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Having a company to go together to the gym can be great idea , to put him in the mood more … I also have a gym membership, I usually go maybe once every month , but if I have a company it would be better to improve the mood … try offer him that and find someone to watch the kids for like couple hours.
One thing to keep in mind is that friendly ribbing me busting each others balls can often be a sign of acceptance amongst guys. So as long as it’s being done in a friendly way (and from what you’ve written it sounds like it is), then it’s a good thing!
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I'm on mat pay, he works Sat and Sun?
Is this for real? I find it hard to believe that you, as a lawyer, would even consider signing this? Renegotiate.
I am a pos I won't argue that, she does deserve better and I want to be better. What I did to her doesn't show any love, and part of me may have stopped loving her. We are currently in counseling together and separately, I do truly want to fix things, I really do love her. It took the thought of almost losing her to realize it, and it should have never come to me that way. Thank you for your honesty and your comment!
So you want to spend another 20 years with this person?
Bake a cake for him in a flavour you know he likes. That's something that makes me incredibly happy. Also a letter of appreciation maybe?
Get another job ASAP.
My husband gave me a key to his place on our 2nd date, a week after knowing eachother. I moved in shortly after. We were engaged by 3 months of dating and we've been married 6 years, he is my best friend and makes me beyond happy. Everyday is better than the last with him and I can easily see us together 60 years from now. I'm 28 and he is 31. I don't think there is ever a right time frame for every person. I've talked to so many people who had similar experiences to mine and are celebrating decades together. When you know, you know. I had no doubts about us being endgame. If you do, he may not be the person you're meant to be with or maybe you just need more time. Again, there is no right time frame for every person. If you feel like he is your person but you need more time, explain that to him.
Your relationship with your dad explains why you think it’s OK to be treated like shit by men. You need to break the cycle and realize that you’ll only get treated better when you believe that you deserve better.
Yes, be honest about your sexual past.
Hi OP. A good next step might be to on-line in different places for a while. And how hard that might be depends on what you do for work – as something like doing a contract gig at least a full days drive away might be a really good option. Or maybe keeping your current job – but working somewhere else for 6 months or a year.
Or just go ahead and do a real separation – which certainly wouldn't include living in the same house.
I would have your husband do the testing himself through a reputable company so he knows the results he gets aren’t tainted. Or you all go to the dr together so he knows it’s legit. Also, I would explain to him if his brother is making up an affair and claiming the kid may be his (not sure if that’s what you’re getting at or if he’s just trying to say you cheat) that if your husband tested it would say that the kid could be his. Paternity tests aren’t just positive and negative, they are done in percentages.
Try not to get mad at your husband, I’m sure it’s a be try confusing spot to be in. Just wait to get testing done and allow him to process and I’m sure he will apologize. After that though, he needs to cut his siblings out of his life or your marriage will never work out.
What are you talking about? You might be looking at another account. Do you wanna talk on snap you seem pretty chill. Since it’s okay to talk to other genders might as well be friends
I used a condom and I told him who I slept with before we got back together. He didn't like it but said that was fair. However for a few years after he had some insecurities about the closeness my ex (I didn't mention but the guy he hated was my toxic ex) and I shared while dating and sleeping together. However that has been long done with.
He didnt actually do anything wrong. I do feel bad about how I brought the ex back into my life for petty reasons. Yeah, maybe therapy will help. I have a therapist, we just stopped meeting awhile ago.
Ew. Dump him.
Even if it's illegal in your state, depending on how far along she is, she can get Plan C (pills) shipped to her state.
Check this:
r/auntienetwork
You have no money to have a baby according to what you wrote.
She was 19 when we started dating. She pursued me, but I don't see how this is relevant to my initial question about eye-rolling and respect. In most relationships the man is older, no? Is she a gold-digger? Goes both ways.
Why is a full grown woman dating a 19 year old? Who chose the open relationship? Why is she having unprotected s.x when she doesn’t want kids? So many questions…
This guy is bad news for multiple reasons, the most concerning being that he was ANGRY because he didn’t find you attractive enough at that moment. How tf would he react if you actually argued? Scary. Get out of there OP.
