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I, 24F just married my husband, 29M roughly three months ago, we’ve been together three years… I am thinking about getting a divorce due to what I found in the crawl space in our closet. I found a kit with women’s lingerie, other intimates, and realistic male “toys” that are definitely not mine. After wondering if he was cheating on me I snooped through his phone and found out that the clothes and toys are for him. He dressed up and recorded a solo performance and posted it on an adult website. I also signed into that website and his watches video history is all guys dressed as girls with other guys. I feel betrayed. I know it isn’t exactly cheating but we’ve had arguments over this before. I’ve caught him sending pictures to guys before. He swears he loves me but I just don’t know
When you’re ready to settle down after finding the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with, she will find out about that time when you were 25 and were fwb with your friend’s 18yo sister. She will be absolutely disgusted by you. And she will find out about it because this will blow up in your face.
Seriously leave it he note. Let that be her last contact with you
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I, 24F just married my husband, 29M roughly three months ago, we’ve been together three years… I am thinking about getting a divorce due to what I found in the crawl space in our closet. I found a kit with women’s lingerie, other intimates, and realistic male “toys” that are definitely not mine. After wondering if he was cheating on me I snooped through his phone and found out that the clothes and toys are for him. He dressed up and recorded a solo performance and posted it on an adult website. I also signed into that website and his watches video history is all guys dressed as girls with other guys. I feel betrayed. I know it isn’t exactly cheating but we’ve had arguments over this before. I’ve caught him sending pictures to guys before. He swears he loves me but I just don’t know
When you’re ready to settle down after finding the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with, she will find out about that time when you were 25 and were fwb with your friend’s 18yo sister. She will be absolutely disgusted by you. And she will find out about it because this will blow up in your face.
Just because you go on a date doesn't automatically mean you are interested in something.