I'm not at all surprised this started when you moved in. If it had happened before, you probably wouldn't have made such a commitment. They know this. Abusers often wait to start their abuse until after their victim is “trapped”. This typically involves moving in together, buying a house, getting married or getting pregnant. They absolutely know you're less likely to leave then.
The physical abuse and extreme jealousy/control started when I moved in with my ex. I should have known because he was jealous beforehand but I stupidly believed he'd be more relaxed if we lived together. By the time I realised I was terrifyingly wrong, I felt too stupid and embarrassed, and like my parents had committed too much financial help with moving to end it. Please don't make the same mistake I did, you should leave ASAP. Your friends and family will be supportive.
You've been dating only 10 months and she has a child you're already paying for. Did she suggest moving in? Why would you move in so early, with your child? Assuming you didn't know eachother before dating, you've got to be wondering about why she'd be okay with a near stranger living with her kid. She wants you to provide for it.
How many times do strangers on the internet need to tell you to dump her, before you actually do it or stop posting about her?
Yes, moment of fucking silence for this stupid shit.
I'm not at all surprised this started when you moved in. If it had happened before, you probably wouldn't have made such a commitment. They know this. Abusers often wait to start their abuse until after their victim is “trapped”. This typically involves moving in together, buying a house, getting married or getting pregnant. They absolutely know you're less likely to leave then.
The physical abuse and extreme jealousy/control started when I moved in with my ex. I should have known because he was jealous beforehand but I stupidly believed he'd be more relaxed if we lived together. By the time I realised I was terrifyingly wrong, I felt too stupid and embarrassed, and like my parents had committed too much financial help with moving to end it. Please don't make the same mistake I did, you should leave ASAP. Your friends and family will be supportive.
My guy…she is definitely using you.
You've been dating only 10 months and she has a child you're already paying for. Did she suggest moving in? Why would you move in so early, with your child? Assuming you didn't know eachother before dating, you've got to be wondering about why she'd be okay with a near stranger living with her kid. She wants you to provide for it.