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At 18, it's not normal for your parents to be driving you to school and work. It's time for you to learn to drive yourself. It's normal when kids are at an age where they can't drive and/or it's not safe for them to be out alone, but you're legally an adult.
I assume you've been pretty sheltered, being homeschooled your whole life, but you kind of missed the parents driving you places regularly stage. It's not normal for college.
As a general rule, it is never a good idea to get involved in the relationship between your partner & his family. Let them handle their family, you handle yours.
You also need to work on understanding wants vs. needs, and that what you want isn’t more important than what he needs, which right now, sounds like is to keep his relationship private.
Dude, at this point leave these 2 girls alone, they deserve much better than you. Lauren is 100% right because Kelsey doesn't respect her and you have no business talking about Lauren with her. Oh and this is coming from a person whose bf is still friends with her ex gf, the difference being that: 1) they split up 3 years prior to me meeting him, 2) her ex gf respects me and treats me very well, even invited me to her birthday, to use her beach house, etc. and 3) my bf wouldn't dream of discussing our problems with her. PS: YTA
I didn't pick that one thing out of your post. Even if there was no r@pe. He abused you terribly. The mental and emotional abuse you described was horriffic. That was without considering the sex.
The way you are reacting to this is, Contradictory to what you have said to him. If would appear your golden goose doesn’t want to remain so if you get divorced and you are blindsided. Just from previous posts here written by both sides. You have mentioned all the key phrases of a person who is entitled to half or more of everything in the event of the relationship failing without contributing half! Lawyer and grow up the only thing you have listed that has changed is you moping about because he has acted in his best interests! Lol
Stop having sex with him and stop talking to him. He’s trying to manipulate you into doing the type of sex only he wants by telling you he’s disappointed and wearing you down so you’ll be more likely to do what he asks.
Well, any partner that gets so heated and physical when someone enters the room asking if everything's okay is probably a terrible person to be with anyways, regardless of the specifics behind it..
What issue? There is no issue. You don't go with a man to the barbershop. It doesn't matter if you've been together 2 years, 20 years, or 60, you will NEVER be welcome to accompany him to the barbershop.
So women's day and men's day is a gift thing? It's not a big deal here, more like a note on the calendar, like international chocolate day, which I find a little more important… She's gaslighting you, telling you what you were thinking so she could victimize herself. She sounds too immature and manipulative to be dating.
It’s only been a month. A month is no time at all. Things were staring to get serious for you. Clearly she didn’t feel the same or she would have told you more about herself. Again, it’s only been a month.
You can end things for what ever reason you want. People don’t owe you their entire life story up front. Take time to get to know people and don’t rush intimacy like this. Dude you say it was getting serious and you didn’t know she has a whole ass kid. I’d take some time to look into this.
So how the situation is, is that she is a coward to not say to him that she is not sexually attracted to him anymore!!!! And thank God you said in the last paragraph the point that I wanted to make in every stupid comment here there is!!! She is not sexually attracted to him and that is the sad truth!!! A healthy relationship is not what you described though!!! That is ,everyone is alone and we just fuck a bit and then when that goes away then we don't act like a couple we just go our separate ways!!! What an unhealthy way of thinking!!!! A couple needs mutual respect and communication.
Sell the house and split the business asset. What I learned in my divorce (my ex left for his fwb in our open marriage as well less than a year after we bought our first house after 17 years together) is that you two live very separate lives now even with the kids. DO WHAT WILL SERVE YOU!
Our kids are much younger and figured out pretty quick that their new stepmom was the woman who handheld my ex through the divorce. The key here is to not demonize this woman to the kids, the marriage was over before she showed up, our exes just needed the incentive and support to bounce. It could have been any number of women but these were the ones to see them through it. I encourage a good relationship between my kids and their stepmom even though I think my ex is deplorable.
