No, I don't blame him, and I know he didn't intentionally mean to hurt me. I did get into a good grad school 2 months later. But as a girl, you sometimes wonder if these guys only make a move if a girl seems “easy.”
I'm with someone who genuinely cares about me (28M) and we have had some arguments but we solved them, we were very close to just walking away from each other. I was 100% sure that I didn't want children at all because of the mess that I got myself in and my overall attitude to life.
OP, you're only 24…so it's not surprising that you still might change your opinion on certain things.
Sit your bf down, tell him that you most likely changed your mind and probably want a child further down the road (biological or not). It's important for him to know, since this can also have an impact on how you would handle an accidental pregnancy at this point.
She fucked up changing the last name and adding you to the birth certificate. Life is so much easier when Father Unknown is on the birth certificate.
Enjoy the peace and quiet.
Your wife is staying out of it because she can.
Girl, dump him. He’s using you for sex
No, I don't blame him, and I know he didn't intentionally mean to hurt me. I did get into a good grad school 2 months later. But as a girl, you sometimes wonder if these guys only make a move if a girl seems “easy.”
I'm with someone who genuinely cares about me (28M) and we have had some arguments but we solved them, we were very close to just walking away from each other. I was 100% sure that I didn't want children at all because of the mess that I got myself in and my overall attitude to life.
OP, you're only 24…so it's not surprising that you still might change your opinion on certain things.
Sit your bf down, tell him that you most likely changed your mind and probably want a child further down the road (biological or not). It's important for him to know, since this can also have an impact on how you would handle an accidental pregnancy at this point.