Abortion is healthcare. You have every right to use this service when you need to. There is no need to feel shame about this. You were very young, the father left you, your parents would have been unsupportive. It wouldn’t have been a good situation for you or the baby.
Your BF is being abusive and cruel holding this over you. Don’t get married to him and certainly don’t hVe a baby with him. He will hold your perfectly valid healthcare choices over you for the rest of your life.
He’s not worth your time or energy and certainly not your love and care.
There’s more to this. Do you and her fiancé not get along? It sounds like she did this intentionally so she would have a reason to cut you out of her life. 20 isn’t a minor and 4 years age difference isn’t much.
Stop trying to reach out to her. She’s the one who should be begging you to speak to her, not the other way around.
Abortion is healthcare. You have every right to use this service when you need to. There is no need to feel shame about this. You were very young, the father left you, your parents would have been unsupportive. It wouldn’t have been a good situation for you or the baby.
Your BF is being abusive and cruel holding this over you. Don’t get married to him and certainly don’t hVe a baby with him. He will hold your perfectly valid healthcare choices over you for the rest of your life.
He’s not worth your time or energy and certainly not your love and care.
There’s more to this. Do you and her fiancé not get along? It sounds like she did this intentionally so she would have a reason to cut you out of her life. 20 isn’t a minor and 4 years age difference isn’t much.
Stop trying to reach out to her. She’s the one who should be begging you to speak to her, not the other way around.