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Date: November 4, 2022
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Yeah, it went badly and I was labeled as “mentally unstable” when I was in college. I've since covered myself up and convinced the few people i still talked to from school that I rebounded and I'm fine now.
I'll give surface level bullshit to people when talking about my problems, but I don't go very deep and I downplay it pretty hot.
Your sister is unreasonable – there isn’t much to do about that. As long as you and your bf are both happy, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with your relationship.
You should absolutely stand your ground on this, don’t apologize to her for anything. Like a child having a tantrum, she needs to work out her irrational behavior on her own and join the adults once she’s ready. If she’s unhappy with him being at Christmas, she can skip it.
Yes, you can [and should] break up with him if you think you deserve better, and you are not satisfied with the connection between the two of you.
Its understandable to feel a bit guilty over unintentionally using him as a therapists/etc. Both of you made mistakes. Both of you are still learning and growing as people (as we all are).
Consider what you wrote
tbh most those reasons he was rude to me after I was venting and stuff was kinda my fault bc I kept bringing up the same problems in my life and unintentionally using him as a therapist , it’s no excuse for him to be rude but I feel bad for draining him and I did that a lot ,but the past couple of months i’ve always been asking him “are you drained ,should I stop “etc bc he doesn’t have much to talk about like at all and I love talking so I end up filling empty space with whatever’s happening which surprise surprise isn’t good most times and j like to update him too I had no bad intent
Obviously this is just a one-off from someone on the internet, but in this case it sounds like you were both in the wrong. He shouldn't be rude to you, but its also unreasonable to expect your partner to be your therapists.
Yes he should be there for you and to listen to you, but you should also be putting the emotional work in so as not to be a burden on someone else.
You probably will regret breaking up, at times. But ultimately it sounds like that's what you need to be able to get what you want in the long run.
Take some time to be single and work on yourself. No one is going to make you happy in the long run if you can't be happy with who you are.
It's his family, and he does get to choose who he includes within that. Not everyone wants their SO to be involved in everything after only one year.
That being said? This is definitely something that you two should have talked about before the wedding. Not out in public obviously, but together so you could both understand how the other feels. It sounds like he took unilateral action on you and expected you to just be okay with it? Also not cool.
I really hope you two can put aside some time to talk when he gets back.
Oh man you didn’t even make it out of the honeymoon phase. Therapy is reserved for when you have a foundation already, but you haven’t even started making the bricks yet. This early in a relationship, just leave. You owe her nothing.
I know right? This guy is clearly just a horrible person. I dread to think how he speaks to his girlfriend.