I love traveling and it’s a huge part of my life. I can’t imagine having a partner who didn’t share that love. It’s not just about a vacation to Hawaii, it’s about priorities, goals, a way of life…. My husband and I prioritize travel to the point that we budget and plan accordingly together. Travel wins out over a bigger house….travel wins out over renovation projects….for a long time travel won out over buying a house because where we lived at the time it would have meant we couldn’t afford to do both. Do you really want to live! a life with someone where you don’t share something that is important to you? And more importantly live! a life with someone who blatantly states, if not words but with actions, I know this is something you love and want to share with me but I’m just not interested.
Unfortunately leaving isn’t an option currently. I’ve been trying to deal and figure out how to communicate in a way he is receptive to in the meantime.
Tbh from this post alone the gf sounds more abusive(basically telling you to man up and handle pain) , while you sound massively immature.
I don't understand how you will lose the kids? Does something prevent you from keeping them if she decides she wants to take them back home with her?
You are their father aren't you?
I love traveling and it’s a huge part of my life. I can’t imagine having a partner who didn’t share that love. It’s not just about a vacation to Hawaii, it’s about priorities, goals, a way of life…. My husband and I prioritize travel to the point that we budget and plan accordingly together. Travel wins out over a bigger house….travel wins out over renovation projects….for a long time travel won out over buying a house because where we lived at the time it would have meant we couldn’t afford to do both. Do you really want to live! a life with someone where you don’t share something that is important to you? And more importantly live! a life with someone who blatantly states, if not words but with actions, I know this is something you love and want to share with me but I’m just not interested.
Unfortunately leaving isn’t an option currently. I’ve been trying to deal and figure out how to communicate in a way he is receptive to in the meantime.