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Date: October 25, 2022
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I’m so sick of religion and religious groups pressuring women to stay in abusive and dangerous situation for the sake of that bullshit they’re preaching. These churches don’t give a fuck about God. It’s all pandering and social status. None of them give a fuck about what you are actually like as a person as long as you have a good Christian outward image.
Those assholes who would ditch you for leaving an abusive relationship can get fucked. They don’t know the first thing about God’s love if they think God would want you remaining in a house where you are hurting, where your daughter will learn to take abuse for herself.
Your husband is not a good person. He is lazy. He is selfish. He is greedy. He takes your money. He takes your time. He takes your health. All while giving 0 fucks about you. Do not raise your daughter to think this is what marriage is. Do not live! your life thinking this is what marriage is.
Marriage is your husband doing the dishes because you cooked. It’s your husband picking up the house because you’ve had a long day. It’s a partnership. Your husband is not a partner. You deserve better. Your daughter deserves better.
And you call this piece of useless trash your “best friend”? Would you ever treat your friend how he treats you? Honey you gotta have more respect and love for yourself. This is not okay.
Maybe you’re disappointed in yourself … Maybe the goals “she” set are still things you want but they’re too unrealistic ….
I don’t know about the toxic and manipulative -words you used for yourself actually fit you. It’s a strange friendship. It seems controlling and I imagine it makes you feel inadequate. And 5 years?????!! That’s bananas.
But you seem to want the vision she had for you- the focus needs to be in what you want for yourself and deal with your own disappointment and sense of unworthiness. The dream may be about what you want for your life but making it easier to reach so to speak.
Just a guess
More communication. Seems like maybe you two don't talk to each other about how you feel. Have you talked to him about how you feel when he doesn't call on the days he doesn't? Not that he doesn't call you but how you feel when he doesn't. Many relationships break up because they can't communicate.
OP, he's just treating you like a stern parent would treat a child. This is to be expected when a 45 y.o. moves a 22 y.o. in with them after only six months of a long distance “relationship”. It's never going to be equitable because that's not what he wants.