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Room for on-line sex video chat Katy_Noelle
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Date: October 16, 2022
I think you're right. I'm finally realizing how easy I've made it for him and how he's just repeatedly sat there and refused to step up. I should've had this conversation after 3 months rather than a year in, and maybe I'd have been willing to give him more time then, but unfortunately I'm already pretty much done.
He's immature, and it doesn't sound like he is ready for a relationship. It sounds like you want to give this one more chance. So, sit down with him and say, “Here are the things I NEED in this relationship…” Then, spell it out. Also, do not put in more effort than he is. Do no cook him a big meal after he didn't get you a gift. You are giving the impression he can put in no effort and still get rewarded.
Go through her posts. She needs a wake up call
Realtor here. He’s not there yet psychologically. I can tell by your story that your pain is outweighing the pleasure of staying where you are, and you are motivated to leave your current home for one that favors you both more adequately rather than just him. His pain is not outweighing his comfort of staying where he is. He may not realize your discomfort. Have you tried getting pre-approved in your own just to see what you could afford? I don’t know the details or possible fragility of you. It’s a possible notion to bring the table, but I worry it may cause friction between you two. I think he has an idea of a plan, and he’s close to getting serious about it. Ut his motivation is just not there yet. Also, I (gently) encourage you to be very careful about buying a home with someone you aren’t willing to be married to, because that’s essentially what owning a home together will be like. Are you financing it together? Are both of your names going to be on the deed? These are BFD scenarios. If something goes south, I have seen the nicest people turn into monsters over mortgages, real property, and personal property. It makes getting out of the house (legally and financially) quite difficult and expensive. Lawyers can get involved, selling the home can turn into suing each other or evicting the other…. Just please be careful and mindful of this.