From here on out your ex has another woman in his ear advocating for her place, which means absolute removal of your influence and participation. You can work respectfully to dismantle the marriage in a way that won’t hurt you long term that also doesn’t force you to sign onto uncomfortable agreements with him THAT WILL EVENTUALLY FAIL and cause more conflict. Be honest with yourself and what you need to get out of this process, don’t try to be friends yet, wait until the dust has settled and fair arrangements is legally drawn up. My ex strung me along for a good 6 months and I spent thousands more than I should have had to trying to meet him on the common grounds he designed for himself and his girlfriend in terms of marital debt, finances, custody, visitation and the like. You and your ex have a long history but you aren’t friends anymore, you’re coparents only. Figure out how that will work for you and don’t play nice to save face, he is partnered and the goal is to get you out of his life asap.
They’re definitely playing a part in him wanting to move back. Again I don’t blame him or hold any negative feelings about the move itself, he should be happy. I only feel blind sided and used. His parents are doing so much to encourage him to stay. From offering a house, to a high paying job, to a car with a driver. Going as far as setting up dates for him. He told me he declined the date and didn’t go, but either he lied or he regretted not going by the way he spoke of it. Told me the girl was exactly his type too.. multiple times
Following her on social media so they can privately message each other IS flirting back- he's giving her attention after she disrespected you by hitting on him (and in front of you- more than just flirting.. she was trying to get a kiss).
At 18, it's not normal for your parents to be driving you to school and work. It's time for you to learn to drive yourself. It's normal when kids are at an age where they can't drive and/or it's not safe for them to be out alone, but you're legally an adult.
I assume you've been pretty sheltered, being homeschooled your whole life, but you kind of missed the parents driving you places regularly stage. It's not normal for college.
Can’t believe he broke up over that. Not the one
Sometimes people need to write it out and read it back to realise.
“I'm not sure if you'll want to hear this, but it was no worse than all the other cum I have swallowed.”
This was such a dumb answer from her. If she knows youre already anxious and jealous why is she phrasing the answers to questions like this?
You asked about you specifically needs all of her other swallows.
If she regularly answers questions like this I personally think she's at least half of the problem.
If they can’t afford a house in Seattle, then they will likely be SOL in Cali and maybe even Colorado.
Break up?
And keep the dog OP
As a general rule, it is never a good idea to get involved in the relationship between your partner & his family. Let them handle their family, you handle yours.
You also need to work on understanding wants vs. needs, and that what you want isn’t more important than what he needs, which right now, sounds like is to keep his relationship private.
Why would it be unreasonable for you to lay half? You’re half the couple living in the place.
Dude, at this point leave these 2 girls alone, they deserve much better than you. Lauren is 100% right because Kelsey doesn't respect her and you have no business talking about Lauren with her. Oh and this is coming from a person whose bf is still friends with her ex gf, the difference being that: 1) they split up 3 years prior to me meeting him, 2) her ex gf respects me and treats me very well, even invited me to her birthday, to use her beach house, etc. and 3) my bf wouldn't dream of discussing our problems with her. PS: YTA
I didn't pick that one thing out of your post. Even if there was no r@pe. He abused you terribly. The mental and emotional abuse you described was horriffic. That was without considering the sex.
The way you are reacting to this is, Contradictory to what you have said to him. If would appear your golden goose doesn’t want to remain so if you get divorced and you are blindsided. Just from previous posts here written by both sides. You have mentioned all the key phrases of a person who is entitled to half or more of everything in the event of the relationship failing without contributing half! Lawyer and grow up the only thing you have listed that has changed is you moping about because he has acted in his best interests! Lol
Stop having sex with him and stop talking to him. He’s trying to manipulate you into doing the type of sex only he wants by telling you he’s disappointed and wearing you down so you’ll be more likely to do what he asks.
I would leave. He has no respect or love for you, how is this man supportive?
