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Date: October 29, 2022
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If you feel no improvement through therapy, then you're with the wrong therapist or you don't want to get better.
Please don't take the latter point as an accusation. It's not meant as such. Basically, you are grieving because your relationship 'died'. And just like when a person dies, everyone grieves differently and needs a different amount of time to be ready to really move on. No therapist can magically teleport you through the grief.
When a partner dies, dating again also feels wrong to the one left behind. It feels like betraying the dead partner and like the last thing one would ever want…. for some time. For some people, it's just a few weeks, then they try to get a rebound relationship to be less miserable and lonely. Others need months or years and a few never date again. This is normal.
In a way, you, too, now have to grieve losing your wife. She's not dead, but she walked out of your life when it comes to the 'wife'-function. She's still the mother of your kids, but you have no more partner/wife. And sometimes, that can feel worse than death. Death means that the partner didn't mean to break up or leave you – the “breakup” was “done to them and you” by their passing. But a partner leaving means them willingly walking away. That can, indeed, be even more brutal if there is no hope of getting back together.
As such, you grieving and not being ready to move on is fine and normal. And until you are ready, you won't feel right dating other women – and that is also fine. It might take years. That's okay!
A therapist should, however, help you to start down the path of healing; away from suicidal thoughts. But there are hundreds of therapists. As someone who has had a good dozen in her life (as I've also been in psych wards because of OCD), I can absolutely tell you that not every therapist will be able to help you. There are some you just don't like and it's easy to see that those are wrong for you, but there are also those who are perfectly nice and you like them and talk to them and open up, but… they just don't help. You basically go there and it might be nice to have someone you can talk to, but in the end, that's all it is – “It was nice to chat”. No lasting change at all.
It's dangerous to get swept into such a therapy since it's nude to say what is working or not, since a therapist and you first need to get to know each other and all of that. And it's not like things magically get better after one or two sessions. But if, after half a year, you don't feel like things changed, you might need a different therapist or a different form of therapy. I don't know what you had so far, but maybe you need trauma therapy or grief therapy. Maybe you just need to see a different therapist while staying with your current therapy type. But please don't give up on therapy if you're suicidal!
I have never before heard that in my almost half a century of life. To each their own, but there is nothing weird or wrong about wearing underwear to bed.
If you're just concerned for your girlfriend's safety, then the worry about being “taken for a fool” doesn't come into play at all, because you know it's not about you.
okayy I hear u, imo this girl seems the type to take advantage, my gf is naive and this girl has evidently taken advantage of her naivety whilst under the guise of 'girl friends'.
Me not wanting to be taken for a fool rrly plays into her touching my gf in ways I find inappropriate esp with what I heard that happened between them. I feel like I'm being taken for a fool bcs this girl would say lowkey vile shit to my gf abt a sexy top and stealing her from me and while doing so tracing her finger down the middle of her chest, and then not being able to greet me normally. I didnt expect hugs a simple hi how are u didn't even happen cos she didn't look me in my eyes which initially put me off and made me thing something happened. also I think it's important to add that after the 'edible arrangement' my gf said that she felt v weird after it and she didn't like it and didn't want that to happen. she had no reason to lie to me as this happened way b4 our relationship and my gf doesn't swing that way.
I think she seems very comfortable with her friend touching her up. but I am not esp knowing what I know and seeing what I've seen. it's honestly fkn weird.
I don't think she's unfaithful I think she doesn't think abt what's happening in the moment I think she's blinded by their friendship that she doesn't see the inappropriateness in the situation at hand.
“They will always end up married to the next girl they can lay their paws on.”
Is my experience. Happy or not… just put a lock on it so it doesn't run.
And why would he keep them afterwards? To read them better?