Nah there's no point saying that. Just say you aren't really into her. A good excuse would be to say you aren't interested in dating friends.
Idk what to do
Listen to your gut. I can tell from the tone of your post that you find this request as ridiculous as we do.
First, she must commit to you as a serious partner for a few months. Months. Like 4-6 months. Especially since she's actively seeing a man other than you while “casual”.
Then, you can discuss moving in together for several months. But she is moving into YOUR house, so she doesn't get to demand anything.
Only after being in the house for several months can you entertain any notion of kicking out your friend.
I feel like it's entirely possible that OP's friend doesn't even find his wife attractive.
I wonder if there would be much of an issue on OP's behalf or any of the other people upset in the comments if this was in fact true. I wonder if that even makes any difference, I know it would to me. Granted he could just lie about it, I understand that, but I genuinely feel like it makes a lot of sense in this scenario that this is all a bit more normal than we think it is if he does in fact not even consider his wife to be someone he would enjoy seeing hard.
People change and break up for far less dramatic reasons. You’re walking on egg shells around them it seems and reluctant, if not unwilling, to progress with this relationship if this transition continues due to these changes. Changes that will continue to snowball and if you’re pinning TikTok as an influencing factor, you’re not even close to understanding what’s going on in their head.
Two years together isn’t a ton of time and you’re in your mid-20s. Why would you want to stay around with someone you’d clearly be shamed with dating? And how would they feel once they figure that out?
So basically she dumped you because tough things were happening in life. And now she's reaping the benefits of a relationship well keeping you as a friend.
The summary of this is that your girlfriend sees her parents lack of commitment. And is lashing out at you subconsciously by also having a lack of commitment. No you shouldn't wait for somebody who is doing this.
A mature person would just acknowledge the bad things happen in life. And that when you feel overwhelmed you don't push people away. You go get help and you face those things at first with the people who have your back.
She definitely wanted this child and as far as her behavior goes she wants to control all aspects of it.
She definitely wanted this child and as far as her behavior goes she wants to control all aspects of it.
He has the right to know if they fucked. How they fucked not so much.
What your GF is doing is called “trickle truthing”
They slept next to each other. Only kissed.
Oh now, he went down on her.
Next week, well of course I had to give him a bj afterwards it’s only fair.
A week after that, oh we only slept together once! He couldn’t stay hard so we never tried again.
Month later, oh yeah it was only a few times. We always used protection.
Month later, nah we raw dogged it. It’s how I got the clap for the first time.
You’re taking everything she’s telling you as truth and fact. She lied to you by omission. She lied to your face that they only kissed.
What makes anything she says true now?
She’s giving you little hurts at a time in hopes you’ll be able to just get over it and move on. It’s a manipulative tactic
I agree with this. OP as a victim of prior DV abuse probably has an issue of making this an actual issue or just rolling over and taking it. She said in another comment she doesn't wanna end the relationship over such a silly thing.
How is it silly when ur partner calls u a horrible name and flips out on u for making a request? Does he not have enough self control to answer u like a grown fucking man?
And to only apologize when you start crying?
It's been 6 months.. u say he already is talking about marriage and kids and uve already let him move in not even 4 months into the relationship?
When people show you who they are… believe them!
Do u want another roundabout on the emotionally abusive and manipulative dude bus?
I was exactly like this.. grew up in a household where screaming and shouting was so common place i cldnt take anyone shouting at me as an adult.. i had to learn from my husband that no one ever needed to shout or yell or curse at me to get a point across. That's not how relationships work. But we accept it because part of us is so used to it that it's very easy to just place as a “mistake” on his part.
He knows what was coming out of his mouth, him getting pissed because ur telling him ur uncomfortable with him having intimate pictures of an ex still up and his response being to curse at u and say ur wrong for even telling him tht says alot about ur relationship.
Maybe you also need to focus more on urself because moving a dude in after 4 months is very very rushed for any relationship and screams that u want his validation.