Why are you still with him? Please don't say its because you think you're too old to find someone else
Well, any partner that gets so heated and physical when someone enters the room asking if everything's okay is probably a terrible person to be with anyways, regardless of the specifics behind it..
Saying that someone’s feelings come from a place that’s not grounded in reality is a pretty clear example of emotional invalidation.
How should I handle this issue?
What issue? There is no issue. You don't go with a man to the barbershop. It doesn't matter if you've been together 2 years, 20 years, or 60, you will NEVER be welcome to accompany him to the barbershop.
How do you not know this?
Well, if talking with someone and listening to their problems is predatory then good luck.
So women's day and men's day is a gift thing? It's not a big deal here, more like a note on the calendar, like international chocolate day, which I find a little more important… She's gaslighting you, telling you what you were thinking so she could victimize herself. She sounds too immature and manipulative to be dating.
Angry young man ….
It’s only been a month. A month is no time at all. Things were staring to get serious for you. Clearly she didn’t feel the same or she would have told you more about herself. Again, it’s only been a month.
You can end things for what ever reason you want. People don’t owe you their entire life story up front. Take time to get to know people and don’t rush intimacy like this. Dude you say it was getting serious and you didn’t know she has a whole ass kid. I’d take some time to look into this.
Brother and girlfriend aren't on the lease, you can have the police remove them.
So how the situation is, is that she is a coward to not say to him that she is not sexually attracted to him anymore!!!! And thank God you said in the last paragraph the point that I wanted to make in every stupid comment here there is!!! She is not sexually attracted to him and that is the sad truth!!! A healthy relationship is not what you described though!!! That is ,everyone is alone and we just fuck a bit and then when that goes away then we don't act like a couple we just go our separate ways!!! What an unhealthy way of thinking!!!! A couple needs mutual respect and communication.
Sell the house and split the business asset. What I learned in my divorce (my ex left for his fwb in our open marriage as well less than a year after we bought our first house after 17 years together) is that you two live very separate lives now even with the kids. DO WHAT WILL SERVE YOU!
Our kids are much younger and figured out pretty quick that their new stepmom was the woman who handheld my ex through the divorce. The key here is to not demonize this woman to the kids, the marriage was over before she showed up, our exes just needed the incentive and support to bounce. It could have been any number of women but these were the ones to see them through it. I encourage a good relationship between my kids and their stepmom even though I think my ex is deplorable.
From here on out your ex has another woman in his ear advocating for her place, which means absolute removal of your influence and participation. You can work respectfully to dismantle the marriage in a way that won’t hurt you long term that also doesn’t force you to sign onto uncomfortable agreements with him THAT WILL EVENTUALLY FAIL and cause more conflict. Be honest with yourself and what you need to get out of this process, don’t try to be friends yet, wait until the dust has settled and fair arrangements is legally drawn up. My ex strung me along for a good 6 months and I spent thousands more than I should have had to trying to meet him on the common grounds he designed for himself and his girlfriend in terms of marital debt, finances, custody, visitation and the like. You and your ex have a long history but you aren’t friends anymore, you’re coparents only. Figure out how that will work for you and don’t play nice to save face, he is partnered and the goal is to get you out of his life asap.
No, he's a creep. He has shown you multiple times that he is willing to disregard your relationship. Throw the man out, for good.
Happy Cake Day!
They’re definitely playing a part in him wanting to move back. Again I don’t blame him or hold any negative feelings about the move itself, he should be happy. I only feel blind sided and used. His parents are doing so much to encourage him to stay. From offering a house, to a high paying job, to a car with a driver. Going as far as setting up dates for him. He told me he declined the date and didn’t go, but either he lied or he regretted not going by the way he spoke of it. Told me the girl was exactly his type too.. multiple times
The fetishizing of “virginity” has always disturbed me.
Following her on social media so they can privately message each other IS flirting back- he's giving her attention after she disrespected you by hitting on him (and in front of you- more than just flirting.. she was trying to get a kiss).