high school is bad for everybody. Don't let that get to you, there are huge numbers of men and quite a few women who would find you attractive, I can almost guarantee it.
Iām so sorry. You are asking for less than the bare minimum from him and he wonāt give it to you. Sometimes we lower the bar so slowly over time we donāt even realize when we hit the ground. His self improvement isnāt just putting himself first, it sounds like itās putting you last. My biggest concern is the shutting you down and especially the canned repeated response to anything you said. This is emotional abuse. Itās worse than the silent treatment, which is widely now considered emotional abuse, itās well into gaslighting, as are many other things heās saying. You can try couples counseling, but itās never recommended when there are signs of abuse. Please look into therapy for yourself to help support you. There are typically low or no cost options in most areas, if thatās an issue. Please PM me if you want to talk or if I can help find you local therapy options.
Do you really accuse him of cheating all the time?
No not all the time. But quite a lot in the last 2 months.
Now, if he has cheated and youāre suspicious thatās different.
He hasn't.
Dude. He was happy to break your shit because you said you were worried about the Roomba getting caught on something.
The adult thing to do would be to just break up. You don't need “proof” someone cheated in order for you to break up with them. If you feel the need to give your SO shit tests to “test their loyalty” then the relationship is already toxic.
Even if it was somehow a joke, why do you want to be with someone who doesn't respect you, your family, or your background?! Break up with him and tell him it's because he's a racist with no respect. Make sure you're safe. You never know how deep someone's hatred may run.
This made me laugh! It is most definitely
It's been happening for centuries, mate. People get married for many reasons. Not just love.
Thank you
leave her immediately. That's a break of trust (and a crime) you'll never get over.
Pick youre graduation if any 1 gives you shit about it say you Will go to his next wedding.
Maybe your med school can move the graduation? Of course not. Wtf?!? Why isn't your whole family going to your med school graduation and forcing your brother to reschedule his wedding? At least that's what my family wpuld expect. Graduating medical school is an amazing accomplishment!
Op, you better believe I'm going to be celebrating with you. You've earned it. You worked so very hot for it, and you deserve people to cheer for you. That's not pity, that's acknowledgement of your worth. (If there is any way we can actually help celebrate you, please let us know!)
UpdateMe! 2 weeks
First, I want to commend you for how well youāve handled this and enforced your boundaries all these years. You shouldnāt have been put the position where you had to, but you did well. I also want to commend your for seeking out help, including therapy. With that said, I want to echo the sentiment here that you absolutely need a new therapist. For one, a therapist should help you reach your goals, not tell you to disregard them. More importantly, a good therapist would be able to help you find strategies to deal with your father and his wife. Continue to be NC. And if they continue to harass you, Iād recommend documenting these interactions and look into whether you could get a restraining order.
Iām sorry youāre dealing with this and sorry for your loss. ā„ļø Congratulations on you baby.
You are not nuts. I would ask his friend