He isn't perfect besides this… he isnt a great guy… he isn't loving.. my husband has never so much as called me a bitch in the 12 years I've known him. Even during heated arguments.
This isn't okay and again u get what u accept.
No one is this stupid. I call bullshit/fake.
If OP can’t see how messed up this is, they deserve to find their clothes on the porch.
He was uncomfortable too. Sorry if that is unclear in the post. And he would be uncomfortable if my male boss behaved like that with me. It was his idea to say something to his boss; I just don’t know if it’s worth it.
Probably find a new therapist.
Yeah the gf and her bf are massive red flags ?
I can't imagine surviving in a romantic relationship without sex. Your girlfriend is allowed to be asexual and you're allowed to want sex. You're 28 and still have a lot of great years ahead of you, do you really want to online a life without a passionate sexual connection with your partner?
You don't trust it, and for good reason. If that's her reasoning, you aren't actually going to get around it
Pretty simple. You don’t want kids, she seems to want them because that is a terrible control method. Condoms are such a non issue. I don’t understand her reasoning behind denying it. They have some good ones out there that you can barely tell and some fun ones too.
Start by asking her why she doesn’t want you to wear condoms. No means no, even for men. No condom, no sex. Simple as that.
He’s trickle truthing her 100%. It doesn’t add up because he’s not revealing the entire situation yet (or its severity, I imagine)
It sounds like you slept with the other person before you and your current GF became an actual item, which is ok.
What might not be ok is the half truth you told her when she asked. That may come back and bite you in the ass.
Your feelings are valid too. If you can’t be a source of her healing, which seems pretty clear, then it’s okay to admit it and not any to distance yourself. Things have clearly not been going well. Don’t invalidate your own feelings. She hasn’t been a good partner up to this moment. You don’t need to keep investing. You can’t heal her. She can only heal herself. But you can prioritize your own healing. It’s simply not a good set of circumstances to continue building a healthy relationship.
Just invite everyone out to dinner on an evening so nobody needs to take time off? Also planning a whole day with strangers can become uncomfortable if they don’t click, it’s better to make the initial meeting something shorter, no?
Thank you for your views on this, it’s really interesting for me to see. I struggle with the “targeting” thing because I don’t think he had a clue how young I was at first. We just met in passing in the venue and it kinda happened. Maybe I’m being naive
I don't know why you got downvoted but thanks for the advise
You are both adults and you feel good together. That's all that should matter. People will always find something to annoy you for and to justify shitty behavior towards you. If people you consider friends give you shit for this reason, just tell them firmly to stop. If they don't, just stop being friends with them.
How long were you together?
How did she treat you? Why did you not have a problem with nothing good treatment?
Was it her mom you lost it to? Good lord. I hope she sees the benefit of therapy. Other wise start looking for a divorce lawyer because this kind of behavior is not okay for you.
Are you more like a single hang out friend or his grooms men are like his party friends?
Going through a really hard break up right now. A part of me wants to keep her in my life but I know it’s not healthy. Maybe you guys can be friends years down the road, but being in love with him and wanting him back you will be miserable if you stay in contact.
Don’t do this to yourself.
Up until the last 3 months absolutely, our relationship has been amazing,
These last 3 months have been incredible hard for us and I’m sure I’ve probably caused some of the problems.
She has commented recently that she thinks she is depressed and feels like she needs more independence from myself and our family.
This is probably the first time in the 5 years we’ve been together that I’ve asked for her to respect a boundary so it’s unfamiliar territory to both of us.
As someone who lived this for a while LEAVE HER BE!!!!!! It will make your life so much easier and stress free. You will always be a distant number 2 and she will come running to him if he asks. Not worth it.
The main thing to keep in mind is that the reason you broke up still exists.
So why would this time be different?
FWB may be a good idea, as its less time consuming, but you'll still need to make the drive
Help her report him for rape and have him arrested and charged. Get her to a hospital for help. Help her find a psychologist that specializes in rape.