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You're not being over dramatic, lack of sleep because one partner is a selfish asshole is unacceptable. Wearing headphones to keep the noise down at 2am in the morning is the basics from a partner that has any sort of respect for you. Sorry but if he is unable to understand or have basic empathy here these are warning signs you shouldn't ignore.
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Who gives a fuck what your weird friend group and exes did. Me and my friends would never do this shit to each other. It’s slimy and hurts peoples feelings. He should probably never talk to these two ever again
I assumed you'd go back to your old town. An hour away isn't the same thing as a state away. The court would take into account finances and figure out what works best.
Andrew is quite older than me, but thats quite my type (mature).
Sure, but what does a 37 year old professional see in a 24 year old who's still in school? Normally this comes with different life stages, different timelines, a maturity and life experience gap….
Tough for him, if you’re done then you’re done and quite frankly I’d get a restraining order on him if you can due to the fact you mentioned he’s violent. He doesn’t get to act like a child when you decide you’ve had enough. It’s not your job to convince him because it’s already done. If he doesn’t accept it then that’s his problem, not yours
OP – I say this with kindness, but your man is a cunt. You do not have to put up with this. Quite frankly, if he is complaining about you this way, it shows a level of disrespect. Women DO NOT have to put up with this sort of behaviour.
Next time he whispers even a word in this fashion – your response should be – I’m out. This is over. Goodbye.
I can understand where you're coming from. Neither of you are in the wrong here, she had the right to see others and you have the right to view it as a incompatible sign. For me, I can only see one person at a time and I'd want someone who does the(I'm just immediately turned off if they see multiple. Nothing wrong on their part, it's entirely my personal preference and relationship views)
In this case its really asking yourself if this was a deal breaker. Its early on so you can go either way. Talk it out with her calmly explaining your feelings and seeing where it leaves you. Don't be scared to mention it might be a sign you have conflicting views. That's OK!
Honestly, I wonder if there's some reason she does that. Doing that while you're asleep is a violation as she isn't getting consent from you.
Suggest to her that it's important that the two of you establish boundaries. It's a way to keep yourself safe and ensure the health and autonomy of both of you.
That being said, establishing boundaries doesn't mean you're going to get everything you want. If she wants to fuck every ten minutes and you were to want it every 10 days, that might suggest you're too far away to make it work without some sort of extra agreement to an open relationship or something. But if you want it once a day and she wants it twice a day, that's a discussion the two of you can have and establish a compromise.
Wow, that's some complacency. You think I'm below you because I'm a woman? Yes, I donate often (RFD, Desert Flower, HeartKids, Leukaemia Foundation MS Society etc.), I even donate to US citizens that can't afford healthcare, since I feel sorry for them that the health system is so crap there.
I've volunteered to provide food for elderly people, do tours to upkeep historic places, taught immigrant kids sports and all sorts. I've also wrote emails to change laws and have been successful in doing so. I could die tomorrow knowing I've done a lot to make life better for many people.
Know what’s fun? You and your girl can explore other women TOGETHER!! Crazy concept but hear me out…the fact that she’s into women is yet another thing you guys have in common! If she wants to fuck around without you toss her to the fucking side and let her have her cake without you waiting in the wings. Give her the freedom she’s requesting, hit the gym and know that you dodged a bullet.
You're not being over dramatic, lack of sleep because one partner is a selfish asshole is unacceptable. Wearing headphones to keep the noise down at 2am in the morning is the basics from a partner that has any sort of respect for you. Sorry but if he is unable to understand or have basic empathy here these are warning signs you shouldn't ignore.
And they were roommates
My husband finds out about them too but first I have to tell them “go ask ur dad” a hundred times
She didn't say yes to the sleepover, but that he can come in the morning.
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Who gives a fuck what your weird friend group and exes did. Me and my friends would never do this shit to each other. It’s slimy and hurts peoples feelings. He should probably never talk to these two ever again
I assumed you'd go back to your old town. An hour away isn't the same thing as a state away. The court would take into account finances and figure out what works best.
First step is to tell him. Second step is couple’s therapy if he wants it.
. We met on a dating site for established men.
You mean a sugar dating site?
Andrew is quite older than me, but thats quite my type (mature).
Sure, but what does a 37 year old professional see in a 24 year old who's still in school? Normally this comes with different life stages, different timelines, a maturity and life experience gap….
Tough for him, if you’re done then you’re done and quite frankly I’d get a restraining order on him if you can due to the fact you mentioned he’s violent. He doesn’t get to act like a child when you decide you’ve had enough. It’s not your job to convince him because it’s already done. If he doesn’t accept it then that’s his problem, not yours
OP – I say this with kindness, but your man is a cunt. You do not have to put up with this. Quite frankly, if he is complaining about you this way, it shows a level of disrespect. Women DO NOT have to put up with this sort of behaviour.
Next time he whispers even a word in this fashion – your response should be – I’m out. This is over. Goodbye.
So he’s either (1) a confusing, contradictory, incoherent communicator or (2) trying to pull a romantic bait and switch scam? Delightful.
I can understand where you're coming from. Neither of you are in the wrong here, she had the right to see others and you have the right to view it as a incompatible sign. For me, I can only see one person at a time and I'd want someone who does the(I'm just immediately turned off if they see multiple. Nothing wrong on their part, it's entirely my personal preference and relationship views)
In this case its really asking yourself if this was a deal breaker. Its early on so you can go either way. Talk it out with her calmly explaining your feelings and seeing where it leaves you. Don't be scared to mention it might be a sign you have conflicting views. That's OK!
Divorce hi, seriously you owe it to yourself and your daughter
Honestly, I wonder if there's some reason she does that. Doing that while you're asleep is a violation as she isn't getting consent from you.
Suggest to her that it's important that the two of you establish boundaries. It's a way to keep yourself safe and ensure the health and autonomy of both of you.
That being said, establishing boundaries doesn't mean you're going to get everything you want. If she wants to fuck every ten minutes and you were to want it every 10 days, that might suggest you're too far away to make it work without some sort of extra agreement to an open relationship or something. But if you want it once a day and she wants it twice a day, that's a discussion the two of you can have and establish a compromise.
Salted meats!
“Hey honey, just picked up some salami/kielbasa for you!”
Give her an ultimatum. Either she gets treatment for alcoholism or you leave. If she loves liquor more than she loves you why waste your time?
Wow, that's some complacency. You think I'm below you because I'm a woman? Yes, I donate often (RFD, Desert Flower, HeartKids, Leukaemia Foundation MS Society etc.), I even donate to US citizens that can't afford healthcare, since I feel sorry for them that the health system is so crap there.
I've volunteered to provide food for elderly people, do tours to upkeep historic places, taught immigrant kids sports and all sorts. I've also wrote emails to change laws and have been successful in doing so. I could die tomorrow knowing I've done a lot to make life better for many people.
Let go of your hate – you'll be much happier.
Why did this make me laugh so hot
Oh, he knows alright. He is already getting what he wants out of this relationship – support, and if the negging works – a victim
the real answer is to get with another girl, just as she is doing with another man.
this puts you on an even field. otherwise she will always have the upper hand on you and things can never feel the same.
Know what’s fun? You and your girl can explore other women TOGETHER!! Crazy concept but hear me out…the fact that she’s into women is yet another thing you guys have in common! If she wants to fuck around without you toss her to the fucking side and let her have her cake without you waiting in the wings. Give her the freedom she’s requesting, hit the gym and know that you dodged a bullet.